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32 Money Lessons Every Rich Girl Knows (That You Don’t) | Networth & Chill

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Summary

## Key takeaways - **Protect the Golden Goose**: If you want to lay golden eggs, you have to protect the golden goose. Making time for rest feels so hard when you have 10,000 things to do, but you have to do it or else your body will literally hit a breaking point. [02:21], [02:47] - **Advice Only from Desired Path**: Don't take advice from anyone you don't want to be. If you want to become the first millionaire in your family, the person who worked their way up from $0 to $1 million has more insight than someone who received a million in a trust fund and spends irresponsibly. [03:30], [03:50] - **Nobody's Looking at You**: Nobody's looking at you. Everybody is only thinking about themselves, and sometimes the only thing between you and that wild dream is the fear of being a little cringe. [04:36], [05:17] - **Good Network Beats Big**: A good network beats a big one. Networking is about finding your people and building genuine relationships like truly making a new friend, because quality trumps quantity. [05:20], [05:40] - **Nice Doesn't Matter for Success**: Whether you're nice or not doesn't actually matter. 76% of high-performing women receive negative feedback while only 2% of men do, so you don't need to be a people pleaser to succeed in your career. [06:09], [06:39] - **Infrastructure Beats Willpower**: Setting up infrastructure to make sure that the hard decisions in your day are automatically made for you is the ultimate cheat code. Setting up automatic transfers to savings and investments is the financial equivalent of packing your gym bag the night before. [06:59], [07:08]

Topics Covered

  • Protect Golden Goose First
  • Advice Only from Desired Destination
  • Quality Network Beats Big One
  • Love Shows in Sacrifices
  • Time Passes Regardless Act Now

Full Transcript

It's my birthday and I'm turning 32. So,

I'm sharing 32 life lessons I've learned that have actually changed my perspective. If you want to lay golden

perspective. If you want to lay golden eggs, you have to protect the golden goose. You don't need to be a people

goose. You don't need to be a people pleaser to succeed in your career. You

better be learning or earning and ideally both. Just try to do what you

ideally both. Just try to do what you can. Your friends don't hate you. You

can. Your friends don't hate you. You

just need to go to sleep. I started

posting Tik Toks one day at the urging of my work bestie and now I'm living a life that I've always dreamed of. The

journey might surprise you, and you won't know until you actually do it.

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What's up, rich friends, and welcome back to another episode of Net Worth and Chill. I'm your host, Vivian 2, your

Chill. I'm your host, Vivian 2, your rich BFF, and your favorite Wall Street girly. The rumors are true. It's my

girly. The rumors are true. It's my

birthday. Well, sort of. It was my birthday a few days ago. I am now officially 32 years old. And can I be honest? I think I feel younger than

honest? I think I feel younger than ever. Yeah. Okay. One day I did try to

ever. Yeah. Okay. One day I did try to get up from the couch and realized I couldn't spring up from the cushions like I used to. And I actually care what kind of mattress I fall asleep on. But

still, I am so proud of the opportunities I've created for myself.

I'm living each day with purpose and passion. And I'm excited for what this

passion. And I'm excited for what this next year around the sun might bring me.

So, in honor of my birthday, I'm sharing some of the life lessons I've learned in my 32 years that have actually helped me get to a place in life where I'm looking forward to seeing what comes next. These

lessons aren't the picture perfect pastel Instagram infographic versions.

These are the real hard uncomfortable truths that have actually helped me get to a place where I want to be at. And

frankly, I'm still learning some of them over and over again. So hopefully these pieces of wisdom help you avoid some of the mistakes that I've made so far, save you some time and money, and inspire you

to make a change in an area of your life where you might feel a little stuck. So

this is 32 things I know at 32. First

up, choose a rest day or your body will choose one for you. I have had to learn this one the hard way over and over and over again. Making time for rest feels

over again. Making time for rest feels so hard and so annoying when you have 10,000 things to do in a day, but you have to do it or else your body will literally hit a breaking point and you

won't like the day that it picks to break down. Maintenance is cheaper than

break down. Maintenance is cheaper than a full fix. So, stop driving on empty and crossing your fingers that your car won't notice. Another story about this

won't notice. Another story about this is my friend asked me if I was taking care of my golden goose. Um, there's

this story that a farmer and his wife realized that a goose was laying golden eggs and instead of caring for this goose and making sure that it would lay a golden egg once a week, they

slaughtered the goose and realized that inside the goose was regular. It wasn't

filled with gold. It wasn't anything special. In fact, it was the fact that

special. In fact, it was the fact that the goose was well taken care of and had a good feed and everything was good for the goose that it was able to lay these golden eggs. So, you can't rush the

golden eggs. So, you can't rush the process. You can't try to slaughter the

process. You can't try to slaughter the goose to get the golden side. It doesn't

work like that. If you want to lay golden eggs, you have to protect the golden goose. Two, don't take advice

golden goose. Two, don't take advice from anyone you don't want to be. So

often when we're lost, we want to take advice from anyone who might seem like they have a better idea of what's going on than we do. But how useful is an adviser if they've never actually been where you want to go? If you want to

become the first millionaire in your family, who do you think would have more insight to offer your specific goal? the

person who worked their way up and carefully invested until they went from $0 to1 million or the person who just received a million dollars in a trust fund when they were born and now spends irresponsibly. So, they're not going to

irresponsibly. So, they're not going to stay rich for very long. You want to make sure that you are taking advice from people who have been on your path, who have accomplished what you want to accomplish. And the same goes for

accomplish. And the same goes for haters. I have to remind myself all the

haters. I have to remind myself all the time, no one who I admire, no one who has a life that I want to have has ever left me a nasty comment. The only people who do that want what I have. They want

to be where I'm at. And frankly, they're commenting out of their mom's basement.

So, no mind needs to be paid to them.

Make sure that you are only getting advice and looking up to people who have the life that you want, who you admire, and who you respect. Lesson three,

nobody's looking at you. You know how many times I have worried when I was younger about how I was being perceived only to find out that no one was even thinking about me? Everybody is only thinking about themselves. Since then,

I've learned that sometimes the only thing between you and that wild dream you have for yourself is the fear of being a little cringe. And I think a lot of us let that feeling of embarrassment stop us from doing so much. Fighting for

that big raise, asking that cute stranger at a bar out, posting that first Instagram reals vlog. What I found is that your friends are going to support you. The losers are going to

support you. The losers are going to hate on you. And most people, they've got enough going on in their own lives to not have an opinion on your crazy dreams. I started posting Tik Toks one day at the urging of my work bestie and

now I'm living a life that I've always dreamed of. Nobody is looking at you.

dreamed of. Nobody is looking at you.

Just go for it. Lesson four, a good network beats a big one. Everyone wants

to have 500 plus connections on LinkedIn, but if you don't ever set up coffee chats or one-on- ones with any of them, how are those connections actually going to be helpful to you? Networking

isn't just about exchanging business cards and making awkward small talk.

It's about finding your people and building genuine relationships. Think of

it like truly making a new friend. And

people do favors for their friends. So,

if you're an introvert and you'd rather peel off your skin than go to a career fair, don't worry about it too much.

Quality trumps quantity. Meet with a few people tangential to you, whether it's co-workers, college alumni, or some of those LinkedIn profiles in your sphere and build a real connection one at a

time. It'll definitely feel less

time. It'll definitely feel less overwhelming and probably be better for your career, too. Lesson five, whether you're nice or not doesn't actually matter. 76% of high-erforming women

matter. 76% of high-erforming women receive negative feedback, while only 2% of men do. Losers and haters will call you mean or nasty names, no matter how nice you are. So, just focus on what's

going to set you up for success, what makes you feel empowered, and at the end of the day, it matters more whether or not you think you're nice versus what other people think. That's not to say

you shouldn't be kind and generous and strong and a good leader. Being kind is very different than being nice. But

people are going to talk smack one way or another. You don't need to be a

or another. You don't need to be a people pleaser to succeed in your career. Lesson six. I'm not

career. Lesson six. I'm not

irresponsible. I'm just worn down and so are you. I only started regularly going

are you. I only started regularly going to the gym when I began packing my gym bag the night before. Turns out I wasn't lazy or trying to avoid going. I was

just really tired. Setting up

infrastructure to make sure that the hard decisions in your day are automatically made for you is the ultimate cheat code. For example,

setting up automatic transfers to savings and investments is the financial equivalent of packing your gym bag the night before. Take a few minutes to do

night before. Take a few minutes to do the work ahead of time and remove that decision fatigue that leads to poor choices in the moment. If you can't see it all, you won't spend it all. If you

pack your gym bag the night before, you've already made a mental plan to go to the gym. Another way I look at it, willpower can bend easily, but infrastructure is much harder to break.

That is why we make such smart decisions in the morning. We'll have a green juice and a salad for lunch, but by dinner, you're elbow deep in a bucket of mac and cheese. But if you meal prep and have

cheese. But if you meal prep and have all of the meals already planned out, it's much easier to stick to a healthy diet. Lesson seven, if it's not passion

diet. Lesson seven, if it's not passion or a payday, it's just a bad deal. That

side hustle you're working on should either bring you so much happiness or provide a cash source that brings you serious money. If it's doing neither,

serious money. If it's doing neither, you're just working two jobs that aren't really adding to your life and calling one of them a cute name. Axit and save your time. You better be learning or

your time. You better be learning or earning and ideally both. Lesson eight,

love is a practice, not a feeling. I got

married last year and while there are so many memories in my relationship that have made me feel all the butterflies and fireworks, the moments I know that our love is true is in the ways we show up for each other. Because the feeling

of being adored or feeling romantic, it's all great, but it's much easier than the choices someone makes to support you, champion your work, work with you, and meet you where you're at, even if they're not feeling too hot.

It's why I say equity over equality in relationships, because not everything will be perfectly 50/50 all the time.

When someone is willing to put their insecurities aside and treat your obstacles as a team problem you both can handle, that's how you know it's something real. I'll give you a quick

something real. I'll give you a quick story. I remember the first time my face

story. I remember the first time my face went up in Time Square on top of the NASDAQ building. And that day, my

NASDAQ building. And that day, my husband snuck out of work to take photos of me from afar. And when I got home that night, I was so eager and I told

him all about what had happened. And he

looked me in the eye and he goes, "Yeah, I know. I was there. And I said, "What?"

I know. I was there. And I said, "What?"

And he showed me these photos on his phone. And I was so shocked that he was

phone. And I was so shocked that he was willing to even carve out that little bit of time in his day because he works an incredibly demanding job, but it was important for him to be there for me.

And he knew that. And I asked him why he didn't say something and say hi. And he

said, "Well, it was your moment. I

didn't want to take any of the fanfare away from you. So, I wanted to be there with you. I wanted to share the moment.

with you. I wanted to share the moment.

I'm so proud of you and I'm so glad I got to witness it, but I wanted you to have your moment. And I think that really is a testament to the fact that

he is so secure and he is able to enable me to be the best version of myself. And

you know, I'd like to think that I have also made sacrifices to support him in his career. But I feel so grateful to

his career. But I feel so grateful to have such a thoughtful, conscientious partner. It's not the roses on

partner. It's not the roses on Valentine's Day. It's showing up in

Valentine's Day. It's showing up in those little moments. Lesson nine.

Sometimes it's for a season, not for a reason. One of the worst feelings in the

reason. One of the worst feelings in the world is a friendship breakup. And it

can feel so hard to get past. Honestly,

friendship breakups can hurt more than real relationship breakups, but it happens and it's okay. Sometimes you

drift apart or grow into different people. I know change is hard, but if a

people. I know change is hard, but if a friendship drains you instead of replenishes you, take it as a sign that you may be better off limiting your exposure to that person. Lesson 10. If

you can see the world. I've regretted

spending money on designer bags. I've

regretted spending money on overpriced coffees. But never have I ever regretted

coffees. But never have I ever regretted spending money on travel. Gaining life

experience and perspective of the world is invaluable. As I've gotten older,

is invaluable. As I've gotten older, I've learned that my most valuable resource is actually time. And the more you can maximize that, the better off you'll be. Not to mention, traveling and

you'll be. Not to mention, traveling and doing something fun or sharing an experience is something that money can't even buy. sitting on the couch. It's so

even buy. sitting on the couch. It's so

lovely for my husband and I to reminisce over our honeymoon and our shared memories over dishes that we ate and fun activities that we did. There's no watch or bag or pair of shoes that can do

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11: A small plan is better than no plan.

Even when I was making a meager salary right out of college, budgeting every week, putting a little bit away for retirement, and saving where I could, doing these behaviors helped build my wealth in huge ways over the years. the

returns I got, even just from pocketing a bit here and there, compounded with time. So, even if your salary isn't

time. So, even if your salary isn't where you want it to be right now, or you feel like there's just no way you'll reach your financial goals this year, that's okay. Just try to do what you

that's okay. Just try to do what you can. Prioritize what's most important to

can. Prioritize what's most important to you. Whether it's paying down debt,

you. Whether it's paying down debt, starting a rainy day fund in a high yield savings account, or starting investing one step at a time, these small choices make a big difference. And

it'll all be because you had a little bit of a plan instead of no plan at all.

Lesson 12. This is a fun one. Have a

shower popsicle. I dare you to have a bad day and then eat a popsicle in the shower and see if it makes you feel worse. I dare you. Not once. Every

worse. I dare you. Not once. Every

single time I have a shower popsicle, no matter how bad the day was, it makes me feel a little bit better and it puts a smile on my face and it's a nice little treat. So, shower popsicle. That's the

treat. So, shower popsicle. That's the

lesson. Lesson 13. Don't get Botox on Groupon. I need to thank my mentor again

Groupon. I need to thank my mentor again for this lesson. It has less to do with cosmetic procedures and more to do with investing for the long term. Given that

there is a limited amount of money in our pockets, it can feel really easy to often opt for the cheaper option. But

there's another saying, buy it nice or buy it twice. In some areas of your life, especially ones that can have permanent or semi-permanent effects, it's better to spend a little bit more.

Sometimes the cheap price tag up front will end up costing you more in the long run. I would rather go to a really,

run. I would rather go to a really, really great dermatologist or plastic surgeon or nurse practitioner that does Botox day in and day out. So, I know

that I'm getting something dependable versus going to some random provider who I've never heard of. For example, I remember working on Wall Street and having to wear nylons or tights every

single day. And the fancy tights that

single day. And the fancy tights that would cost a little bit more, they would last wear after wear after wear. But the

cheap eggs that you get from a CVS or a Dwayne Reed, those would get one wear and then there would be a massive run or a hole in the crotch. It would actually cost me more to buy cheap tights than just invest in something a little bit

better. Lesson 14. Spend 5 minutes

better. Lesson 14. Spend 5 minutes looking it up first. Whether it's a word you don't know, a money tip that you just heard, or a news story that you're not sure if it's even true or not, literally just spend 5 minutes looking

it up. Open up google.com. It's free.

it up. Open up google.com. It's free.

and click on a trusted information source like Investopedia for finance knowledge to get the information you need before you make any rash decisions.

Double check. An influencer is swearing that this stock is going to help you get rich quick. Your co-worker is promising

rich quick. Your co-worker is promising that this supplement helped them get a six-pack. Your uncle's at Thanksgiving

six-pack. Your uncle's at Thanksgiving saying that drinking bleach will help kill COVID particles. Before you do anything, literally just look it up.

Even if you know you're going to be right, being able to articulate the logic behind your answer can help you ground yourself in reality. Stop

guessing your way through life and just look it up. Lesson 15. You don't have to spend time with anyone who pulls you further away from yourself. It took me a while to learn that I didn't want to hang out with people who like to spend

all their money on club tables and people whose only topic of conversation was gossiping about people I didn't care about. It also doesn't mean that they're

about. It also doesn't mean that they're bad people. It's just that I didn't want

bad people. It's just that I didn't want to do those things anymore. They didn't

make me feel more aligned with the kind of life I wanted to live where my financial goals were always on track and I was inspired by the conversations around me. Knowing who is a close

around me. Knowing who is a close friend, a situational friend, and an acquaintance is an important distinction. Lesson 16. It's okay to be

distinction. Lesson 16. It's okay to be fueled by spite. Personally, I'm not the kind of person that's always motivated by some beautiful golden inner light or self-love with enlightenment. I don't

always kill them with kindness.

Sometimes I'm just doing something because I want to flex on the haters.

And honestly, I think that's okay. Anger

is a motivating feeling and it can be harnessed for a good cause. The fine

line is when the spite starts to become harmful to you. Haters can help you get to the next accolade, but don't let yourself become one. Lesson 17. You

can't run away from sadness forever.

Whether it's the relationship you wanted to work out, the friend you swore would be a bridesmaid one day, or watching your parents get older, heartbreak is going to happen to you. Bad days are what make the good ones that much more

special. And it's important to learn how

special. And it's important to learn how to deal with sad times rather than just trying to run away from them. Learning

how to let go of the idea that you always have to be happy and accept that sometimes there are going to be rainy days is a skill that brings us closer to understanding ourselves. Plus, being

understanding ourselves. Plus, being able to prepare for them and deal with them. Whether it's having the hard

them. Whether it's having the hard conversation with your parents about their wills or saving up for unforeseen costs, that helps us navigate the sadness with a lot less panic. Lesson

18. Your friends don't hate you. You

just need to go to sleep. This one is for all of my fellow overthinkers.

You're spiraling in bed because you're anxious that you said the wrong thing over text or that you messed up an important task or you made an irreversible error that you can't see it. Just go to bed. Just go to sleep.

it. Just go to bed. Just go to sleep.

Making up problems in your own head just distracts you from your reality. Part of

growing up is learning that the actual problems will reveal themselves with time. And trust me, they will reveal

time. And trust me, they will reveal themselves. You don't need to waste

themselves. You don't need to waste precious hours trying to guess them before they appear. Until then, if you can't see it, it's none of your business. And that makes it not your

business. And that makes it not your problem. Lesson 19. No is a complete

problem. Lesson 19. No is a complete sentence. You do not need to defend why

sentence. You do not need to defend why you're saying no. Lesson 20. Don't be

realistic. Stop letting people trap you in the cage where they live. So, what if your expectations are high and your dreams are big and your plans are what some people might call borderline

sociopathic? Why would you compromise

sociopathic? Why would you compromise with yourself before you've even tried to see what might happen? Being dulu is far more interesting than negotiating

with yourself. Just because they can't

with yourself. Just because they can't do it doesn't mean that you can't. If it

fails, there's always another dream to chase. And if it succeeds, I mean,

chase. And if it succeeds, I mean, hello. Lesson 21. Individualism will

hello. Lesson 21. Individualism will

make you broke. Your desire to be so independent of anyone is not a strength.

Apps and companies have replaced what our community used to do for each other for free. Instead of asking our neighbor

for free. Instead of asking our neighbor to walk our pets, we hire Task Rabbits or get a sitter on Rover. And instead of leaning on friends to take us to the airport, we pay for Ubers or Whimos. We

used to have more of a favors economy that kept our budgets down and our communities intact. And now we wonder

communities intact. And now we wonder why everything's expensive and we're all lonely. Sometimes the price for a

lonely. Sometimes the price for a village is being a villager. And

sometimes being a villager means a little bit of inconvenience. Lesson 22.

Never take the first salary offer. You

think that salary offer out the gate is really all they have in the budget. Upon

receiving a job offer, always ask for more. Unless you asked for a specific

more. Unless you asked for a specific number during the interview process and they gave it to you. If they come in under always negotiate, they expect it and respect it. Your future self's bank

account will thank you. Lesson 23. Write

it down so you don't forget. Preferably

all in the same place. When you start making enough money, you can hire people to remind you too. But these days, when there are so much stimuli happening all at once, when there are so many

notifications and dings and buzzes, sometimes it's really easy to forget important things. But the easiest thing

important things. But the easiest thing you can do to combat it is to write it down. Lesson 24. You get what you

down. Lesson 24. You get what you negotiate for. Just like salaries with

negotiate for. Just like salaries with all of life, you get what you negotiate for. Your landlord is ignoring your

for. Your landlord is ignoring your emails about fixing the heating. That's

grounds to negotiate rent. The company

told you that you can't take off for more time off even though you have remaining PTO. Well, that's a good

remaining PTO. Well, that's a good opening to talk about holiday bonuses for all your extra hard work. Sometimes

you only get what you negotiate for. And

by letting things slide, you might actually be leaving money on the table.

Lesson 25. The harder way doesn't mean the right way. Listen, I used to think that anything good had to be difficult.

I had to work out six days per week, manually monitor every movement in my investment portfolio, and generally live life on hard mode. But honestly, what really makes an impact is when the

habits are easy enough for us to do every day over the course of many years.

Robo advisors can help us manage our investments while we're at work.

Automatic withholdings can make tax season easier for us. And a long walk can still count as a good workout for the day because a couple minutes are better than no minutes. Lesson 26. Not

every single designer bag is an actual investment piece. Most fashion pieces

investment piece. Most fashion pieces don't actually hold any value at all. So

buy what you want, but know that unless it's a rare skin Birkin or some limited availability watch that you got at retail, it's probably not an investment.

You would be better off investing in an index fund that tracks the broader market. You want to make sure that your

market. You want to make sure that your investments are investments and your retail purchases are just things you can enjoy. Lesson 27, and this one's from my

enjoy. Lesson 27, and this one's from my mom. It is the phones. I love a good

mom. It is the phones. I love a good doom scroll, but our parents were right.

The unproductivity, the procrastination, the anxiety, it's because of the damn phones. When you feel yourself starting

phones. When you feel yourself starting to get stuck in the screen spiral, make yourself put it away and get up and do something. Whether it's a chore, a task,

something. Whether it's a chore, a task, or some kind of movement, about 90% of the time, unfortunately, you do feel so much better. Lesson 28. Setting

much better. Lesson 28. Setting

boundaries with family about money isn't being disrespectful. It's being an

being disrespectful. It's being an adult. You can love your family and

adult. You can love your family and still not fund your cousin's third failed startup. I always say you can

failed startup. I always say you can give family money, but never loan money because you are not getting it back. And

that's probably going to lead to resentment and a weird holiday at grandma's. Lesson 29. Your Instagram

grandma's. Lesson 29. Your Instagram

doesn't need to look good to live a good life. Sometimes life is mundane,

life. Sometimes life is mundane, unesthetic, unfulfilling. Just because

unesthetic, unfulfilling. Just because everyone else's feed is filled with highlights doesn't mean they're happier than you. And just because you don't

than you. And just because you don't have a perfect curated photo dump doesn't mean that the memories are any less meaningful. Lesson 30. The time

less meaningful. Lesson 30. The time

will pass anyway. Speaking of time, this one's a big one that I learned from a mentor. So often we worry about whether

mentor. So often we worry about whether our careers, lives, relationships, and whatever else are going to be a success.

We get so scared about the result that sometimes it's easier to not do anything about it at all. But who cares if it flops or not? Just do it and see what happens. There is no arbitrary timeline

happens. There is no arbitrary timeline that you need to have your dream career.

There's no arbitrary timeline of when you need to get married or have children or find the love of your life or find your passion. You don't have a timeline.

your passion. You don't have a timeline.

There's no ticking clock. The journey

might surprise you and you won't know until you actually do it. The time is going to pass anyway, and years later, you might wake up and realize your life looks so much better than you could have

even imagined it to be. Lesson 31. This

is something that I've been trying to remind myself a lot of recently. Your

face and body are changing because you're living a life where you change.

My smile lines are deep because I've laughed a lot and I smile a lot. My body

has changed since I was 18 because I've experienced a good life full of change.

Over the past 32 years, I've gotten married, I've traveled, I've frozen my eggs, I've toured around the country twice, published a book twice, filmed my

first TV commercial, and met so many of my besties. I'm so grateful to my body,

my besties. I'm so grateful to my body, to my skin, for my face for having gotten me through all of it. It's saving

all the things that I've been so lucky to witness. And lesson 32, money isn't

to witness. And lesson 32, money isn't morality. Money isn't inherently good or

morality. Money isn't inherently good or bad. It just is. Some days I felt like a

bad. It just is. Some days I felt like a financial genius and other days I've made purchases I regret. We're all just humans trying to figure out this money stuff out one paycheck at a time. So

give yourself some grace. You aren't bad with money. You're just on your

with money. You're just on your financial journey. Always remember your

financial journey. Always remember your worth isn't tied to your net worth.

Thank you for sticking with me through 32 full lessons of my very full 32 years of life. I hope you take something and

of life. I hope you take something and it makes your life a little bit easier whether you're younger than me, older than me, or right around my age. I'm so

grateful that you are a part of my community. Thank you so much. Happy

community. Thank you so much. Happy

birthday to me. And if you're celebrating, happy birthday to you.

Thanks to Walmart for their support. One

more time to close us out. Right now,

Walmart's got thousands of rollbacks and more with super low prices that make saving feel like it's part of the plan.

From calendars to everything organization, Walmart's got exactly what you need to reset, refocus, and stay on track with those financial goals you set way back in January. It's okay. We can

just say that the new year starts now.

Shop now on the Walmart app online and in stores to save big time. Thanks for

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