Are Women TOO ENTITLED in Dating in 2026?!

You asked me if having >> high standards makes women >> entitled.

>> Yeah. What would be an example of a high standard that I object to or something?

I don't know.

>> Like what do I look for in a man?

>> No, not you, but like Okay. So, I don't know how to frame

Okay. So, I don't know how to frame this.

Uh I think sometimes women have expectations or standards for men that uh are delusional.

So for example, let me give you one. Uh

a woman who makes or sorry a man a woman who wants a man to make say a million dollars a year. I think that that's a bit unrealistic.

Uh you would agree that that's a high standard. Do you think that that would

standard. Do you think that that would make them entitled or is it wrong >> if they I mean, yeah, I can see where you're going with this. I do think

that's a lot. So, I don't I don't know.

I do think that makes them entitled, especially if they don't make unless they make just close to close to that maybe.

>> Oh, just take it off the table. I'm not

sure what what was what was that?

>> I got to pull out my clothes t >> Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah. Um, okay.

H I don't know. I think women should have reasonable standards, realistic standards. So should men. Um,

standards. So should men. Um,

that they they need to be commensurate and in line with their own value and offering. So, if you're an average woman

offering. So, if you're an average woman and you're like, I want to date a guy who makes $10 million a year and you're average looking, you the things you

could offer are not that great. Like, I

think it's very unlikely, even if you have that high standard, that you're going to get it. And so, I think a lot of women, even average women, uh, are trying to date well above what their

looks, prospects, and personalities warrant.

Do you disagree with that or >> I don't disagree with that. I However,

if a woman makes millions of dollars a year and she wants her husband to make a million, I don't think that's unreasonable.

>> It might be unreasonable.

It might be unreasonable in so far as the amount of people who make that much money is really small. So when you

become an outlier as an individual, uh while you might desire somebody else who's an outlier, it's still going to be

like really rare and hard to find that person. Like

person. Like if my standard was like say I'm making uh $5 million a year and I'm like, "Well, I'm only going to date a woman who makes $5 million a year." Like

that's shrunk my pool of potential women to way way way less than five uh 1% excuse me. So

excuse me. So >> well isn't it true that the majority of people don't even make a h 100,000 a year.

>> Uh so I think to be in the top 1% it's $400,000 a year to be in the top 1% >> in the United States. But even that's just one person out of how many people

are in the US, you know, and that's 400,000.

>> 400,000, >> you know, and that's 1%, you know, everybody else is under that. And we're

expecting men to make millions of dollars a year. That's outlandish.

>> It is. It is. And also, I mean, you can have even if it's a guy makes less than a million dollars a year, like you can still have a pretty nice life.

>> Yeah.

Like I mean all I'm trying to think like San Francisco, New York City, like >> well come to Kansas and buy a house.

>> You'll see how cheap and how >> if you make 200K almost anywhere like you're that's pretty good. Like maybe SF and New York.

pretty good. Like maybe SF and New York.

It's not ideal, but uh >> you're pretty much like a millionaire in Kansas if you make that.

>> You can buy a house in Kansas for that much.

>> You can buy a house in Kansas for a penny pretty much.

>> [laughter] >> Yeah. But uh I don't know

>> Yeah. But uh I don't know anything else anybody.

Nobody else wants to weigh in. Hello.

Dating discussion podcast. Hello.

>> I still don't think that you having that standard or at least wanting that standard would make you entitled.

>> Well, I I would say this for a woman who makes a million dollars. Uh so I think when men make more money, their dating pool opens up. When uh women make more

money, their dating pool shrinks because men typically uh men don't really care about the woman's career.

They don't care about the woman's status. They don't care about the

status. They don't care about the woman's money. Really don't care. Maybe

woman's money. Really don't care. Maybe

some guys [ __ ] care. Most men do not care about a woman's money. So, guy

who's rich, making a bunch of money, like a a super successful lawyer, he'll he'll date a girl who like an attractive, pleasant girl who works as a

barista who works at Chick-fil-A.

>> The experience than they do what she does.

>> Wait, men care about experience?

>> They care about the experience with the woman more than they care about what she does when he's not where she's not.

>> Correct. Correct. And so, but as a woman, women typically when they start to make money, they're like, "Oh, like if a woman makes $500,000 a year, would

you agree that technically like the guy could not work who she's with?" Like,

she could hold it down.

>> I mean, she could >> she can hold it down financially as long as a man's doing something. I mean, in my case, my man cooks every night for us. He takes care of the kids. He helps

us. He takes care of the kids. He helps

me with the house. like he does everything he's supposed to do at home.

So, >> does he breastfeed the children?

>> No.

>> Okay, just checking.

>> But I But a man can't do that.

>> Don't they make things that men can wear?

>> But that's not the real thing. So, I

don't think that's >> I I think it is a thing actually.

>> No, I mean like a man has to get a fake one. Like it's not real.

one. Like it's not real.

>> Men can't lactate.

>> I [laughter] thought you could milk anything that has nipples.

>> That's not true.

>> You men's nipples.

>> Can you go milk? I mean, I wouldn't Can you go milk a bowl? Can you milk a cat?

>> If my husband started having milk come out of his kitties, I think I would freak out.

>> Sorry. It's a I don't know if anybody's seen Meet the Parents. It's a quote from Meet the Parents, Robert Dairo, Ben Stiller.

>> I want to see you anything with nipples.

Um, so I don't know. Um, but okay. So

your your husband, he he does the the housework and >> we both do it, but he does like he does the cooking. He he does a lot more cuz

the cooking. He he does a lot more cuz like >> and I'm more of on the kids cuz I'm more of nurturing than he is. So he's like, >> you know.

>> Okay.

But so I mean like typically I think a woman who say she makes $500,000 a year I think a lot of women who make that much money even though they could totally like that's so much money they

could totally take care of a guy. I

don't think most women, even if they can do that dynamic, I don't think a lot of them want to. I

think a lot of when women make say half a million dollars, they're like, "Okay, well, I make this much now. Now, I want a guy who makes as much as me or more."

So, typically when women become financially successful, it's not always the case. Uh, especially, I think a lot

the case. Uh, especially, I think a lot of times with the Only Fans girls, y'all will date broke guys. Like y'all will date because you're like, "Ah, [ __ ] I

do Only Fans. How can I make myself more appealing? I guess I'll buy him a

appealing? I guess I'll buy him a PlayStation. I'll buy him a [ __ ]

PlayStation. I'll buy him a [ __ ] Xbox. I'll Oh, you you No, you just stay

Xbox. I'll Oh, you you No, you just stay at home, honey.

>> And I'll go out and >> y'all for that.

>> She knows. She know. She's got a story.

She got a story.

>> No, thank you.

>> She got a story." And uh >> I'll sell So, it's common with the sex workers, but I feel like other women who aren't sex workers who who they make a lot of money, they're like, I'm not going to date a guy who's going to be

like a bum like they like a a female attorney. No, there's no way she's

attorney. No, there's no way she's >> I mean, it's happened of for sure, but they're not going to be thinking, "Okay, I'm going to going to freaking date a barista." No, she's an attorney. She's

barista." No, she's an attorney. She's

like, "I'm going to date another attorney. I'll date a doctor. I'll date

attorney. I'll date a doctor. I'll date

this." Right? So, I think it's a bit different. Would you say that

different. Would you say that stay-at-home parents are bums?

>> No.

>> No, not at all. Of course. Of course.

>> I just want to make sure I understood you correctly.

>> No. No. I'm saying like uh obviously when there's not children involved and like you got the super like the girlfriend who's like ambitious and making a lot of money. Either she does Only Fans or she's got a career and then

she's got the boyfriend who >> she's got a stay-at-home boyfriend.

That's different than K. Like if you got kids.

>> Yeah. I could see there could I think it's a bit more acceptable if it's like okay look the woman is just the woman is so capable or has the capacity to make so much money and it like makes more

sense for her to keep working than for the guy who let's say a woman let's say this uh a man and a woman meet in high school and she's on track to become like

a doctor one day well I guess it depends when they have the kids but and then the guy is like I don't He's got like a He's

not a bum, but he's got like a a job where he makes $50,000 a year. So, he I don't know. He's What does he do?

don't know. He's What does he do?

>> What does he do?

>> Mechanic.

>> What's a Yeah, he's a mechanic. He He

He's a barber. He cuts hair. So, he

makes I don't know 40k, 50K.

>> Barbers are making pretty good money, though, from what I've seen on the research. But if your wife, your girl is

research. But if your wife, your girl is making $300,000 a year and then you start having kids, uh yeah, probably like obviously she

should like nurse the kid, like breast milk, whatever, whatever. But uh yeah, like for financial reasons, if she's making 300K, he's going to make

50K, and you have two kids to take care of, yeah, the the guy should probably stay home in that situation.

Financially, it makes more sense.

uh >> he could just go put himself in the same position she put herself in whether it's educational wise, whether it's putting in the work or whatnot.

>> No, not everybody has I don't think there are just some people who don't have the capacity to make like some people just don't have it.

>> I feel like a lot of people have it.

They just don't put it in their mind that they have it. They don't like to believe that they really have it.

>> Do you think that men can succeed as much as women?

>> I believe men can succeed much further than women. Only fans.

than women. Only fans.

>> Honestly, yes.

>> Because guess what? They do Only Fans management.

>> Y and then they run the girls. They're

taking 50% of these girls cuts. Yes.

They're making more money than the girls are, >> but they're not doing the same work as a woman.

>> Exactly. But they still put theirelves in a position in that industry to be able to ex like exceed those women.

>> It's not the same position though.

>> It's not. But that's the situation you're in though. You have to rise above that position to be better than that, right? Not everybody does management

right? Not everybody does management anyway.

>> Well, yeah, not everybody does.

Everybody does though like their own way of making money. But you step into an industry and you want to be better than the next person,