【從恐懼到豐盛】覺醒後我的收入翻了16倍！普通人也能追夢成功｜🦌

行动会消除恐惧 而犹豫只会让恐惧壮大 今年对我来说是很神奇的一年 我的创业收入翻了16倍 却不是因为我变得更加努力 而是我终于开始学会不再和生活对抗 这让我在轻松好玩的状态下 一一实现了自己的梦想 经济独立 轻松瘦身 自信自爱

所以今天的这支影片 我想要和你分享五个心态 如何在快乐富足的状态下 实现真正想要的人生 天地与我并生，而万物与我为一 Hello大家好 我是小鹿 先来做一个简单的自我介绍 我是从湖南长大 然后到了11岁去了香港念书 再到后来的有四年的大学时间呢 我是在台湾念的书 所以其实我算是一个

从小就到处流浪的一个小朋友 但其实取而代之的就是 我也是一个非常缺爱 没有自信心的人 因为在我小的时候 我就知道自己并不是一个成绩很好 而且我的父母常年都不在我的身边 所以对于我来说 过往的20多年以来 其实我都活在一个 非常匮乏的一个生活状态里面 但是在到上一年的时候

我就选择了裸辞 接着就开始自己创业 做自媒体 再到现在我也终于实现了自己的梦想 边旅行然后边做着自己喜欢的工作 所以其实我一直都相信 每一个人 他都可以活在自己理想中 并且热爱的那种生活里面 这也是为什么有了今天的影片 想要跟大家分享5个非常重要 改变我人生的心态 它帮助我 不只是在我的精神内在世界

非常的幸福 跟富足 并且也帮助我在外部的物质世界上 可以真实的赚到钱 那么在影片开始之前呢 我想要跟大家分享一个 对我影响非常深远的一个概念 而这个概念便是我会一直的提醒自己 我们每一个人赤裸裸的来到这个世间 同样在我们离开世间时 也无法带走任何的东西 只有当我保持这样的心态

我会发现在这一生中 我没有什么可以去失去 因为本来就没有什么东西 会永远的属于我 所以当我在创造财富跟幸福的时候 一切都会变得轻盈跟自在 因为我是在享受这个过程 而不是在执着某个结局 真正的富足 不是你拥有多少 而是当你不再害怕失去 现在来到我们的第一步

摆脱限制性思维 简单来说 就是在我们小的时候 父母一直传输给我们的一些观念 又或者是整个世俗还有教育体系 它不断告诉我们的一些想法 而当我们坚定的相信 他们所说的是真的时候 我们就会开始对自己有所限制 我们会觉得自己不配拥有更好的人生 自己也不可能成功 所以在这里呢

我跟大家举三个非常常见 也是过往 限制我非常非常深的一些信念 第一个限制性思维 那就是钱很难赚 于是我们接受了自己不喜欢的生活 以及工作 因为我们觉得做自己喜欢的事情 是赚不到钱的 第二个限制性思维 我还不够好 于是我们不敢开始 因为我们总觉得自己不够别人强 自己的能力不好 第三个限制性思维

资源是匮乏的 钱是有限的 于是我们总是停留在原地 因为我们觉得市场已经饱和了 即使我去创业 我也赚不到钱 所以在这里呢 我会跟大家分享3个我的故事 我是如何一步步 突破这三个限制性思维 第一个限制性思维 我们会觉得赚钱很难 其实过往 我一直一直 就是被我父母传输这样的观念 所以总是会觉得

如果我在做一个我不喜欢做的工作 好像是一件很正常的事情 但是后来的转机是在我大学毕业之后 我开始正式出来找工作 我有很长的一段时间 其实我是在餐厅做服务员 甚至我也去做过摄影师 但其实我喜欢摄影 但我不喜欢做摄影师 在我做自己不喜欢做的工作的时候 我会真的觉得感受到很痛苦 很乏味就是我觉得

我的人生难道就要这样了吗 所以我决定要开始去突破 赚钱很难 做自己不喜欢的工作 的这一个限制性思维 我决定打破它 我就是要去找到我想要做什么工作 什么工作会让我感受到开心 我要边开心边赚钱 后来我就辞职 然后又去换了另外一份工作 我做了“市场行销” 在一个健身房 那一份工作呢

其实我也蛮有热情的 然后在从中也学到了很多的知识 而在那个时候学到的一些知识 又恰恰的可以运用在 我现在做YouTube的一些方面上 我觉得很重要的其实是 永远不要去放弃去寻找你的热爱 一旦你选择了妥协 那么你永远就会在原地 去接受那个你不喜欢的东西 当你能够看见到你这个限制性思维 然后去做出改变 其实是非常重要的一步

第二个限制性思维就是我还不够好 所以我不敢开始 其实是大概在6年前 就是在我大一的时候 那个时候我就看到很多Youtuber 我就特别羡慕他们 但是我因为觉得自己的能力不够 我很害羞 我不敢面对镜头说话 所以那个时候的我就羡慕了4年 然后我拖拖拖拖拖到了很后面 到大学毕业了 在那个时候

我就决定突破自己的恐惧 开始拿起相机去记录自己的生活 所以如果大家去翻看我旧的影片 你会发现我当时无论是我的剪辑技巧 又或者是我的一些说话的逻辑 其实我根本就不是现在的这个状态 所以其实 如果当你觉得我还没有准备好 所以我不开始 那么你永远都不可能达到 你想要的那个状态

因为没有人一开始就是成功的状态 而是一步一步的去慢慢的进步 然后去让自己在失败当中去成长 而第三个限制性思维就是 资源是匮乏的 钱是不够的 钱永远是给有钱人的 我们是赚不到钱的 我发现 如果我们从这一个信念去出发的时候 我们永远是在往外面找原因

因为我们会觉得是这个世界 它的这一套模式导致我没有钱 而不是我的原因 但是其实大家有没有想过 也许是我的产品不够好 也许是我现在的能力还不够 也许是我提供的价值还不够 所以其实可能这个世界 它一直都是有金钱在流动 但是是因为 你自身还没有挖掘出你的价值

所以这个世界它没有办法给你回馈 我简单的拿我自己做举例来说 像我自己做自媒体 两三年前就有很多人跟我说 现在的市场已经饱和啦 自媒体太多人做啦 你现在做 根本就没有人看 什么什么的 再到今年现在我的收入比较稳定之后 我就发现原来是真的 这个市场它一直都有观众 然后金钱也是富足的

只是可能过往的我的能力 还没有办法帮我吸引到这些东西 来到我的身边 所以在这里我想要跟大家总结 非常重要的一点 就是帮助我们吸引到金钱 富足跟幸福的 其实并不是要去成为第一名 并不是要去成为一个完美的自己 而是去做真实的你 大家如果看我的影片 就会发现 我的主题主要是围绕着旅行

然后再结合了一些哲学 身心灵的一些话题 而这个就成为了我的独特之处 这样子看的话 你就会发现 论剪辑来说 我绝对不是第一名 因为很多人他们剪的都比我厉害 他们会特效 还有更多很有趣的一些音效 但其实我的影片相对的会平淡一些 再说像旅行 我也不是非常厉害去拍旅游的内容

因为大家会看到我拍那些吃的 然后拍那些风景 其实我真的不及 那些专业拍旅行博主来的厉害 但恰恰就是这个样样都行不通 但是样样都会一点的我 它就成为了这个独一无二的我 所以其实我觉得能够帮你赚到钱的 他并不是要你去拿个什么第一名 当你能够创造出一个独一无二

只属于你的东西的时候 也许那个就是你的价值所在 真正的富裕 是物质与精神的共同富裕 是发掘你内在的价值与别人的内在价值 而我们的第二步呢 就是不要过度思考 我们要做的其实是「思考接着行动」 就是很多时候 我们会把自己太多太多的能量跟时间 消耗在去思考这件事情

结果导致我们迟迟都没有行动 虽然像我刚刚上一步所说 我们要去察觉到自己脑海的那个声音 但是其实有时候 你要做的就是察觉到就可以了 接着当你有灵感 当你有一件想做的事情 不要再去沉溺在你脑海中的那个思维 而是通过行动告诉你答案 这个真的是我 用了这一年多的时间 一次又一次的

慢慢的去克服自己 这个过度思考的这一个问题 在这里我可以举两个例子 第一个例子呢 就是关于事业 就是我做YouTube的这件事情 如果我不断的过度思考 我究竟会不会成功 我究竟要怎么做 然后我拖拖拖 花了很多时间就只是在空想 但是我不去行动的话 其实到最后什么都得不到 但只有当我去发布影片 然后不断的去试错

不断的去看 我要怎么去调整 然后在这个过程中我才会得到反馈 我才会知道我的内容有没有人喜欢 所以他只有行动 他才会引领你去更好的方向 但如果你只是空想的话 你永远得不到你想要的答案 因为他只是在你脑海中不断的转 不断的转 不断的转 他只会不断的消耗你的时间 跟你的能量 像我自己觉得 要面对迷茫期

最好的方法就是不断的去尝试 以及体验新的东西 当你在不断的体验当中 你会慢慢的通过自己的感受 然后去找到我究竟喜欢什么 我对什么有兴趣 而这一些感受 它才是引领着你 去成为那个 你想要成为的那个版本的自己 而第二个例子呢 其实就是关于感情 因为我自己之前

就是一个非常彻头彻脑的一个恋爱脑 我过去可能在我旅行之前 我谈过4段的恋爱 然后在那4段恋爱 其实我并不是那么了解自己 我总觉得好像有点不太对劲 因为我总是会在爱情中很迷失自己 所以我其实不太会怎么爱 但真的就是在我旅行后的这一年 我开始多出去约会 虽然我没有谈恋爱

也没有找到合适的伴侣 但是我会发现在这个过程中 无论我是遇到一些好的 或者是说所谓不好的男生 但是他们某程度都教会了我很多东西 而在这些约会的过程中 其实我就是慢慢的去看到 我究竟想要找怎样的伴侣 然后以及去照见 我自己是一个怎样性格的人 所以我会觉得

无论是在感情或者是在事业 包括我们生活各个方面 其实是需要去行动 需要去感受这个世界 去感受自己的感受 Action dispels fear while hesitation only makes it grow 而第三步就是突破恐惧 允许失败发生 这一点呢 其实当你能够做到第二点 也就是你想到什么

你开始去行动的时候 在这个过程你就会发现 也许你90%的时间你都会不断的去撞墙 然后不断的失败 特别是你在想做 一件事情的初期 你还完全没有头绪的时候 是失败非常非常 非常常发生的一个阶段 而我们人面对失败的这种恐惧感 其实是非常非常的难受 因为过去很长的一段时间

我都处于在那种 非常恐惧失败的那种感受 就是我每一次发影片的时候 我就会心慌的特别厉害 因为我不知道怎么去面对那种未知 我也不知道怎么去面对 那种失败的感觉 因为像我做自媒体 如果我的影片流量不好 也就代表我没有收入 所以当我的金钱 跟我要做的事情挂钩的时候 我那种恐惧感就会特别的强烈

在这里我会跟大家分享3点 帮助我突破失败的恐惧 第一点呢 其实是我很久之前 在香港上行销课程的一个老师 他跟我说过这样一段话 如果有人问他如何避免失败 他会告诉那个人 你没有办法避免失败 因为你100%你会失败 这句话其实非常的有智慧 我当时不怎么听得懂 再到现在我才彻底的明白

我会发现失败跟成功它就是对立两面 你没有办法脱离失败达到成功 也就是说你想要达到成功的这个目的 你不可能摆脱的就是你绝对会失败 你绝对要不断的试错 然后去摸索的当中 你才会慢慢找到 你究竟想要做的是什么 而第二点就是重新定义失败 因为很多时候呢

我们都会站在当下的节点 去判断现在生活所发生的一件事情 也就是说在我现在 可能我发了一支影片 我觉得没有人看 这个就是失败 但是我看不到的是 也许我做了这个行为 他会在另外的一个角度 他告诉了我哦 原来我发布这支影片这个主题 它并不适合我 所以我已经排除了一个主题不适合我

其次在我做这个影片的同时 我又进一步的 去提升了自己的剪辑技巧 所以其实当发生了一件坏的事情 如果我们只看到了他坏的那一面 他的那个当下的结果 你就看不到其实他更宏观 或者是说他的另外相反的一面 所以其实失败也许他并不是失败 只是你选择了把他看作失败

因为有时候你会发现 在你生活中发生那些很难过的事情 比方说失恋失业 或者是一些可能不愉快的事情发生 他也许只是当下的节点 你觉得是一件难过跟一件失败的事情 可是如果你把它放进你的生命的洪流 你把这个时间维度拉长的时候去看 你就会发现它也许就是 推动你成长的那一件事情

第三个能够帮助我突破恐惧的 是我很喜欢的一句话 物极必反 否极泰来 它的意思也就是说 事物一旦发展到了一个极点 它就一定会向相反的方向去转变 也就是当一个坏的情况到头了 那么也就意味着好的情况就会来临 无论是我们人类 还是整个大自然 都是跟随这一个规律去运行的 就比方说无论冬天再长

那么春天也一定会回归 同时无论你再怎么痛苦 时间它也会慢慢淡化你的这种痛苦 我们不会永远的都处在低谷 我们也不会永远的处于顶峰 就是因为这句话 在我很多很多时候 我非常低谷期 我觉得自己很孤独 我觉得自己很失败 我觉得自己很穷 没有钱没有人爱的时候 我都知道这只是这个阶段的我

因为我绝对的相信它会过去的 所以当我能够理解到这一点的时候 失败它就变得没有那么恐惧了 走出来，相信自己，不断前进 直到你感觉到焦虑不适 你才会发现你在成长 而第四点就是先成为再拥有 这个也是吸引力法则所说到的一点 就是我们要先去带入自己 去成为那个我已经是的状态

然后接着你就会拥有一切 你想要的那些东西 简单来说就是如果我想要变得很有钱 我要先去想象自己有钱的那个状态 然后当我先去成为那个状态 那么我就会吸引到金钱 这一路以来呢 无论是我减肥 又或者是我想要吸引金钱 其实很多时候我都不会去问 我什么时候才能达到我的目标？

而是我会去问我自己 如果现在的我 已经成为了那个版本的自己 我会去做怎样的行为 但是在这里呢 大家可能会发现 我真的很难去代入 我想要成为的那个状态 就是也许我想要成为一个很瘦的人 想成为一个很有钱的人 但是因为我没有体验过瘦的状态 我也没有体验过 成为一个有钱人是怎样的状态

所以我没有办法去成为那个状态 所以对于很多人来说 这一点是非常难去成为那个状态的 其实在这里非常简单的一点 就是你要去接受现在的你自己 因为很多人 为什么他没有办法去成为的大前提 原因是因为 你还不喜欢现在此时此刻的自己

当你觉得现在的我是不好的 现在的我是匮乏的 现在的我是穷的 现在的我是不够瘦的 当你一直在一个匮乏的状态下 你的能量就是抵抗 你的心就是在抵抗 你觉得现在的你还不够好 在这里举一个我的例子就说 在我有很长一段时间 我可能真的没有什么钱 但是我又想要继续的旅行

继续做自媒体 但是我的钱包的的确确就是 我没有什么存款 我就1万多 我把它花光了就已经没了 但是当时呢 我做了一个非常不同的举动 就是我不再像过往一样 因为像过往呢 我就非常的抵抗那个时候的我自己 我觉得自己很穷 我觉得父母看不起我 我觉得自己还不够好 所以我很多的能量呢 就是处于在一个抵抗的状态 但是后来呢

我慢慢的就开始接受 我开始去接受现在此时此刻的我 就是这个样子的 我就是没有什么存款 但是我活在了一个 我可能很喜欢的一个生活状态下 所以在这里也有很重要的一点 就是你能不能看到你现在拥有什么 也许是我拥有非常健康的身体 我即使钱不多 但是我在过我自己想要的生活 就是在这样的一个转变下

我开始接受当时的我自己 然后我就把我更多的能量 去享受我现在生活的此时此刻 因为我会发现 我会看到更多 我平时看不到的那些美好 而只有当我的心是开放的 接着它帮助我吸引到了 可能我更多的一些拍摄影片的灵感 又或者是 它帮助了我 可以去想到一些更好的一些题材

等等之类的 所以这一切就是基于 我先去接受我是谁 然后我去看到自己拥有什么 我感受到自己其实已经是富足的 是健康的 是有活力的 接着我再去创造出有价值的东西 而这一切 就会变成了一个正向的一个循环 所以在这里呢 其实我是非常鼓励大家 可以去写一个你一天的一个清单 也就是说

你可以去写下我想要成为怎样的人 然后那个人他这一天他会做什么 也许是早上的时候 我会先起来去吃一个健康的早餐 接着我会去上班 然后下班之后呢 我会去做一个小时的运动 运动之后 我会去看一部自己喜欢的电影 等等之类的 你就把你想要成为的那个人的 那一天会做什么 你把它写下来

然后让自己一步一步的去靠近这个人 你并非在发现自己 而是在重新创造自己 别执着于发现你是谁 而要专注于决定你想成为谁 那么最后一步就是不要设定时间 而是活在当下 我知道 大家可能看一些成功学的书籍啊 或者是你过往可能习惯性的 当你设定了一个目标 你会很喜欢去设定一个时间

我要在今年什么时候达到什么目标 我要在几个月瘦多少斤 但是在我这一路以来 无论是我读显化的书籍 又或者是我看身心灵的书籍 以及包括爱因斯坦他所说的相对论 他都告诉我们一个事实 那就是时间它其实并不存在 因为时间只是 人类创造出来的一种概念 它只是为了协调人类的社会运转

让我们可以在同一个时间维度下 进行合作 当你学会把脑中 关于时间的这个概念抹去 你就会发现 你只是你活在此时此刻 你除了你此时此刻的这个念头 除了此时此刻的这一个你之外 别无他物 在这里 我说一点实际的 就是大家知不知道 我花了多久才成为了一个能够赚钱 然后让自己收入稳定的YouTube

其实如果认真来算 从我发布 我的第一支YouTube的那一支影片 开始再到现在至起码有三年的时间 我才走到今天的这一步 包括像我这一次减肥 可能我从今年年头再到现在 已经过了10个月 我才获得了自己非常理想的 一个身形的一个状态 而这一切又花了将近一年的时间 所以如果当我告诉你

我达到我的目标用了三年 用了一年 用了半年等等之类的 也许你就会发现好像 变得不是那么的吸引 因为我们习惯了 去看那些速成的成功学 速成的一些方法论 然后我们就非常的不自觉的会陷入中 我想要追逐快速的成功方法 但事实就是 当我告诉你 我花了很长的时间

才达到我想要的那一个目的的时候 那么我花的这一些时间 对你来说真的重要吗 而换个角度来说 你花了多少时间成功 对于别人来说也一样都不重要 无论你是花了5年10年20年 只要你成功了 那就可以了 就是只要你能够达到你的目标 其实你花多长的时间没有人在意

很多人就是太在乎别人 去怎么看自己 如果我现在辞职创业啊 如果我这半年成功不了怎么办啊 我两年成功不了怎么办 我们太习惯的去陷入了 时间的这个框架 但是我想要告诉你的重点是 你的目标 其实并不是在于你要多久达成目标 而是你只要完成就可以了 所以我想跟大家说的是

其实无论你现在年纪多大 也许你30岁40岁50岁60岁 再或者是说 无论你现在已经追梦多久了 5年10年20年又好 那又怎么样呢 这个就是属于你的人生 这个就是属于你能够真真切切感受到 让你活着的事情 所以其实这已经是你 很大很大的一个收获 因为你正在追逐一件你很想要的东西

所以不要去活在时间里 当你活在时间里 其实你会发现 你经常会陷入可能对于过去的懊悔 又或者是对于未来的那些模糊的幻想 但是真正最有能量 最有力量的时刻只有此时此刻 只有当你全心全意的活在这一个当下 当你去创造 当你去发现 当你去感受

当你去体验你生命的这一秒的时候 接着你就会发现 有非常非常多的灵感 或者是说非常棒的人 非常神奇的事情 它就是会发生在你的生命当中 但如果当你发现 你把你的能量放在过去 放在未来 又或者是放在你脑海中的那些纠结 那些思想 那些害怕 那些恐惧 你就会发现你没有办法去创造 你没有办法去打开你的心

去感受你现在能够感受到的东西 奇迹永远都只会发生在此时此刻 好的的作品 从不与时间竞赛 或早或晚终将闪闪发光 在影片的最后 我想要跟大家分享 非常非常重要的一句话 它是来自于我很久之前看的一个博主 他所说的一句话 那个时候 其实我还不理解 他说的这句话是什么意思

他就说我可以不相信我自己 但我绝对的相信命运 大家可以将命运理解成上帝 又或者是这个宇宙 那个时候的我不理解 是因为我一直都觉得 命运是掌握在我自己手中的 我才是我自己人生的掌握者 所以我是有意识的在生活 但恰恰就是这一年开始 我自己一个人旅行 我遇到了很多的朋友

发生了很多的事情 特别是在这半年 我学会了臣服 开始去看生命它究竟想要带给我什么 之后我会发现 很多事情都我没有办法解释 非常的神奇 它就好像真的有那么第三只手 在掌控着我的人生 会在我低谷期 在我不知所措 在我非常迷茫的时候 安排某一本书 某一个电影

某一个人来到我的生命当中 去引领着我去走我该走的路 我开始慢慢的意识到 原来我想要成为那个理想中的自己 其实我没有办法脱离的是这个宇宙 这个世界 还有每一个你们 以及包括此时此刻 也许并不是偶然 你会看到我的影片 你会遇见我 也许是你的灵魂深处

他渴望吸引到跟你同频的人 所以在我感知到这一切之后 我也慢慢的可以理解 在一年前 我读到书中有这样的一句话 万物皆为一 我那个时候也不懂这句话是什么意思 我在来到清迈 之后的某一个瞬间 我突然明白了 我突然能够感知到那是一种感受 我没有办法描述的感受就是 你就是我

我就是你 我是跟这个世界的万物是融入一体的 因为我们都是来自于 无数亿年前的那一次 宇宙大爆炸的每一粒原子 在那一次的宇宙大爆炸当中 我们就已经相遇过了 你的原子跟我的原子 就已经碰撞过一次了 所以这不是我们第一次相遇 突然说的我好想哭

我其实不确定我相不相信轮回 但是就是一种感觉 我觉得也许我们一直都认识 也许我们真的可能在某程度来说 我们一直都是那一个一 我们都是来自那一次大爆炸当中的 那一个东西 我不知道该怎么形容

所以我想这也是为什么 我很爱这个世界 很爱我生命当中的每一个人 无论是对我好的人 对我不好的人 我都很爱他们 他们都教会了我如何成长 如何去爱我自己 我知道今天的影片 可能对于你来说 有很多东西也许你一早就知道了 但是好像就是很难去实践在生活当中

但是其实我自己也是花了一年的时间 一年半 然后慢慢的去实践这一些东西 它真正的去如何落实在我的生活当中 所以它其实是需要时间去实践的 你不需要着急 慢慢来就是用你自己的道路 用你自己的方式 用你自己的节奏 去活出属于你自己的人生 我相信

如果我能够走到今天这一步的话 那么你一定也可以做到 然后在影片的最后 我想要送给大家海灵格的一首诗 你所经历的一切都是为了唤醒你 如果爱不能唤醒你 就用痛苦唤醒你 如果痛苦不能唤醒你 就用更大的痛苦唤醒你 如果更大的痛苦不能唤醒你 那就用失去唤醒你

如果失去不能唤醒你 那就用生命唤醒你 如果生命不能唤醒你 那就用轮回唤醒你 直到你醒来 Because we all come from the Big Bang that happened billions of years ago.

every atom of the Big Bang.

in that Big Bang, we have already met.

Your atoms and my atoms have collided once.

This year has been a magical year for me.

My entrepreneurial income has increased 16 times not because I worked harder, but because I finally learned to stop against life This allowed me to achieve my dreams and realized my dreams one by one.

Financial independence.

lose weight easily, self-confidence, and self-love.

So in today's video, I want to share with you five mindsets how to achieve the life you really want to achieve the life you really want.

Heaven and Earth were born with me all things and I are one Hello everyone I'm Lowang Let me first introduce myself briefly.

I grew up in Hunan, and then at the age of 11, I went to study in HK Then I spent four years in college.

I studied in Taiwan.

So actually I am a a child who has been wandering around But in fact, what replaced it was I am also a person who lacks love and lack self-confidence.

Because when I was young, I knew I wasn't a good student and my parents were not around me all the time.

So for me, in the past twenty years, I have been living in a very poor state of life.

But last year, I chose to quit my job.

and then started my own business.

doing self-media, And now I have finally realized my dream.

traveling and doing the work I love.

So actually, I have always believed that everyone can live in their ideal and the life they love.

That's why I made today's video I want to share with you five very important that changed my life.

It helps me not only in my spiritual inner world very happy with wealth but also in the external material world, to earn real money.

Before the video starts, I want to share with you a a concept that has had a profound impact on me.

which is that I will always remind myself that we all come into this world naked, and when we leave this world, we can't take anything with us.

Only when I keep this mentality, I will find that in this life, I have nothing to lose.

Because there is nothing that will belong to me forever.

So when I create wealth and happiness, everything will become lighter and more comfortable.

Because I am enjoying the process, instead of clinging to a certain outcome.

True abundance isn't about how much you own but about not being afraid to lose anything Now let's come to the first step.

get rid of restrictive thinking.

Simply put, when we were young, ideas that our parents have been instilling in us.

or the whole secular and educational system that constantly tells us some ideas.

And when we firmly believe that what they say is true, we will start to limit ourselves.

we feel that we don't deserve a better life, and we can't succeed.

So here, I'll give you three examples that are very common.

and in the past, beliefs that have deeply limited me.

The first limiting belief is that money is hard to earn.

So we accept the life we don't like and jobs.

we think that doing what we like we can't make money.

The third limiting belief is that resources are scarce.

I'm not good enough.

so we dare not start.

we always feel that we are not as good as others.

and our abilities are not good.

The third limiting belief is Resources are scarce.

and money is limited.

so we always stay where we are.

because we think the market is already saturated.

Even if I start a business, I can't make money.

So here, I will share with you three of my stories.

how I gradually to break through these three limiting thoughts.

The first limiting belief we think making money is difficult.

In fact, in the past, I have always that I was told by my parents.

So I always felt that if I was doing a job I didn't like, it seemed like a normal thing.

But the turning point came after I graduated I started to look for a job formally.

For a long time, I actually worked as a waiter in a restaurant.

and even I worked as a photographer.

But I actually like photography.

but I didn't like being a photographer.

when I was doing a job I didn't like, I really felt very painful and bored.

and boring, I felt that Is this how my life is going to be?

So I decided I was going to start breaking through Making money is hard doing a job I don't like.

limiting mindset.

I decided to break it.

I just need to find what job I want to do and what job will make me feel happy.

I want to make money while being happy.

And then I quit.

and then changed to another job.

I did "marketing" in a gym.

That job, I was actually quite passionate about it.

And I also learned a lot of knowledge from it.

And some of the knowledge I learned at that time can be applied to some aspects of my current YouTube work.

I think it's important that never give up and find your passion.

Once you choose to compromise, you will always be in the same place.

you will accept the things you don't like.

When you can see your limiting mindset and then make changes, it is actually a very important step.

The second limiting belief is that I'm not good enough.

so I dare not start.

It was about six years ago, when I was a freshman.

I saw many YouTubers at that time, I was very envious of them.

but I felt that I was not capable enough, I was shy, and I was too shy to speak in front of the camera.

I envied them for four years.

Then I procrastinated until it was too late.

until I graduated from college, At that time I decided to break through my fears I started to pick up a camera to record my life.

So if you go back and watch my old videos, you will find that my editing skills or the logic of my speech, I wasn't in the state I am now.

So actually If you think I'm not ready so I don't start, then you will never be able to achieve the state you want.

Because no one is successful in the first place but gradually improve step by step.

and grow in failure.

The third limiting belief is that resources are scarce, money is not enough.

Money is always for the rich.

We can't make money.

I found that if we start from this belief, we are always looking for reasons outside.

Because we will think that it is the world the world's system is reason why I don't have money not my own fault.

But have you ever thought that maybe my product is not good enough, maybe my current ability is not enough, or maybe the value I provide is not enough.

So maybe the world there has always been money flowing.

But because You haven't discovered your value yet so the world can't give you feedback.

Let me simply use myself as an example.

Like me doing self-media, two or three years ago, many people told me that the market is already saturated.

there are too many people doing it.

If you do it now, no one will watch it.

and so on.

And now that my income is relatively stable, I found that it was true.

the market has always had audiences.

and there is also plenty of money.

It's just that maybe in the past, my ability couldn't help me attract these things.

to come to me.

So here I want to summarize a very important point.

is to help us attract money, abundance and happiness.

In fact, it is not about becoming the first not to be a perfect self, but to be your true self.

If you watch my videos, you will find that my main theme is mainly about travel, and then combined with some philosophy, Some topics of body and mind And this becomes my unique selling point.

From this perspective, you will find that In terms of editing, I'm definitely not the first.

because many people are better than me in editing.

They can do special effects and more interesting sound effects.

But in fact, my videos are relatively plain.

And when it comes to travel, I'm not very good at shooting travel content.

because you can see me shooting food and the scenery.

In fact, I'm really not as good as those professional travel bloggers.

But it is precisely this that doesn't work.

But I know a little bit of everything.

that makes me a unique person.

So actually, I think what can help you make money He's not asking you to get first place.

When you can create a unique unique thing that belongs only to you, that might be your value.

True wealth is the abundance of both material and spirit, and the discovery of your own value as well as the value in others And our second step is is not to overthink.

What we need to do is actually "think and then do" Many times, we spend too much energy and time on thinking about things, resulting in our failure to take action.

As I said in the previous step, we need to be aware of the voice in our minds.

But in fact, sometimes all you need to do is to be aware of it.

Then when you have inspiration, or when you have something you want to do, don't indulge in the thoughts in your mind.

but act to tell you the answer.

This is really me.

It took me more than a year over and over again, to slowly overcome myself.

this problem of overthinking.

Here, I can give you two examples.

The first example is about career.

which is about doing YouTube.

If I constantly overthink whether I will succeed what I should do, and then I procrastinate, I spend a lot of time just daydreaming.

But if I don't take action, I will get nothing in the end.

But only when I publish videos and constantly make mistakes, and keep watching, how to adjust it, Only in this process can I get feedback.

will I know if my content is liked by others.

So only by taking action can it lead you to a better direction.

But if you just imagine, you will never get the answer you want.

Because it just keeps circling in your mind, and keep turning.

and keep turning.

It will only consume your time and energy.

and energy.

In my opinion, to face the period of confusion, the best way is to keep trying and experience new things.

When you are constantly experiencing, you will gradually through your own feelings and then find out what I really like.

what I'm interested in.

And these feelings are what lead you to become the the version of yourself that you want to be.

And the second example is actually about relationships.

Because I used to be a complete love addict.

Maybe before I traveled, I had four relationships.

And in those four relationships, I didn't really know myself.

I always felt something was not right.

because I always lost myself in love.

So I'm not really very good at love But really, in the year after my trip, I started to go out on more dates.

Although I didn't fall in love No significant others I found that in this process, whether I met some good or so-called bad guys, they have taught me a lot.

And in the process of these dates, I gradually realized what kind of partner I want to find, Then go and meet what kind of person I am.

So I think whether in relationships or careers, and all aspects of our lives, we need to take action we need to feel the world and feel our own feelings.

《Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway》 The third step is to overcome fear allow failure to happen.

This point actually, when you can do the second point, that is, when you think of something and you start to act.

In the process, you will find that maybe you will keep hitting the wall for 90% time Then keep failing Especially if you are thinking of doing The beginning of something when you have no clue at all, Failure is very, very is a very common stage.

And our fear of failure is actually very uncomfortable.

Because for a long time in the past, I was in that a very scared feeling of failure.

Every time I post a video, I would feel extremely nervous.

because I didn't know how to face the unknown.

I also don't know how to face the feeling of failure.

Because as a self-media, if my video traffic is not good, it means I have no income.

So when my money is linked to what I'm doing, my fear will be particularly strong.

Here, I will share with you three points to help me overcome the fear of failure.

The first point actually from a long time ago, A teacher in a marketing course in Hong Kong he said something to me.

If someone asked him how to avoid failure, he would tell that person you can't avoid failure.

because you will fail one hundred percent.

This sentence is actually very wise.

I didn't really understand it at the time.

But now I fully understand it.

I found that failure and success are opposite sides.

You can't achieve success without failure.

That is to say, if you want to achieve success, What you can't get rid of is that you will absolutely fail you must constantly make mistakes.

and explore, can you gradually find what you really want to do.

The second point is to redefine failure.

Because many times, We will all stand at the node of the present moment to judge what is happening in our lives.

That is to say, at the moment, maybe I post a video and think no one is watching it, which is a failure.

But what I can't see is that maybe by doing this, from another perspective, it tells me that I realized that the theme of this video is not suitable for me.

So I have ruled out a theme that is not suitable for me.

Secondly, while I was making this video, I further I further improved my editing skills.

So actually, when a bad thing happens, if we only see the bad side of it, and the current result, you can't see that it is more macro or its opposite side.

So actually, failure may not be failure.

but you choose to see it as a failure.

Because sometimes you will find that those sad things happen in your life, such as losing love, losing job, or some unpleasant things happen, He might just be the node of the moment you think it's a sad and a failure, But if you put it into the torrent of your life and you look at it from a longer time perspective, You will find that it may be The one thing that drives your growth

The third thing that helps me break through fear is a saying that I like very much.

Extremes must be reversed.

and good fortune follows bad luck.

It means that once things have developed to a extreme, it will definitely change in the opposite direction.

That is, when a bad situation comes to an end, it means that good things will come.

Whether it is us humans or the entire nature, follow this law.

For example, no matter how long winter is, spring will definitely come back.

And no matter how much you suffer time will slowly fade away your pain.

We will not always be in the trough.

nor will we always be at the peak.

Because of this sentence, in many times, I was in a very low period.

I felt lonely, I felt like a failure.

I felt poor, When I have no money and no one loves me, I knew it was just a stage of me.

Because I absolutely believe it will pass.

So when I can understand this, failure will not be so scary.

Step out of your comfort zone and keep moving forward until you feel anxious and uncomfortable Only then will you realize that you are growing The fourth point is to become before owning.

This is also what the law of attraction says.

that is, we should first imagine ourselves to become the state that I already am.

Then you will have everything you want.

and everything you want.

Simply put, if I want to become very rich, I have to imagine myself in that situation.

And when I become that state first, Then I will attract money What about all the way?

whether I lose weight or I want to attract money, In fact, many times I don't ask When will I reach my goal?

Instead, I will ask myself If I were have become that version of myself, what kind of behavior would I do?

But here, you may find that It's really hard for me to substitute the state I want to become.

Maybe I want to be a very thin person, or a very rich person, But because I haven't experienced being thin, or what it's like to be rich, or what it's like to be a rich person.

So I can't become that state.

So for many people, it's very difficult to become that state.

In fact, the very simple point here is to accept yourself as you are now.

Because many people the big premise why they can't become that.

The reason is because You still don't like who you are right now When you think that I am not good now, now I am poor, now I am poor, now I'm not thin enough, When you are always in a state of scarcity, your energy is resisting.

your heart is resisting.

You think you are not good enough now.

And here's an example from me.

for a long time, I may really have no money.

but I still wanted to continue traveling and continue to do self-media.

But my wallet was really I had no savings.

I only had over ten thousand.

I spent it all and it was gone.

But at that time, I made a very different move.

I didn't do it like before.

Because in the past, I resisted myself at that time.

I felt poor, I felt my parents looked down on me, and I felt I wasn't good enough.

So a lot of my energy was in a state of resistance.

But later, I gradually began to accept I started to accept myself at this moment.

I am who I am.

I don't have much savings.

But I live in a world a life state that I might like very much.

So here is an important point, is whether you can see what you have now.

Maybe I have a very healthy body.

Even though I don't have much money, but I'm living the life I want.

It is under such a transformation I began to accept myself at that time.

Then I put more of my energy to enjoy the present moment of my life.

Because I will find I can see more the beauty that I usually can't see.

Only when my heart is open, Then it helped me attract maybe more inspiration for my shooting videos.

or or it helps me to think of some better themes.

and so on.

So all of this is based on I accept who I am first, and then I see what I have.

I feel that I am actually already rich, healthy, and energetic.

Then I can create something valuable.

And all of this will become a positive cycle.

So here, I actually encourage everyone to write a list of your day.

That is to say, you can write down who you want to be, and what that person will do in a day.

Maybe in the morning, I will get up first and have a healthy breakfast Then I will go to work And after work, I will do an hour of exercise.

After exercising, I will watch a movie I like.

and so on.

You write down what the person you want to be what he will do that day.

write it down.

and then let yourself gradually approach that person.

You are not discovering yourself you are recreating yourself Don't fixate on discovering who you are but focus on deciding who you want to become The last step is not to set a time, but live in the moment.

I know.

you may read some books on success, or you may have been used to When you set a goal, you will like to set a time.

When will I achieve a goal this year?

or how many kilograms want to lose in a few months.

But along the way, Whether I read the book of manifestation or spiritual books, and Einstein's theory of relativity, they all tell us a fact.

that time doesn't actually exist.

Because time is just A concept created by humans It is just to coordinate the operation of human society to allow us to cooperate in the same time dimension.

to cooperate.

When you learn to erase the concept of time from your mind, you will find that you are just you living in the present moment.

except for your current thoughts, and nothing else besides this you at this moment.

there is nothing else.

Here, Let me say something practical.

do you know how long it took me to make money and make my income stable.

Actually, if we calculate seriously, from the time I posted the first video I posted on YouTube to now, it has been at least three years.

I have come to where I am today.

Including my weight loss this time, maybe from the beginning of this year to now, it has been ten months.

I have achieved my ideal a very ideal physical state.

And it took nearly a year to achieve this.

So if I tell you that it took me three years to reach my goal, or half a year, or half a year, and so on, Maybe you will find that it seems become less attractive.

Because we are used to it to see those quick success studies, and quick methods.

and then we will unconsciously fall into it.

I want to pursue quick success methods.

But the truth is when I tell you I spent a long time to achieve the goal I want, So is the time I spent is really important to you?

On the other hand, how much time you spend to succeed it doesn't matter to others.

Whether it takes five, ten, or twenty years, as long as you succeed, it's enough.

As long as you can achieve your goal, In fact, no one cares how long you spend Many people care too much about others how they think of you.

If I quit my job and start a business now, what if I can't succeed in half a year?

What if I don't succeed in two years?

We are too used to getting caught up in the framework of time.

But the point I want to tell you is your goal doesn't depend on how long it takes you to achieve it, but that you just need to complete it.

So what I want to tell you is that no matter how old you are now, maybe you are thirty, forty, fifty, sixty years old, or no matter how long have been pursuing your dreams or five, ten, or twenty years, So what?

This is your life.

This is what you can truly feel that makes you alive.

So it's already you.

A big, big haul.

Because you are chasing something you really want.

So don't live in time.

When you live in time, you will find that you often fall into regrets about the past or vague fantasies about the future.

But the truly most powerful the most powerful moment is only this moment.

Only when you live in this moment wholeheartedly, When you create, when you discover, when you feel, and experience this moment of your life, Then you will find that there will be a lot of inspiration, or great people, or amazing things they will happen in your life.

But if you find that you focus your energy on the past, or the future, or those struggles in your mind, those thoughts, or fears, and fears, you will find that you can't create.

you can't open your heart to feel what you can feel now.

Miracles can only happen in this moment Good works never race against time they will shine sooner or later At the end of the video, I want to share with you a very, very important sentence.

It comes from a blogger I watched a long time ago.

what he said.

At that time, I didn't really understand what he meant by that.

He said I could not believe in myself, but I absolutely believe in fate.

You can think of fate as God, or the universe.

At that time, I didn't understand.

It's because I always thought that that fate is in my own hands.

I was the master of my own life.

So I was consciously living my life.

But it was precisely from this year that I traveled alone.

I met many friends and many things happened.

Especially in the past six months, I learned to surrender I began to see what life wanted to bring me.

Then I found that many things I couldn't explain.

It's amazing.

It's like there is really a third hand controlling my life.

When I'm at a low point, when I'm at a loss, or when I'm very confused, arrange a book, or a movie or someone comes into my life to guide me to take the path I should take.

I began to gradually realize that that I wanted to become the ideal self.

In fact, I can't get rid of this universe, this world, and every one of you.

And including this moment.

Maybe not by chance You will see my video.

and you will meet me.

Maybe in the depths of your soul, it desires to attract people who resonate with you.

So after I sensed all of this, I can gradually understand.

A year ago, And I read this quote in the book.

Everything is one.

I didn't understand what it meant at that time.

After I came to Chiang Mai, at a certain moment, I suddenly understood.

I suddenly felt that it was a feeling.

The feeling I can't describe is you are me.

I am you.

I am integrated with everything in this world.

So this is not our first meeting.

Suddenly, I feel like crying.

I'm not sure if I believe in reincarnation.

But it's just a feeling.

I think maybe we have always known each other.

maybe to some extent, we have always been the same one.

We all came from the big bang.

That one thing I don't know how to describe it.

So I think this is why I love this world very much.

and everyone in my life.

whether they are good to me or those who treat me badly, I love them all.

They all taught me how to grow up and how to love myself.

I know today's video may seem like There are many things you may have known early on but it seems difficult to practice in life.

But in fact, it took me a year and a year and a half and gradually put these things into practice.

how to truly implement them in my life.

So it actually takes time to practice.

You don't need to rush.

Take your time, use your own way, in your own way, and at your own pace, to live your own life.

I believe that if I can get to where I am today, then you can do it too.

And at the end of the video, I'd like to leave you with a poem by Hellinger.

Everything you experience is to awaken you.

If love can't wake you up, then use pain to wake you up.

If pain can't wake you up, then use greater pain to wake you up.

If greater pain can't wake you up, then use loss to wake you up.

If loss can't wake you up, then use life to wake you up.

If life can't wake you up, then use reincarnation Until you wake up 《庄子·齐物论》 《富裕，属于口袋装满快乐的人》 《秘密》

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