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Best of Haddie (Sarah Ramos) | Season 1 | Parenthood

By Parenthood Official

Summary

Topics Covered

  • Authority Without Reason Loses Legitimacy
  • Parental Hypocrisy Enables Double Standards
  • Healthy Relationships Require Genuine Connection
  • Authentic Friendships Weather Public Scorn

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All right, Max. I want you to put Charlie away. It's dinner time.

Charlie away. It's dinner time.

Cockroach can live a month without it sick.

Okay. Seriously, I'm I don't have an appetite.

Daddy, it's fine. It's not that big of a deal.

All right. You know what?

Come on, Max. Please eat your food. Leave the

Max. Please eat your food. Leave the

cockroach alone.

I don't like it.

Well, how do you know you don't like it if you've never tried it?

It's not one of his foods.

Hey, Max. Sweetheart, you know, maybe you could earn some TV time tonight by trying your food.

I get TV after dinner anyway. If you

don't eat your dinner, then you won't get TV time.

Sweetheart, that's not fair. The rules are I get an hour of TV time after dinner.

Not punishment.

No, he's saying he already gets TV anyway.

That is my time for the TV.

Maybe you guys could give him extra time.

How about that? How about if you try your food, you'll get extra TV time?

How much?

An hour.

What your mother said? 5 minutes.

Forget it.

Per bite.

Who have put 7 8 9 10 11 [music]

That's an hour, right? You said.

Yep.

Wait, Max, you have to sit down until we're finished with our meal.

Why? I already earned my TV time.

That worked out well.

Shut up, sweetie.

Your cell phone bill was over $200 this month. Oh,

month. Oh, you're kidding. No,

you're kidding. No, I had no idea. That's over a thousand minutes.

Okay. Well, I'll pay you guys back. I'll

babysit. I'll do chores. You know,

whatever it takes.

It's like 18 hours in one month to one number. One number.

Steve Williams. How do you guys know that?

Well, when we couldn't reach you, we called his number.

You guys talked to Steve?

No, we did not talk to him. We just

heard his voice. We heard his voice.

Yo yo yo.

So, how do you know his name?

We have our ways.

What ways? What did you guys do?

We went on your computer.

Your Facebook page.

No, you didn't.

You guys broke into my room and you hacked into my computer.

Wait a second, Missy. You have no right to get angry with us. You have been going out with this boy for over a month without telling us.

Okay, who cares? Homeland Security. What

you guys did is illegal. You can't do that. It's a violation of

that. It's a violation of Everything.

Hey, what? You're Facebook official, right?

That's right. You You go up to your room because you're grounded.

Grounded.

[music] There's a white music. [music]

music. [music] [music] I had a dream last night.

When I open my eyes, show the place.

This is short lines in the moonlight.

New worlds for the weary, new lands for the living. I could make it if I tried.

the living. I could make it if I tried.

I closed my eyes.

Uh, Mr. Braveman, it's uh, it's really good to meet you, sir.

[music] What's up?

[music] Oh, before I forget, a package came for you yesterday.

from Victoria's Secret. It got opened accidentally. I'm not sure how. I just

accidentally. I'm not sure how. I just

Mom, how would a package with my name on it get opened accidentally?

Well, I think your father assumed that it was for me, so therefore he opened it.

Anyway, he threw it away, so it doesn't matter.

What?

Mhm. He was going to burn it, but you know, he figured probably not.

I spent my money on that. That's

expensive.

I know that you did. That's why I rescued it.

Thank you.

So, Haddie, can I just ask you a question? Why would you buy yourself a

question? Why would you buy yourself a bra like that?

I'm not going to talk about this with you.

Okay, you know what? That's fine. You're

going to have to talk to Dad about it then because he's really curious as to why.

You would not do that.

Yes, I would. I'll call him right now.

All right. What do you want to know?

Just ask.

Did you buy that bra for Steve?

Mom, you know Steve doesn't have boobs.

I'm not going to buy him a bra.

You're ridiculous.

Patty, did you buy it for Steve?

No. Okay. I bought it for myself. All

right. It's pretty and it's sexy and I mean, I don't know what you want to think about me, but I'm a woman.

You have to promise me something. You

have to promise me that you're being smart and you're being careful and you're not having sex.

What do you think sex is?

I don't know anything beyond making out or That's your definition of sex for you?

I think I have to get ready for school.

Like you said, I can't be late again.

I trust you.

All right. This was drown our sorrows in some junk food and baseball. I should be able to catch those late innings.

Hey, how'd it go?

Well, I took your dad's advice about confidence.

I went up. I asked her to dance and she shot me down. Said she didn't want to like leave her friend or something when I asked her to dance. Oh, well, you know, maybe um her friend was jealous or

something. Like maybe her friend liked

something. Like maybe her friend liked you. I don't know. Sorry. Um

you. I don't know. Sorry. Um

Okay, I'm going to go.

You can't go.

Um Max is in bed and you're home.

Yeah, well, Max could wake up and I might have to leave on an emergency or something. You can't go. You have to

something. You can't go. You have to stay here.

Dad, yeah.

Are you seriously going to keep me here because I'm wearing this stupid bra?

Of course not. It's a bra. So, yes, I am.

Okay. Well, you know what? If you don't want me to leave the house while I'm wearing this bra, then you don't have to worry about it. What are you doing?

I'm trying to make you happy, Dad. If

you don't want me to leave wearing this, then I don't have to wear it. You can

rest easy and I'll see you at 11:30.

Addie, get back in here right now.

What? We made a deal.

Hattie, if you leave this house.

Hey.

Oh, hi Adam.

Hey. Is uh is is H Addie here by any chance? Yeah, she's upstairs with Steve.

chance? Yeah, she's upstairs with Steve.

Yeah. Is everything okay?

Yeah. Yeah. Uh, we just had a small emergency at home and she has to Oh, anything we can do?

No. No thanks. Do you mind if I just uh just go get her?

Where is she?

Okay. Just upstairs.

Upstairs. Is that where Steve's room is?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Hello.

Hey, Adam. What's up, Mr. Braver?

What are you doing here?

You are coming with me [music] right now.

No, I'm not.

Yes, you are.

Addie.

Okay, I'm sorry. [music]

No, right now. Come on.

It's all good.

You have everything.

See you later.

Mr. Braverman.

Ridiculous.

Get downstairs.

Thank you for Okay. Thanks. Okay. All

right. Bye. Hey,

what?

Hey, don't say you're Don't touch me. Don't talk to me. Don't

get in the back seat.

Don't talk to me.

What the hell were you thinking?

Dad, what was I thinking? I mean, what what were you thinking?

I told you to stay at home and you JUST TOOK OFF.

YEAH, WELL, you were being totally unreasonable.

Well, I don't care if I'm being unreasonable, Hattie. You're 15 years

unreasonable, Hattie. You're 15 years old and you live in my house, so you do what I say when I say it. Really? I do

whatever you say, no matter what.

Yes, no matter what.

Okay. So, if you tell me to shave my head, I have to do it.

Yes.

If you tell me to murder somebody, then I have to do it.

Yes.

Dad, Dad, if you tell me to burn this house down, then I have to do If I tell you to burn down the house, you have TO BURN DOWN THE HOUSE.

OKAY.

DAD, mom told me that I could go to Steve's house. Then you told me that I had to

house. Then you told me that I had to stay home and watch Max for a little while. And I did,

while. And I did, right?

But then you came home and told me that I couldn't go to Steve's house because you didn't like the kind of bra I was wearing.

I admit that that was uh inconsistent.

Inconsistent.

I'm concerned about a hypocrite.

You would totally let Drew hang out with his girlfriend. You would drive him to

his girlfriend. You would drive him to hang out with his girlfriend. But

because I'm a girl, you treat me like I'm 12 years old.

It's because you're my daughter.

Okay. And you're not wrong. There is a double [music] standard.

Yeah.

And it's not fair.

Thanks.

But then again, neither is the world.

Okay. Well, [music] that's ridiculous.

That's the way it is. I think that's what used to happen in [laughter] Got Hi, Amber. Do you work here or

Hi, Amber. Do you work here or something?

Yeah, you know, serving the ruling class as usual. So, can I get you guys

as usual. So, can I get you guys something?

Um, uh, how about two beers? Is that cool?

Steve, don't like this.

Unbelievable. Steve, I know you got a lot of nerve. You kids coming in here just this once. Okay, guys.

You're amazing.

I know. See,

be careful. Do you want me to pick for them? No, it's fine, dude. I got it.

them? No, it's fine, dude. I got it.

Cool.

What are you guys doing here? Yeah, I

don't know. He said we should have a picnic on the golf course, which is kind of cute. Why would you have a picnic on

of cute. Why would you have a picnic on the golf course? It's kind of weird, isn't it? It's probably code for like

isn't it? It's probably code for like what? Doing it.

what? Doing it.

I'm serious. I think it's like a thing cuz I saw couples going out there with like blankets and bottles and stuff. You

know what? He probably doesn't even know about it. It's probably like an urban

about it. It's probably like an urban legend or something like that.

Yeah. you know. Oh,

yeah. That's a blanket. That's a blanket in that bag.

Good luck.

Look, Addie, I I don't want to force you into anything that you don't want to do.

I love you.

I'm sorry for being weird tonight. No,

that's that's cool. We can uh we can try for next week.

Well, that's what we talked about. You

said what you indicated.

Are you telling me that I led you on?

No. No. I'm just saying I'm saying I care about you. So, whenever you're ready, I'll wait.

Steve, what?

I'm I'm not going to just like ripen like a piece of fruit.

That's not what I'm saying.

I don't I don't think that this whole thing is working.

What whole thing? What are you talking about?

Like us?

Why would you even say that? I mean,

you're just upset obviously right now.

[music] And I'm upset. I'm not just upset.

I'm upset. I'm not just upset.

So, one minute we're going from almost having sex to what? A breakup.

Steve, what?

Steve. Okay, listen. [music] I care about you. I really do a lot. I just I I

about you. I really do a lot. I just I I feel like this is what I have to do right now.

It was cold and there was like a rock digging into my back.

Oh, dude. Yeah. There you go, man. You

don't want that. It's a bad vibe.

Amber, that's not what it was. Like,

you're right. I just I want it to be working, but it wasn't. And like it just wasn't good.

So you broke, dude. Watch it.

I know. Unbelievable. But so you broke up?

Basically, it was like I wasn't even with a person anymore. I was with a stupid cliche.

Dude, I'm so sorry. But believe me, if there's one thing I know, you don't want to cash in your V chip with a cliche or a jerk or a douche. So I guess that

rules out Steve.

You did the right thing for sure, man.

Really? 100%. Okay. Thank you.

Um, since when do you like death cab?

Who burned this? Oh, um,

nobody. I just have to return that to somebody.

So, I'm going to put it to Steve.

Let me see that.

Um, oh [laughter] this is it.

Um, I say yay. Steve is a douche.

He is.

The Decemberist. Is this one his, too?

No, it's not. I love them.

Do it.

Do it.

Oh, I don't know.

A total jerk to you.

Totally deserves it.

Do you think I should, Amber?

Whatever you want. Do [laughter] it.

Do it.

I don't. That's

everybody.

It feels so bad. It's like,

come on, bring it. Patty, can I talk to you for

bring it. Patty, can I talk to you for one second?

Yeah.

About Steve.

Oh my god. I know. I saw you guys talking in the cafeteria. He probably

Did he say something weird? Because he

makes jokes.

That like Addy, it's not that.

Uh, what?

What?

No, I just This is hard.

What?

I I slept I slept with him.

Haha.

I don't know. I don't know. I don't know what happened. I don't know what

what happened. I don't know what happened. I It was an accident. I I

happened. I It was an accident. I I

messed up. I I was drinking and he was being nice and I just Something is wrong with me. I'm sorry. I wish I could take

with me. I'm sorry. I wish I could take it back. It was an accident.

it back. It was an accident.

And I'm [music] sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so

sorry. Please, please try to understand.

Can you Can you stop talking? I don't

know what happened. Please, please don't be mad at me. Please don't be mad at me.

I'm so sorry. Please.

Did you just do the bigger person?

Oh god, there she is.

Okay, well, let's just walk past her, What are you doing here?

You heard me.

Wa! Tough guys.

I like your gym shorts. You look really happy.

Yeah, they're pants. So close, though.

Shorts are usually shorter, but How can you sleep with your cousin's boyfriend? I don't think that's any of

boyfriend? I don't think that's any of your business.

It's my business.

I know it's your business and I told you I would talk to you about this privately, but I'm not going to do it in front of these I don't even know who THESE PEOPLE ARE.

THESE are my friends.

Oh, your friends. Okay. WELL, I WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT my boyfriend.

You want to know why? YOU WANT TO JUST TALK ABOUT THIS HERE IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY?

HERE'S WHY. Because I had a connection with him that you didn't have. And I'm

sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. But that's

the way that it is.

It sucks. And I'm sorry. A CONNECTION.

WE COULD HAVE DONE THIS IN a different way.

You guys stop. STOP.

stop. STOP.

Get up. COME HERE WITH ME NOW. COME

HERE. HEY. REAL.

I would actually like to know what happened right now.

I want to know the story while we're all standing here. Tell me right now.

standing here. Tell me right now.

Just ask Amber. Why don't Amber want to talk about it?

WHY DON'T YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTION?

[screaming] TELL THEM.

HEY, PATTY. I want you to tell me what

PATTY. I want you to tell me what happened right now.

Um uh don't stop. Amber told me to break up with Steve and then she had sex with him.

What is that true?

Don't. It's more complicated than that.

I want to leave.

Oh my god.

Leave. Let's go.

Christina, I'm going to talk to Amber.

Debbie Suga. Thanks.

Look.

Oh, look. It's the hoe.

Hey, hoe.

Hey.

What are you doing?

We didn't do anything.

Yeah, you did. You just [music] You're so mean. This isn't about your guys' little jokes and like making people feel bad. This is about my family.

Sorry.

No, I have to deal with all this stuff at home, okay? So, stop.

[singing] I was nobody.

Hi.

Hi.

Can I sit next to you?

Sure.

You all right?

No, I'm not all right. I'm not okay. I'm

not fine. I'm not good. I'm not

anything. I can't do anything here. I

can't even exist without getting made fun of or called a name or pushed around. And I'm just

around. And I'm just I'm so sorry.

Like I I don't want to put you through this. I feel so responsible for all of

this. I feel so responsible for all of this.

I know, but it's fine. It's not your fault. It's I mean, like, I [music]

fault. It's I mean, like, I [music] deserve it. I get it. I get that I

deserve it. I get it. I get that I deserve it.

Not at all. Look, Amber,

I'm so [music] sorry.

And I mean, I'll do anything to fix this situation.

[music] You're still missing [singing] you every second. [singing]

[music] Really have [snorts] the [music] Let me meet you there. I'm closer. It's

It's easy.

Oh, honey, you don't have to do that.

We're Honey, I do have to do it. She's my

niece. Hattie can watch Max. It's not a big deal. I'll just meet you there.

big deal. I'll just meet you there.

Okay.

Dad, they found Amber. She's in Gilroy or something like that. I'm gonna go get her. Okay.

her. Okay.

Can I come with you?

Honey, you have to stay here with Max.

Mom, please.

Okay, fine. We can drop Max to grandma's house. Just grab your jacket. We got to

house. Just grab your jacket. We got to go. We'll take Max to grandma's. Come

go. We'll take Max to grandma's. Come

on.

There comes a time, a time in everyone's life, where loving seems to go [music] away.

When nothing seems to turn out right, there may come a time [music] you just can't seem to find [singing]

your place.

For every door you open, seems like you get to slam in your face.

That's when you need [singing] some [music] that you you can call

when all [singing] your [music] faith is gone.

It feels like you can go [singing] home. [music]

Let it be me.

When [music] we were young, we were small, but we didn't know it.

When you were [music] hurt, you would smile.

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