Brainwash Yourself to Success | Kendra Scott
By BigDeal by Codie Sanchez
Summary
## Key takeaways - **Embrace negativity as fuel for success.**: When faced with doubt or criticism, instead of letting it deter you, use it as motivation to prove doubters wrong. This mindset, fueled by past experiences of being underestimated, can be a powerful driver for achieving goals. [00:06], [06:39] - **Bootstrapping builds a resilient, scrappy mindset.**: Starting with limited resources, like $500 and a card table, forces a "dollar in, dollar out" mentality. This early scrappiness, even when running a billion-dollar business, leads to thoughtful spending and a constant focus on reinvesting for maximum ROI. [00:46], [02:32] - **Connection, not transaction, drives retail success.**: The primary goal in retail should be building genuine connections with customers, making them feel loved and appreciated. This focus on human interaction, rather than just sales numbers, fosters customer loyalty for life. [17:59], [18:40] - **Authenticity is the key to effective sales.**: True salesmanship comes from authentically loving and believing in what you're building. This genuine passion translates naturally, making you a more effective salesperson than any forced pitch. [14:21] - **Disruptive, creative marketing is key to standing out.**: Don't be afraid to be unconventional and disruptive. Whether it's handing out jewelry with a heart costume or creating unique brand experiences, activity breeds activity and helps you stand out in a crowded market. [23:57], [27:41] - **Build your business around your 'why'.**: Identify what brings you joy and what problems break your heart; their intersection can be your 'why.' This passion and purpose will sustain you through tough times and guide the creation of a business that aligns with your dream life. [10:37], [11:10]
Topics Covered
- The Scrappy Startup Mindset: From Nothing to a Billion
- Take Control Back: Don't Let Setbacks Define You
- Connection Over Transaction: The Key to Brand Loyalty
- Build a Business Around Your True Story and Embrace Authenticity
- Own Your Identity: Don't Compromise Your Femininity for Business
Full Transcript
Every time someone says, "Oh, you don't
have a college degree. You can't
probably do that job." Or, "There's a
million jewelry designers out there.
What's going to make you special?" It's
like, "Oh, let me show you." I get
excited when someone tells me, "You
can't do something." I'm like, "Ooh, say
it again."
>> We're here with Kendra Scott, designer,
CEO,
>> and the entrepreneur who turned $500
into a billion dollar brand.
>> Welcome to the world of Kendra Scott.
>> If you want to brainwash your way to
success and make a business or money on
your own terms, this podcast is for you.
You're going to want to hear this story
if you feel stuck, if haters are getting
in the way of you achieving the life
that you want, or if you want to figure
out how to take your business to the
next level with stories from somebody
who's done it without a legacy of money,
just with a bunch of grit. No one would
invest in me. For 10 years, I
bootstrapped this business. And as I run
a billion-doll business today, I still
have that scrappy startup mindset. You
know, when you start with nothing, you
never forget how hard that is.
>> Oh, yeah. Was there ever a moment where
you thought this business is going
under? We're not going to make it.
>> How much time do we have?
>> Like every Tuesday?
>> I mean, Cody, there were so many.
>> So, we're going to start with a tactical
question.
>> Okay.
>> You started kind of famously with 500
bucks and have built now, is this right?
A billion dollar brand
>> over
sexy. I like it. Over billion.
Uh, which is crazy because jewelry is
just hard in general to get to that
level. But do you remember what did you
spend your first 500 bucks on?
>> Materials. I mean, I had to make the
product. So, I had to make samples. I
mean, it was like that basic. I went
out, got a few tools, got the materials
and stones. My mom brought over a card
table in my extra bedroom. I had a bead
board and some wire and tools. Made my
first sample set. I put it in a tea box,
a wooden tea box, and literally took my
baby son store to store, boutique to
boutique in Austin, Texas, and showed my
collection. And I came to the last store
of the day, and they offered to buy all
my samples cuz they were going to do a
fashion show that night. And I was like,
"Thank God." Because I didn't know how I
was going to purchase more materials for
the orders that had were written that
day. So, selling all my samples, which
is what I needed to do, I got the money
to be able to buy more materials to
fulfill the orders. So it was just like
every dollar I brought in I had to kind
of reinvest it in the beginning and I
had to make it count like stretch you
know it every single dollar had to
count. How long did you work like that
where it was like a dollar in a dollar
out a dollar in a dollar out
>> for a long time Cody? No one would
invest in me. Okay. So I had to do it on
credit card debt and a line of credit
for 10 years. I bootstrapped this
business and so every single dollar I
made, I had to figure out, okay, how am
I going to reinvest it and get the
biggest ROI I can on that dollar. What I
love about it is it made me incredibly
scrappy. And as I run a billion-doll
business today, I still have that
scrappy startup mindset. And I'm so
thoughtful about how we spend our money,
what we're spending it on, what are we
doing, and thinking about it. And
everyone I hire, I really remind them
like, I remember when I couldn't afford
a second set of tools, folks. So before
we just throw out, you know, a million
dollars on this project, let's bid it
out. Let's really think about what we're
doing. What are we going to get in
return for this? Why are we doing it?
And it's kind of having that, you know,
when you start with nothing and you
build it, you never forget how hard that
is.
>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. It's funny. The other
day we did a YouTube video and part of
the video was to smash a cake.
>> Yeah.
>> But they brought the cake out. You know,
when you can just tell something's
expensive. I'm like,
>> that's the cake. Like we're smashing.
That's the cake you want. It was a fancy
cake. And then I asked I was like, "How
much did that case cost?" And they were
like, "Well, it was pink and we needed
pink and it was an $80 cake." And I was
like, "I know that's only 80 bucks." So
like in the grand scheme of things,
right?
>> But I do think the way you do anything
is the way you do everything. And
>> but you could have gone down to HB and
got a $10 cake.
>> Girl, I about did almost like just for
the plot. I was like, I might return
this cake and delay us an hour on
principal alone, you know. But I I
learned that same thing from one of
somebody I look up to a lot, which is
Dave Ramsey. He says
>> their business moves at the speed of
cash.
>> Yeah.
>> What would your team say? Like, do you
have sayings where they're like, "Oh,
there goes Kendrick again with her
oneliners about how we run this
company."
>> Well, you know, I mean, I I always I
like to say, "We don't play for a
second." Um, you know, they hear me say
that a lot. Like, we're in it to win it.
Um, we have a very I mean as sweet and
kind and all those things that we are,
we're extremely competitive and we're
fiercely like we want to go out there
and we want to win and we want to be the
best that we are. We are never
complacent. We are never like our
business is a billion dollars. Let's all
be happy and go, you know, drink
margaritas on the beach. It's like now
we got to work harder every day. How are
we going to surprise and delight our
customer today? And those are things
that like my team hears me say
constantly. It's like we wake up every
day, it's like we're going to be better
than we were yesterday. And you've got
to have that mindset in business to be
able to be successful today.
>> Were you always like that? Were you
always driven and like relentless?
>> Yeah, I mean I I was I mean I think I've
I've always wanted to challenge I'm
curious
>> and I've always wanted to challenge
myself and when things are hard on the
other side of fear, there's always been
something great that has happened. I
remember being bullied in middle school
and how hard that was and being made fun
of and going literally eating my lunch
in a stall with my feet up on the toilet
because there was hall monitors. You
weren't supposed to be in the in the in
the bathroom during lunch period. And so
I'd hide in the bathroom eating my lunch
because I knew I'd go in the lunchroom.
It'd be horrible. But during that time,
I was like, you know, I'm going to run
for student council president. Okay, I
was like, this is the worst time of my
life. And I didn't think I was going to
win, but I wanted to like go out there
and make some change. And I thought, you
know, there's other nerds like me who,
you know, maybe are feeling like, you
know, feeling like I do, like there's
this popular group of kids, but then
there's a lot of people who, you know,
maybe they don't feel like they have a
voice and I could be their voice. And so
I ran for student council president and
my slogan was Kendra Kan.
>> I like it. Kendra can
>> and I ended up winning.
>> Wow. And but that gave me this thing
inside of me where was like my purpose
was like I can be the voice for people
who don't have a voice and I can I can
show them not to be scared. And my dad
always said I remember dropping me off
in school and he'd be like I'd be like
God you know just miserable walking in.
He'd be like baby kill them with
kindness. And it was that idea of taking
the high road and that the more somebody
tries to tear you down just remember who
you are and use it as fuel
>> to prove them wrong. And that has always
been part of me because I've always felt
a little underestimated. And every time
someone says, "Oh, you're not you don't
have a college degree. You you can't you
can't probably do that job." Or, "Oh,
there's a million jewelry designers out
there. What's going to make you
special?" Or, you know, you hear all
those things now. Those things for me
are this like fuel. It's like, "Oh, let
me show you." I get excited, Cody. It's
kind of sick. I get excited when someone
tells me like, "You can't do something."
I'm like, "Ooh, say it again." You know?
I'm like, "Oh, tell it to me again." You
know, cuz I'm like I just have this like
I'm going to show you what you don't
see. You know, and so part of that
competition part of like when you look
at businesses, it's like I know we can
be better and I know I can create an
experience for my customer that's going
to be so powerful and so impactful. I
know that we can give her something that
she cannot get anywhere else. And so
part of that is I think stems from from
that little girl that was eating her
lunch in the bathroom.
>> Oh, it's so good. Yeah. I think you take
the hate and turn it into fuel.
>> You do.
>> And and if you can do that, you become
unstoppable. But I feel the same thing.
I remember David and I had this one
guest that we wanted that wasn't going
to come on. And I was like, it'll be
either either be now or we'll tell them
no when we're way bigger later.
>> So, you know, you kind of operate as if.
>> So, do you think there is a way for
somebody who is listening right now
that's like,
>> Lord, my brain doesn't work that way.
You know, when I when I get punched in
the face, I stay down. It makes me sad.
like how does that even happen? You
know, is there somebody if they're
listening right now, how do you
brainwash your way into success?
>> You know, it's it's really we are our
worst enemies. People say that all the
time. Our minds, you know, the the power
of what if, right? We we let the power
of what if I would have done this
instead of this or what if I would have
married Joe instead of John or what you
know we can we can spiral ourselves into
complete paralysis by letting the
whatifs control our mindset right and so
we are our worst enemy so when we are in
those moments this is where I get and
this is the competitive thing again
somebody hurts you or says something or
you know something doesn't go the way
you want it to go in that moment you
have a choice I'm going to let them
I'm going to let them have all of the
power. I'm going to let them force me to
stop loving again or believing in myself
again or trying again. I'm going to give
that to that person or that thing that
just happened to me. Or I'm going to
take the control back and I'm going to
get up right now and I'm going to
remember who I am, what I can do, what I
am capable of. And I'm not going to look
in the rearview mirror anymore. I'm
going to look forward and I'm going to
remember that. And I think when you have
that shift of do you are you going to
allow that person or that thing that
happened to you control your future or
are you going to take it as fuel to
absolutely go forward in a powerful and
strong way? That's a choice we got to
make and it's a powerful one when you
can do it.
>> I'm going to run through a wall after
this. I feel like did your team leave a
meeting and they're just like let's go.
Just have a bunch of meat eataters
working for you like selling jewelry but
not that sweet. They're like ready to
go.
>> We Hey, we we're fired up every day.
>> I I get up and I just cannot believe I
get to live this life.
>> Yeah.
>> Like I'm so grateful, Cody. I'm so
grateful that I get to do what I love.
That I get to work around such
incredible awesome people that I get to
do things and help other entrepreneurs
now and help other women founders. Like
it is like a dream. And so yeah, I wake
up and I'm really pumped every day. I
love that. Okay, I want to go back a
little bit. So, let's say that somebody
is listening right now. They're fired
up. They just heard you get after it.
They're like, "All right, Kendra, I'm
ready to go, but they're they they kind
of like don't know what to do." They're
like, "Listen, she did it with 500
bucks. I got 500 bucks." If you were
giving them a little sprinkle of magic,
what would you tell somebody who had
$500 to spend? What businesses are you
like, why aren't you starting that
business right now?
>> Yeah. I mean, look, you've got to, you
know, I love this where you kind of look
at like what is something that brings
you incredible joy and what is something
that breaks your heart? And the
intersection of those two things may be
your why. Okay? And when you start to
think about that, it's like, what is
something that I am so passionate about
that I cannot find or that I want or a
problem that I know needs to be solved
that maybe I could solve it? Because if
you have passion and purpose behind your
idea, it's going to get you through
those really rough days. is because
entrepreneurship is not for the faint of
heart. Okay? So, you've got to have a
real why and a real purpose. And that's
why I love kind of those two elements
because for me it's like what matters to
you,
>> what really matters to you. And for me,
it was like I knew I wanted to be I
loved fashion design since I was a
little girl. Loved it. My aunt was a
fashion director and she just brought me
into this world where fashion was magic.
And the reason I loved it is it wasn't
about how it made me look. It's how it
made me feel. because I could be a
little girl from Wisconsin and put on my
aunt's Donna Karen jacket and some of
her amazing jewelry and all of a sudden
I was like somebody else, you know, I
could be anybody I wanted to be. And so
fashion was important to me, but I
started this business with a newborn
baby. And I was like, I want to have a
business that allows me to be a present
mother.
>> I want to be a mom first. I didn't want
to have the the the conversation of work
life balance. I wanted my family to be
part of my business
>> and create a business that allowed other
moms and dads to be able to be for their
for their families first and have have a
great career in the making. So, it was
all those elements, you know, put
together that really helped me kind of
form this foundation of what I wanted to
do and how I wanted to do it. And then
giving back was huge. I lost my
stepfather to brain cancer. My first
business was a hat company. I created
headwear for men and women undergoing
chemotherapy. He inspired that business.
People were not buying hats, Cody. Okay.
I wanted it to be the thing. I opened a
little hat store called The Hatbox here
in Austin. I was 19 years old. I ran
that little store 5 days a week. I
helped a lot of people, but I wasn't
making money. And I had to close that
business. It was a huge failure for me.
But I knew there was something there
about what I was doing. The purpose of
what I was doing mattered. And so if I
got into business again, if I would be
brave enough to get into business again,
I wanted to be able to have those
elements to do something that I love
with all my heart to be able to have
family as the focus and the heart of it
and be able to give back in a meaningful
way. And that really was the foundation
of Kendra Scott and where we were able
to form a product that made people feel
good, look good, and do good at the same
time.
>> So good. Yeah. I don't know if I told
you this, but I've been wearing Kendra
Scott jewelry since back probably like
since the very beginning. I Oh crap. I I
got to send you a picture of it. I have
I almost brought I've like found kind of
a I guess it would be a vintage Kendra
Scott. I was like
>> It's sad when that happens now, Cody,
because people like I've got my vintage
Kendra Scott. I'm like, "Oh man, that
makes me feel so old. That makes me
vintage. I know. Timeless." Um and
quality cuz what jewelry do you keep
these days for 10 years? It's like only
the nicest, most luxurious pieces and
then I buy a bunch of stuff that I
wouldn't keep, you know?
>> Thank you. I mean, I I designed the
collection to be a collector's kind of
thing where you can pull it out of your
jewelry box 10 years from now and still
love that piece of jewelry and you can
build on it. You know, we'll use similar
stones like natural mother of pearl or
you know, whatever it might be where
it'll go back to piece that you may have
bought 5, 10, now in this case 2, 3
years ago. That is wild. How do we get
old so fast? I know. Now, well, I
started when I was one obviously. So,
yeah, that's right. Yes, you did. Me,
too. So many entrepreneurs started out
as door-to-d dooror salespeople. Sarah
Blakeley, Mark Cuban, you. Do you think
that you need to be good at sales in
order to be a great entrepreneur? I
think you've got to represent your brand
and you've got to be able to to
articulate the why to people and really
show people the passion behind what
you're doing. Doesn't mean that you
don't have to be a great salesperson,
but when you're authentic, you will be a
great salesperson. When you
authentically love what you are created
have created or or what you're building
or what you're doing, you don't have to
be good at sales because that passion
will come out naturally and
authentically. So that's why I always
tell people if you're just doing
something to make money, you people will
smell a fake in a minute when you walk
through and try to do your sales pitch
because it can just feel, you know, you
know the ones they feel a little slimy,
they feel Yeah. But when you go in with
something that feels really authentic
and real, it really translates really,
really well. I mean, I went door to door
with literally Kate and that little baby
Bejorn and this tea box full of jewelry.
And I was here in Austin. I think in
Texas, it works better than maybe if I
was in LA or New York, they may called
security on me. But, you know, here they
were like, "Oh, honey, give me that
baby." You know, exactly. It might have
helped your sales.
>> Oh, thousand%. Kate helped. He was
giggly, sweet, happy baby. He's 23 years
old now, but uh he was a great sales
associate. It's a good trick.
>> Does he get a little He's lives a great
life. This kid is doing fine. This kid's
not suffering. Okay, Cody,
>> you're like, "Calm down. He's fine.
>> He's good. He's good."
>> So, what what makes a good salesperson?
You mentioned authentic, but if you were
like, "All right, if you want to get
good at sales, this is what you need to
do." What would you say?
>> I think you need to come in and you need
to be articulate what it is you're
trying to sell in a very short sentence,
right? Be very clear, be very concise
with your pitch and eye contact. And
then ask questions. If they're saying no
to you, this is the greatest opportunity
for information. To me, that is on in
the mirror, meaning the conversation has
just got it started. So, you say no, you
don't want the collection. I go, okay,
well, what did what didn't you see today
that you would have liked to see? What
can I show you next time? Because I've
already now setting the appointment for
the next time I'm coming back. When I
come back in spring with my next season,
I'd like to know what I could could
bring that you might be more excited
about seeing. What other designers are
you buying that you're really excited
about? can you tell me what it is about
them that you like? So, all of a sudden,
my sales call became this information
source that I'm now going to take back
with me and learn from and then come
back to. And I promise most of those nos
turned into a yes because of that. I
didn't go, "Okay, oh, you don't like me.
Okay, bye." And I'm never going to see
you again. It was I'm going to learn and
I'm going to win a yes from you and I'm
going to keep trying. And there was I
would said cupcakes and cookies to
buyers in the early days. Um, you know,
if it it was a spring theme, I'd some
like birdshaped cookies or flower shaped
cookies and handwritten notes. And I had
one buyer from Neiman Marcus. She she
called me one time and I had it was like
years, I want to say, like four years or
something. She finally is like, I've
gained 11 pounds.
Will you please quit sending me cookies
and cupcakes, but I want to come see
your come in here and talk to me and
come show me your collection. She's
like, I I love everything that you're
doing. And she's like, "I was in church
on Sunday and six girls in front of me
were all wearing Kendra Scott." And
she's like, at that point, she's like,
"The scale was talking to me and God was
talking to me."
She's like, "Come on in and and show me
what you got." But I mean, it's part of
it is that persistence of like taking no
and figuring out how to turn it into a
yes and doing it through really getting
that feedback from whoever it is you're
selling to.
>> That's great. Do you teach when people
come into Kendra Scott, do they get like
a Kendra Scott sales lesson? Like is
this something you teach the the team
about a certain way that you guys sell?
>> Yeah. So we say connection over
transaction. I tell my team all the time
you look in retail stores and they're
like oh the SPT and the upt and all this
stuff and it's all data driven and their
teams are just so much on like how many
trans how many items per transaction am
I selling and they become almost
robotic. I take all that and I throw it
in the trash.
To me, brick and mortar is a place for
connection for brands, for for people to
get connected to your brand, to
experience your brand, to become in the
world of what it is that you're
creating. So, the goal for the people
that you have in those stores is not to
sell. I'm going to say it again. The
goal for the people that you hire in
your retail stores is not for them to
sell. It is for them to connect. It is
for them to make every single human that
has taken the time out of their crazy
busy schedule who decided to walk
through the doors of your store, which
is a gift by the way, to make them feel
loved, welcome, appreciated, and have
the time of their life. Whether or not
they leave with a yellow bag that day or
not, if you've created a real connection
with that customer, you will get a
customer for life. She will share that
experience with all of her friends. She
may go online later when she's in bed
after she put her kids to bed and go
back on and shop online, but we have
made a real connection. And if your
retail stores become that place of
connection, brands can absolutely blow
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know, it's fascinating because I've
experienced your brand so many times
being here in Austin. And you just
launched Yellow Rose, which is a
stunning store. You know, I'll let you
explain it, but let's call it like
modern western in my terms. But it is
beautiful jewelry. Kind of feels
timeless. Feels like I could have gotten
it from the best pieces from my grandma.
And we actually had a YouTube video that
we did outside of your store. And I'm
just remembering this now. Um I have a
big production team. And so they go
around to stores and ask, could we shoot
outside? And all of our videos we donate
the profits that we get to vary. This
one was like Austin entrepreneurs or
something.
>> And so we had it boys sales challenge.
So who is better? And so they went and
sold like different things, coffees,
whatever on the street.
>> Um and I had the funniest experience.
>> I had an experience with your team that
was amazing. You're like whatever you
want out front. Great. Come in. Are you
guys okay? Do you need something to
drink? Like oh we'll buy it. You know
let's let the girls win. I'm buying that
from the girl. The boys can't win this.
They're incredible.
>> Then we had another brand that I won't
say where we were in in front of their
store for like 30 seconds. They were
like mad. Came out, you know, who are
you? You know, can I talk to the
manager? Basically, you know, and one,
it's public domain. So, actually in the
place that we were at, we didn't even
have to ask, but we did it out of
courtesy. And I'm thinking in that
moment, you're exactly right. How many
times do we miss an opportunity because
of the rules or how everybody else does
it as opposed to thinking human
connection wins?
>> Human connection always wins. And when
you train your staff and give them the
power to please where they don't have to
ask a manager for approval. If I am
putting the most important job in my
company, it's not any of our sea level
suite. It's not any of our SVPs. It is
my front line. Those are the most
important people at Kendra Scott and I
need to give them the tools that they
need to be able to be successful and I
need to give them the power that they
need to be able to make decisions in the
moment to be able to react and make that
customer happy and never have to even
worry about all this red tape. You know,
I worked in retail like in high school
and in college and let me tell you like
the book you would get was like the size
of the telephone book. For all you young
folks, that was a thing. We used to have
a telephone book. Um, but it was the
size of a telephone book and it was all
these policies and procedures and and
all these rules and regulations and this
and this. That kind of stuff is not
going to work. Every single person is a
human being with a real thing that
they're going through in that moment of
their life. We don't know what that is.
So, we've got to come from a place of an
open heart and an open mind. And every
interaction we have needs to be that
way. And so, you know, it's just a way
how you train and how you set hire. It's
not just about training. Like who we
hire is most important. I don't care if
you've had any retail experience. Quite
honestly, sometimes I prefer if you
don't because I have to unteach some of
those policies and procedures and the
phone book stuff, right?
>> Rub the corporate off of
>> I got to get like, no, I don't want you
to have all that. I hire up people who
just are brimming with optimism, who are
brimming with positivity, who are
brimming with warmth. the people that
you just want to hug that you feel that
in their presence. When you interview
with somebody and you don't want that
interview to stop, you want to just keep
talking to them because they're so
awesome and so engaging and you just are
like, "Oh my god, I love this." That's
who we hire. Um, and then I can teach
them all about the stones and I can
teach them about our settings and how to
do color bar and all these other
elements, but I can't teach them that. I
can't teach them how they make people
feel. That's either in you or it's not.
And that's the number one thing we hire
on heart.
>> That's so good. My dad always says you
can lead a horse to water, but you can't
make him drink. Right.
>> And and that you can't teach desire,
which I I love that.
>> Absolutely.
>> But let's let's talk about some of the
unhinged things you've done to grow,
Kendra Scott, cuz I've seen a few really
cool things that most billion-dollar
brands don't do so much. Like I saw a
popup you guys did with SunLife, and
you're like handing out jewelry, but
like kind of in a fun way at like 7:30
in the morning on a Sunday. I was like,
"This is wild. Is it?" I was like, is
that free? Like, is this for no reason?
So, what are some of the craziest things
you've ever done to grow your billion
dollar business?
>> So, I really believe in touching the
customer, like physically touching the
customer. Now, we have all this great
power with social media and all which is
incredible, which we didn't I didn't
have when I started my company quite
honestly. But there's something again
about human connection, going out and
and not just waiting for your customer
to come walk through your doors.
Activity breeds activity. So, creating
activity is exciting. Whether that's us
going onto campuses where we're having
our Alisa tour where people could come
and pick their favorite Alisa and
they're getting cups of coffee and you
know we'd have 300 students in line.
They're engaging with an experience with
our brand that is so special and we're
meeting them where they are at and we're
bringing them into our world and then
that's where the beauty of connection
comes and now all of a sudden we have a
fan and you have an advocate for your
brand that's not just a customer an
advocate for your brand which is really
exciting like our customers in so many
ways are like brand ambassadors you know
the connection they feel to our brand is
so different because of all of the
community outreach that we do. We hosted
over 25,000 events in in our company
last year.
>> Oh my god.
>> 25,000. We have people in every single
store that that's all they're doing.
Whether that's Kendra Gives Back events
with local charities, whether that's
doing activations like you just talked
about with, you know, Sun Life or other
brands, no matter what it is, we're out
there every day hustling and we're
touching people physically touching
people everywhere we can. And that makes
such a difference in our brand. And I
think so many brands today just have
forgotten the power of that.
>> Do you think a lot of this stems from
the fact that you did bootstrap it? Like
most businesses in jewelry,
>> I definitely don't know who runs them.
Uh I've never been to an activation.
Unless it was like a very fancy one,
maybe like a luxury one at the store,
red carpet, something something.
>> Um but this isn't very normal for your
industry.
>> No. I mean, I dressed my best friend up
in a heart costume on Valentine's Day
and we walked up and down uh we walked
up and down South. This is a few years
ago. Okay. I'm already a billion-dollar
brand and I made my best friend dress up
in a heart costume as a mascot and we
just walked up to people on the street
and asked about their love story and I
gave them jewelry. I started this way
because I didn't have any money for big
ad campaigns. I couldn't take out
advertisements in magazines or, you
know, newspaper or whatever. So, the
only way I could get my product out
there was I brought literal product. I
gave away my product. And one of my
friends, Clayton Christopher, he did
Sweet Leaf Tea at the same time that I
was starting Kendra Scott here in
Austin. And he was like, I let people
taste it because once they taste it,
they want it. So they got to try it.
Well, I was selling jewelry, not tea.
But I was like, I loved that concept.
And so I would go to every hot
restaurant and I'd make sure that all
the servers and the hostess, I'd gift
them Kendra Scott. And I'd give them
cards, business cards, and be like, here
you there's discount cards to give to
customers if they ask. I just opened a
shop on South Congress. I'd go to like
the hair salons, the hottest hair
salons, make sure every stylist was
wearing Kendra Scott. You're sitting in
a chair, you're looking at a mirror.
Those hair stylists are wearing the
jewelry. They're like, "What is that?" I
got the product out there because that
was the one thing I had, the only thing
I had that I could use for advertising.
Word of mouth was how I built Kendra
Scott 100%. And this was before we had
social media and the ability to do that
virally, right? We were doing it just
like physically having people go and
tell their friends. How do you come up
with crazy ways to get attention without
spending tons of money?
>> Well, you don't need tons of money. You
just need creativity and you need to not
be afraid to, you know, like I think so
many people are like afraid like, "Oh my
god, I'm going to get laughed at or that
could be, as my 12-year-old says,
cringe." Um, you know, that could be so
cringe. Um, but you've got to be able to
just go out there and have fun and not
care. You know, stop caring what
everybody else thinks. Be disruptive.
That's the only way you're going to make
it in business today is you have to be
disruptive. I say it all the time. This
is one of my slogans. If you're doing
what everybody else is doing, you've
already failed. You have to do it with
your own fingerprint, your own voice,
and you have to do it in a disruptive
way. I love to use the example of the
Blue Man Group. Okay? How many like acts
are out there in the world, right? That
are like competing like just like
jewelry, right? Or all these other
industries. These guys said, "I'm going
to paint our bodies blue."
Like this was their thing. We're going
to go on the streets and we're going to
dance and we're going to do our thing.
Blue Man Group became because they were
disruptive. They did something that
other people would go, "What in the
world is happening?" But it caused
attention. It created excitement.
Activity bred activity and it bred
bookings and it it built a whole
business for them. So, don't be afraid
to be a little crazy. It's so good. I
think um I think often times what we
also don't realize is the more success
you have, the less people think anything
you do is cringey. So, I often like,
hey, listen, if it you know, if if it's
cringey now, once you make it, nobody
cares, right? It's not cringey anymore.
So, like just make it do everything you
can. Have zero ego in the beginning.
>> Yes.
>> You can't have shame when you don't have
money in your bank account.
>> No.
>> What about
>> you talked about um some fun things you
did, but what do you think, you know,
for somebody who's listening that's
like, I want to go out there and start a
business right now. I don't know if it's
in jewelry or I have something else, but
I know I want to go start a business
and um I don't have much money. What are
some non-glamorous
maybe doesn't require massive amounts of
creativity, but just like if you do
these three to five things, you'll have
a harder time failing in business.
>> Yeah. I mean, first you've got to solve
a problem. Um, I like to look at my
friends, you know, Tiff and Leon with
Tiff's Treats. They're they're good
buddies of mine. I know, right? But
cookies, okay, cookies are a very common
thing. Bakeries are a very common thing.
But they took cookies and they said,
"What if we could deliver them hot, like
warm?" You know, that's different than
what's out there right now. So, they
took a business that was I mean, million
cookies in the world. They took
something and they created something
that was special and disruptive by
delivering them warm, right? They
started out of their dorm room here at
University of Texas in Austin, which is
crazy to me, right? Delivering warm
cookies. But what I say, and I love that
as an example, is it doesn't like have
to be like you're reinventing the wheel
and creating some product that has never
existed. You've got to create your a
product that is unique, but it's still
solving a problem and doing something in
an innovative and fresh way that's
disruptive. And if you can do those
things, it doesn't require money. It
requires creativity.
>> And if you've got creativity, you've got
in spades over over a big check, right?
Being creative can be better than any in
in investment that you could ever get in
your business.
>> That's so good. I need to think about it
more. I have a to-do list over here for
David and I after this. Are we
disrupting enough, David? You're so
disruptive, Cody. You are. I don't know.
But I I mean, I think the other thing
that's interesting about you is you kind
of have an an outsider perspective. It's
not like there are tons of
billion-dollar jewelry businesses being
made in Texas in general. Certainly not
in Austin. Did you ever consider
yourself an outsider? And is it an
advantage to being an outsider?
>> Yeah, for sure. Sure. I mean, when I
started, I remember going to New York
and going to the Javit Center and
setting up apparel and accessory shows
and setting my booth up, you know, and
buyers and editors from the magazines
would be like, "Oh, are you in LA or New
York?" And I'd be like, "Well, no, I'm
in Austin, Texas." And they'd be like,
"Oh, you really need to move to the
coast if you're going to have a
successful brand in fashion." And I was
like, "Well, you don't know Austin,
Texas. Uh, you don't know the creativity
here." And what they didn't also, you
know, what I realized is I looked
different because I was being influenced
by this incredible place I was living. I
wasn't trying to be like everybody else
in New York and LA. They were all just
trying to look the same. You'd come
across my booth and it was like, whoa,
what's happening here? Like, this is
totally different, but it's what really,
you know, helped us get on the map
because we stood out and we looked
different. So, being from here really
was part of the DNA of Kendra Scott and
I think a huge advantage. The other
thing, you know, and I said this to
someone earlier today, was Texans
support Texans. Um, this state is a
crazy thing and it's like the
entrepreneurs here, they hold hands.
They lift each other up. They share
information. We really have a mindset of
like we're competing against the world,
so let's help and support one another. I
can't tell you how many incredible
business owners and friends I have in
this state who literally were there for
me and vice versa throughout all the
different stages of my growth of my
business. And I wouldn't be sitting here
with you, Cody, if I had started my
business on the coasts. I wouldn't
because I needed that support and that
love. And this state really gave me my
wings to fly.
>> Yeah. Well, it's also scary sometimes
doing things a little bit different, but
if you're in a place that's already
different, that's a great unfair
advantage that you can kind of mimic
what's happening around you and that in
itself is not normal. I never thought
about that for you. What about um
>> slight change of of topic? I'm seeing
this gorgeous ring on your finger. So
beautiful. Very tiny.
>> He did good. He did good.
>> He did good.
>> Okay, so you're engaged to Zach Brown.
Um who I'm a huge fan of. My parents are
too, like giant fans. But I was
wondering, there are all these
narratives about women and success and
how successful women can't also be in
good relationships. Um, and I was just
like curious your take. You know, do you
think are men intimidated by a billion
dollar CEO woman?
>> I think some men can be intimidated by a
billion-dollar CEO woman. And I think
there are some men like Zach who
absolutely just want to lift me up and
and do anything they can to support and
love and cheer me on. Um and vice versa,
right? We both have very big lives and
creatives and so so many similar things
about art. You know, he's music, I'm
jewelry, but what we do is so similar.
We're trying to bring joy to people
through the art that we create. Uh we're
trying to make people happy. We love our
kids so much and our children are the
the heart of our entire universe. And so
all of those things are so aligned and
when you find a partner that you have
that alignment with and there's no
competition,
>> it's just I love you. I'm rooting for
you. I see you. I want to do everything
I can to lift you up and then to also be
your rock. Cuz I haven't had that
before, Cody. I, you know, I had felt
like the world was on my shoulders in a
lot of ways. I was a single mom for much
of of my start, you know, starting the
business and and getting the business
going. And it was really hard and and I
didn't have someone that could hold me
when things were hard. And I always felt
like I had to be the strong like tough
one and I couldn't let the face go and
you know what I mean? And like I had to
just be like, "Okay, put the game face
on. It's going to be okay." And even
when I was, you know, losing confidence
in myself or whatever, I had a few good
friends and people that I could talk to.
But to have a partner, a real partner
that I can go, God, this is tough for me
and and have someone who gets it, who
understands the weight of what it feels
like to carry that burden. Um, and to be
able to just hold me in that space and
be like, I hear you. I see you. I can't
solve the problem, but I'm here to help
you and and and be a shoulder, whatever
you need is a really amazing thing and
I'm so grateful for
>> Yeah. Yeah. No, I I totally relate to
that. I think I I had a partnership
before that it just it didn't work for
me that way. And and I think competition
can be tough sometimes when you're
you're playing in this game. And for
most of, you know, human existence, we
weren't really competing with each
other.
>> And so I always like, you know, I go
back and forth between do I ever ask the
question or not. But I think there are
so many women out there right now who
who really, you know, we we were girl
bosses and and we, you know, climbed the
corporate ladder or built our businesses
or whatever. And then I think there are
a lot of of women that I talk to at
least it's the number one thing they
want to talk about.
>> They're like, I'm successful in my
career. I'm I'm modering, but like will
it be possible for me to find love and a
man that can handle it?
>> One, I mean, there are people out there,
there are men out there and there women
out there, too, right? It goes both
ways, right? And it's like you can't
just be the girl boss in every
situation. Like there's masculine and
feminine, right? And like I can be
totally tough girl boss making the
decisions, doing all the things, but
there's moments when I want to come in
and I want to be more of the feminine
side of me and I want him to like honey,
you decide what we're having for dinner
tonight or where we're going to go. Like
I don't want to have to make all the
decisions. And it's nice to be able to
have that dynamic and be able to know
that you can have that eb and flow in a
relationship and that you're in a safe
place to do that. Um, there's nothing
more powerful than that. And it's
important to like, you know, look, I
hadn't gotten it right all the time. And
I look at you and, you know, you've
you've known your guy for a long time
and I have friends that have had
relationships that, you know, they've
had since they were in high school or
college and like, wow, like that's
amazing. But I also think we need to
give each other grace. Not everything
works out the way we always wanted to.
No one goes into a marriage or any type
of relationship thinking it's going to
end. We're all hopeful, right, that this
could be what happens. And if we allow,
again, like we talked about before, a
failure or a divorce to stop you from
ever loving again, that'd be a shame.
You know, we've got one life on this
earth. And I want to make it count. And
yeah, some things may not have gone the
way that I had thought they would go,
>> but I still believed in love. And you
know, meeting Zach um at this stage of
my life, you know, he may not be my
first, but he's my last.
>> Oh, I love that. Yeah, he seems really
cute on Instagram,
>> which is the sweetest.
>> He's got all the hats, so you wouldn't
think
>> Oh, he's a teddy bear.
>> Is he? I won't tell anybody.
>> No, I mean, now the world knows. He as a
dad, too. He's got four daughters and a
son. I mean, he is the most incredible
girl dad you've ever seen. Just so
protective and loving and it's it's
amazing thing. You can tell them tough
guys. Yeah, exactly. We Sounds like we
want to keep up. We want to keep them
prim. Yes.
>> Yeah. I think sometimes the tough guys
also are the ones that are the kindest.
Like Chris, you know, former Navy Seal,
everybody always thinks he's the mean
guy and sometimes I'm kind of the mean
guy and then he is actually the kind
one. Um, but that's really nice of you
to share because again I think
>> yes
>> it's hard out there, you know, like all
the statistics say we're we're we're
getting married less, you know, we're in
relationships less, we're kind of a
little bit lonier and so um
>> but having a partner is so so amazing. I
mean, having a real partner in life
>> and and having it where you've got each
other
>> that you know that the other person
1,000% has your back, loves you, is
rooting for you, is cheering you on, is
your biggest supporter. if you can find
that and then give and have that the
same for your like that's how I am with
Zach like I'm his biggest fan you know
in all things that he does in his life
and I just want to be additive and I
wake up and I go what can I do today to
make him happy to you know to be there
for our family in a meaningful way to
make sure he knows how much he's loved
and he does the same for me and when you
have that reciprocation in a
relationship it it's really magical
>> that's a really good note actually that
idea of like doing one nice thing a day
for your partner like how do you go
above and beyond for them.
>> Every single day, no matter where we
are, we start our morning with good
morning. I love you so much. Whether
it's a text, if we're in a different
city, or whether we're laying next to
each other in bed, um I mean, we do not
get the first words out of our mouth is,
"I love you." Um, and the last words out
of our mouth before we go to bed are, "I
love you." And you know, even with my
kids, I mean, I don't ever get off the
phone with my kids without telling them
I love them. I mean, they hear it all
the time from me, but I'm like, "You're
I'm going to tell you. I know you know,
but I'm gonna tell you all the time
because I never want you to ever worry
about that. You know, I love that you're
so loved.
>> My mom was here today. She's been at our
event. We had an event all weekend.
She's been hanging out. It's It's the
most uh incredible thing to be able to
bring your family along with you, you
know?
>> Yes. Um I love that you do that cuz I
say all the time people, you know, we
get the work life balance question as
women.
>> Oh, a lot.
>> Right. But men don't get that as often.
We get it all the time. But I built a
business where family could be part of
my business, you know, and and bringing
my kids along with me and getting them
see what I do and what my work looks
like and understanding that gave them
such a unique perspective in life and
thinking about now I've grown men who
are my sons and then starting their own
businesses and having that almost like
by osmosis experience, you know, from
the pack and play in my office to where
we are today, watching it all along the
Hey, it's been it's really part of their
like genetic makeup now because it's
like they've been they've been in it,
you know, every single day of their
life.
>> They're like lifting off skews to fall
asleep every night. I like that.
>> So, did you actually That's I've always
wondered that. I I haven't been blessed
with kids yet. Hopefully that happens
one day for us. But, um,
>> did you bring your kids to work
>> all the time? You just you just strap
them in.
>> I still do. I mean, yeah. You know, in
the early days when they before they
were in preschool, I had a pack and play
and I had a bouncy chair and there was
like six of us in the office and I mean
I'd be on the phone with a buyer like
Nordstrom and I'd be like passing Beck
my baby, you know, I'd be like take him
cuz you know if he'd be like cooing or
you know he was a really good baby,
thank God but you know one of the other
girls in my office be like holding him
like in the bathroom while I'm on the
phone with Nordstrom, you know. Um, but
then when they'd go to school, I
remember like preschool they started at
3 and I would drop them off and it was
like, "Okay, I have until 1:45
to just do as much as I possibly can and
do all the calls and all those." And
then I would bring them back to my
design studio with me until we finished
up that night. I traveled with Cade, my
oldest, when I would do New York, all
the shows. I had friends that lived in
New York and LA. They'd baby I thank God
for friends. It takes a village. It
really does. But I would be selling
during the day and they'd be babysitting
for me and watching him. He had like
70,000 frequent flyer miles at the age
of three because he went everywhere with
me. I mean, he was my little sidekick.
And you know, but but I I loved it. And
in the early stages, like I couldn't
afford a nanny. I couldn't afford those
things. Like every dollar I was spending
I was having to put into trying to build
the business. And I was like, I can
figure this out. I mean, I look back on
it now and honestly I'm like, how did I
do that exactly? cuz it wasn't easy, but
it's the only thing I knew.
>> What advice would you have for a single
mom that wants to start up a business
like yours?
>> Well, I think that's the thing, right?
You you create a business. The beauty
about entrepreneurship is you create
your own utopia like what is your
utopia? What is your dream life look
like? All right. For me, I wanted to be
in jewelry and design and I wanted to be
there for my little baby boy. I wanted
to be the best mom I could possibly be.
I didn't want to miss any of his games.
I wanted to be there for him when he was
sick. And that meant I couldn't go back
to working in an office. I couldn't go
back to working for somebody else. So if
I wanted to create that, what was I
going to do? And that meant that I
created a workplace that allowed not
just myself, but others to be there
first for their families because it's
not just for the boss, it's got to be
for everybody. And you lead by example.
So I think, you know, you build the
world, right? And you kind of reverse
engineer it. Once you know the
destination, you can build your road map
to get there. Sometimes we try to build
the road map before we know the
destination and that can be very
confusing and that destination by the by
the way will change every 3 years or so
you're going to see it and you're going
to go that's where I'm headed and then
about two years in you're going to go
wait now I'm headed here and now I got
to build a new road map and so that's
going to change a little bit but when
you really start to think about how you
do it creating a environment where
family can be part of what you do not
every single day my kid couldn't come
with me on every sales call or
everything. But I tried to do as many
things as I could that allowed me to be
able to be there and then set
boundaries. So I knew, all right, pick
up. I'm going to pick my kids up from
school every day. I want to be that face
that picks them up. Now, that meant that
I had to do some other things and
sacrifices. I couldn't do long lunches.
I couldn't, you know, do some other
things that some of my other friends
were doing. I had to make other
sacrifices, but that was my priority and
that was important to me. And so really
understanding your priorities and what
makes what's important to you really
will help you kind of create that vision
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>> Yeah. So true. You know, we've talked
about a lot of highlights, how big the
business now, some of the new launches,
but I know that that is not how business
always goes. So, was there ever a moment
where you thought, "This business is
going under. We're not going to make
it."
>> How much time do we have? like every
Tuesday.
>> I mean, Cody, there were so many I look
back on it, there were so many and I
think you talked about this something
about your dad. It was like head in your
hands moments. Is that what you you said
your dad talks about? And I remember you
hearing you talk about that because I
was like, "Oh my god, I have so many
head in my hands moments."
>> Um on my kitchen floor like sobbing,
crying, thinking I'm going to lose my
business. One of those was during the
2008 recession. I was strictly
wholesale, so just selling to other
retailers. I didn't have my own retail
stores. I didn't have my own e-commerce
at that point because my first business,
the hatbox, failed. I wasn't going to go
into retail again. I had sworn off
retail. So, I thought wholesale was safe
until the recession hit and I realized
it was not safe. That all the power of
my business laid in these other buyers,
store owners, buyers for these
department stores who were getting laid
off, stores that were shuttering. I had
no direct connection to my customer. I
was letting everybody else sell my
products for me. I wasn't selling them
directly to her and finding out what she
really wanted. So that 2008 recession
was the greatest gift Kendra Scott ever
had because it forced me to look at my
business differently. My line of credit
got called because and and I had paid
everything on time, but I was considered
high- risk because of our category. So I
had to find a local bank. I had to put
everything I own up for collateral. I
don't I joke like I told my son Kate, I
go, "You might have been on that
collateral list, baby. I'm so glad
things worked out, you know? I mean, it
was like what do you need?" You know,
like I was shoes off my feet. I was
like, "I'll put whatever I've got. Just
please take this loan." And fortunately,
it was a female president of a a local
bank, Texas Capital Bank, that took my
loan from a big bank. Um, and but that
but that moment, I remember thinking,
I'm going to lose this business. And I
had someone, this woman, I wasn't a loan
number to her. She had worn my jewelry
for years. She knew who I was. She knew
my hustle. She knew my drive. And when I
looked her in the eye and I said to her,
"I will pay this back and then some
carry." She knew I was going to do it.
And she believed in me and she took that
loan. And I mean, I say that all the
time. It's relationships, right? And
it's keeping your word and being
consistent and do what you say you're
going to do,
>> you know, and build that trust over
time. But that was a scary time. But I
opened my first retail store two years
later in 2010 when everyone was
shuttering on South Congress. Uh I
opened our first retail store, moved our
offices right above that little store.
So we all had to walk through the store
to get to our offices. And I was like,
we are going to sit in this store, all
10 of us, cuz there's only 10 of us at
the time. And we're going to learn from
our customer every day. We're going to
find out what she loves, what she wants
more of. This is going to be our
laboratory. I still didn't know we were
going to open retail stores after that.
I thought we'd have this one retail
store in Austin and then we would just
keep building our wholesale. And then I
wanted to build e-commerce. So we built
e-commerce and launched that the same
time, but that store there'd be lines
around the block to come in. And I was
like, hm, maybe there's something to
this retail brickandmortar thing. And
here we are going to have 170 stores at
the end of this year. But it was one
store at a time. You know, when you look
at the big thing and like you said, you
know, you can't eat a cake in one bite.
each store. That success gave me the
opportunity to take the money and the
funds to reinvest to look at the next
opportunity and the next opportunity and
I had to get it right and I had to make
sure the formula was right and the
presentation was right and how we were
selling was right and the displays were
right and I didn't want you don't rush
it right. You take your time and you
listen and you learn and then you act
and sometimes brands try to just act.
They forget about the listen and learn
part and then they're like,"Well, why
isn't this working and this isn't
falling apart and this thing is not
working?" Because we haven't taken the
time to really give the patience that it
takes to build a really strong business.
It takes a lot of patience. Um, and we
just did it thoughtfully and we did it
methodically and we went where our
customers were. Not that was sexy, not
where the sexy addresses were. Plano,
Texas does not sound sexy to a lot of
brands. That store was 1500 square feet
and it was doing $7 million a year.
>> Oh.
>> So I called it Plano and I'm like I made
t-shirts for our team. I was like that's
where I want to be. Let's where are more
Planos, you know? Um and so many
businesses get caught up in like what
they think, oh this brand is here and
here, so I have to be here and here. You
got to be where your customer is. Listen
to where your customer wants you and
that's where you should go.
>> Such a good point. Yeah. I mean, and
it's so easy to fall into like what you
think cool is, too. You know, I remember
falling into that, too. It was not cool
to get on the internet and talk about
finance and private equity. It was way
cooler when I was at Goldman and I ran
my own private equity firm and I was
fancy and I wore all the things
>> and but then I realized actually I I
don't really want to get rich quietly. I
want to be around a bunch of other
people and maybe help them do the same
thing, even if it's not as cool.
>> But that's a hard jump.
>> Well, it's way cooler now. Look at you.
>> It's cooler now. It's cooler now. But
when I started out, they were like,
"What are you doing? Are we Tik Tok
dancing now? Have you lost all, you
know, semblance of of care?" But I I am
curious. Let's say that there's somebody
listening right now
>> and
>> they're in the pain cave. They're
struggling in their business. What would
you say to them
>> to get them out of that deep dark hole?
>> So, sometimes it's so hard when you're
in the middle of the forest, in the
weeds all around you to get that 360
perspective, right? And to really we get
in our minds like I look at the hat box
as the greatest lesson for me. I wanted
hats. Hats were the thing. Everyone was
going to wear hats again like it was
1940. It had to be hats. What was
working was the jewelry I was making and
putting on the counter in the little
case that was selling out the day. But
in my brain it was the hat idea. It was
opening a 100 hat box stores. I wasn't
paying attention to what was working
until I closed that store and customers
started calling me and saying, "I want a
pair of earrings for the necklace I
bought and my sister loves the earrings
I bought in your hat store." So, I had
went and got a job after I closed the
hat box and I was just side hustling
making jewelry. But the point of that
story is that we're we're in it. We
can't always see it. And so to get
yourself to almost have this like bird's
eye view like just lift yourself out of
that moment and really think about
what's working, what's not working.
Write it down. What are people where are
you seeing some traction? It may not be
the original idea. It may not be what
you thought it was going to be, but
somewhere in there's something that is
sparkling, something that's standing
out. Now focus all of your energy on
that. Even though it's hard because
you're thinking, "Oh, but I spent all
this time on this other part and it was
supposed to look like this and be this."
It's sad, right, to put those things
away and go, I might need to put that in
a drawer and it's not working right now.
But this little thing over here,
something's happening over here. Maybe I
should focus a little more time there.
Maybe I should nurture that a little bit
more. And I can't tell you how many
business owners I have met that the
thing, the little thing that they didn't
think was the thing became the thing.
And the thing that they thought was the
thing ended up being completely the
opposite. And that is exactly who I am
today. It sure wasn't hats. I'm doing
hats again with yellow rose, but it
wasn't the hats.
>> Yeah, it's such a good point. Yeah. We
we call it kill your zombies. Yeah.
>> Because just because it used to be alive
doesn't mean it should always stay
alive. Some things you got to die.
>> And it's the hardest thing when you
start a business or as an entrepreneur,
it's like you become so attached. And
it's so hard sometimes to let go of
those things and disattach yourself from
it and be like, "Okay, I'm not going
that's not working
>> and to have the vulnerability to say,
>> okay, this is scary. This is new
uncharted territory that I'm going into,
but I've got to let that go. I've got to
quit putting all this focus and
attention on it because it's not
productive. Nothing is working there.
So, what am I going to do to shift into
something that can work?"
>> What made you start Yellow Rose? It's
such a cool brand.
>> Thank you.
>> And not not what I expected from like
the Kendra Scott I originally knew.
>> Well, there's two Kendra Scott. So,
Kendra Scott, I'm the person, you know,
and um and I love color, obviously. I
love beautiful color gemstones. I've
been designing for 23 years and and
being here in Texas is such a big part
of the design aesthetic and things that
inspire me. And so vintage pieces of
Kendra Scott have a lot of this western
inspiration and really cool, you know,
kind of a it's my love letter to Texas,
so to speak. So I started bringing some
of those vintage pieces back and I was
seeing such a resurgence with western
wear and obviously all of us watched,
you know, all the shows, Yellowstone and
all the things. And we everybody was
going western. I mean, you even saw
Louis Vuitton was going western. I was
like, what's happening? They're French.
We're Texas. I'm Texas. I know western.
I know western. And part of my life is
ranch life. I have a ranch in Wimberly,
Texas. Um, it's my happy place. When I'm
not, you know, in the boardroom, I'm in
my boots in the barn. And I love this
lifestyle. And I love vintage western.
So, I would go and shop vintage all the
time. And the cuts of the bell bottoms
and high-waisted jeans and the really
beautiful western cut shirts that were
fit just right and the pearl snaps and
all the details. I could wear that look
and still be very sophisticated. I could
wear a western cut shirt and a gorgeous
pair of trousers to a meeting in New
York City and people would go nuts. And
so I knew there was a way to bring this
style, this aesthetic into the modern
world and make it to where it's not just
rodeo wear. This is wear that you could
wear anywhere you go and look absolutely
amazing. And I wanted a brand that put
the woman, the cowgirl front and center.
Every other western brand was cowboy
first and then the afterthought was like
women. And a lot of the cuts were like
taking a cow a men's western shirt and
just making an extra small version of
it. Well, a man's body and a woman's
body are very different. We want better
darts. We want it to fit different. And
so for me, it was really about let's
let's figure out a way to do something
that's so unique, but doing it in a
modern way, how I dress and how I, you
know, express myself with this Texas
style. And so that's how Yellow Rose
came to life. And just like I talked
about, we tested and we learned. We put
it in the back of Kendra Scott flagship
in little back room and we tested
product and we brought in collabs and we
brought in boots and we brought in we
did a collab with Wrangler to see you
know what she liked in you know
different denim and we just learned for
two years. We had a tiny house and we
took it to every rodeo and music
festivals and it was just all about
creating experience for our customer and
bringing this vision of this brand and
just learning and learning and learning
and saying is there something here
before we're going to just open stores
and we're going to put all this
investment into it. Is there an
appetite? And there was a huge appetite.
People were going crazy and you know
still are going crazy for the product.
Um and it's just really fun that this is
a big part of who I am. So it's very
authentic. It's part of my life. Yellow
Rose Ranch is my other home. And to be
able to bring people into the place that
I love, my happy place. Um, it's really
fun to be able to build a new brand at
this stage.
>> Yeah, it was cool. I remember when you
guys launched it and there like I
believe like I don't know a couple
really cute girls carrying a bunch of
yellow roses handing them out all over
South Congress accompanied by like large
horses, cowboys, I think. I was like,
what is going on on South Congress? And
it was it was you. Well, I even in New
York City when we went, this is before
we had yellow rose. And the yellow rose
is the yellow rose of Texas. And when I
moved to Texas, my stepfather met me at
the gate. I was 16 years old with my mom
and he handed me a dozen yellow roses.
And he said, "This is the yellow rose of
Texas, sweetheart." You know, welcome
home. And every birthday, I got yellow
roses. And it just was very sentimental
and meaningful to me. But yellow is our
brand. Yellow is the color of happy.
It's color of joy. So when we opened our
Kendra Scott store in New York City, we
brought yellow roses to the subway.
hanging yellow roses in the subway,
passing yellow roses out to people. This
is even before Yellow Rose was a brand,
but it was like our way of saying the
yellow rose of Texas, we're in New York.
>> Texas is here. You know,
>> it's just so smart. I mean, listening to
this, I'm just like, God, if I'm an
entrepreneur, I'm like writing down
ideas. Like, how do we just take little
things that are real stories in our life
and integrate them? Because nothing
sells like a story. I mean, I love
Elon's line that um salesmanship is
showmanship. Yeah.
>> And it's so true. If you want to sell,
you got to show
>> and you got to be authentic. And like
you said, we all have our own unique
story. There's only one of us, okay? And
sometimes we want to be like, "Oh, I
don't want people to know that about me
or this thing, this hard thing that I
went through. I got to polish up my
persona." No, we want all that because
your unique story, all the tr the
struggles, the triumphs, all of the
things have led you to where you are in
your life. Talk about those things.
Build a business around those things.
build a life around who you are. Don't
try to be somebody else. Embrace who you
are. And when you do, people will
absolutely be attracted to that because
they're going to see authenticity.
They're going to see that it's real. And
I said this earlier, people smell a
fake.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, be your real authentic self.
And it's so amazing what can happen.
>> What was it like to work with Dolly
Parton? I got to go. I mean, I saw the
partnership and was just like, that's
the peak. It's the pinnacle.
>> My dream. So, I basically was like,
"Before I die, I got to meet Dolly." I
watched the movie 9 to5 on my VHS tape
till I wore it out. Okay. I had to get a
new one. I I'm not joking. I You can
wear a VHS out and I wore out 9 to5. I
love that movie. I watched that movie so
many times and I loved it and I What's
so funny is when I built Kendra Scott
HQ, it's got a kids room with, you know,
all sorts of kids activities. It's got
mother's nursing rooms. We've got a gym.
We've it's a whole like utopia for
working women. And I realized when I
started walking through I go, I built 9
to5. I built the modern-day nineto-5.
What Dolly and friends were trying to
create in 1980. I built that. And she's
always been this inspiration. She's
unapologetically her. She's like, "This
is who I am. This is what I am." And
she's brilliant, right? But she doesn't
care. She doesn't let anybody like it is
who I this is who I am. And I just
remember looking at her and being like,
I want that confidence and that kindness
and the warmth and all the things she
represented, but she is such a badass
businesswoman. Like, let's not be
mistaken here. She is an incredibly
smart business woman. And I just
thought, "Oh, I just want to meet her."
And so, a friend of mine arranged for me
to meet her. She was performing in
Austin and I got to go and and meet her.
And I thought that was going to be the
end of story. And I met her and I said,
"Hey, I wrote a chapter. I'm writing a
book and I wrote a chapter in my book 9
to5 about how much your the movie and
you have influenced me and she's like
well I'd love to read it darling will
you send it to me and I said oh sure you
know and I was still in the writing
process well she loved it so much she
said well she offered to write the
forward of my book so now I've got Dolly
and I'm like I don't even know like how
to describe that and as we started to
continue to talk I can't explain it to
you Cody but like I just love her like I
love her as a person and she's like well
we know we should work together and I
was like we should work together and so
we decided to do a collab in jewelry um
and I was like let's design every
collection after a song
>> and so take the song and we like play
with what the collection is so not just
getting to meet her getting to know her
getting to work with her and now getting
to call her a friend is when I say you
can't dream big enough like that was the
biggest dream of all the dreams of my
life and it's so beyond what I could
have ever dreamt It's so cool.
>> It's crazy.
>> Yeah. I just I I The woman is just
incredible. I saw she had an
announcement that she's had to to delay
some shows,
>> which is, you know, never a fun thing to
announce. And but then she writes a line
in the delay announcement that's so
good. She's like, I got to go to my
doctors. They want me to do some
surgeries. And this time it ain't
plastic surgeries.
>> She's like, I'm going in for my 100,000
mile checkup. I mean, she's just good
because she's authentic. It's like she
knows people give her a hard time for
it. She's just going to call the
elephant in the room. And I love that.
And that taught me so much, too. It's
like own who you are. Don't try to be
someone different. You know, I would
walk into boardrooms when I was trying
to get funding and I was like, you know,
be girly and feminine and all these
things. And I thought, well, maybe
that's why they're not investing me. So,
I thought, oh, I better dress like a
man. So, I wore a gray pants suit and,
you know, tried to be more businessy or
whatever. Well, that didn't work either.
And I was like, and I remember one night
and I rewatched I rewatched 9 to5 for
the 500th time. I was like, I'm no, I'm
going to be who I am. I'm color. I'm a
girl. I'm feminine. I'm all those
things. I'm going to own who I am. And
if people want to invest in me, they're
going to invest me. If they don't, well,
good riddens, you know. But that all
came from trailblazers like her who
really forged a path for women like you
and I to be authentically ourselves and
to not apologize for who we are.
>> No. And I'm still not at her level. I
mean, my mom thinks I'm pretty
authentically myself. I'm like, "No, I
still get scared all the time, you know,
and and I'll put something out there and
then I'll question it." Yeah,
>> it's it seems a constant struggle, but
maybe
>> you have to go see her musical
>> because it was her story that she wrote
and it it's so many things in it that
you would be surprised that you don't
know about Dolly and how hard media was
on her and how many people I mean right
now you think about it, no one would say
anything bad about Dolly. She's the
living legend. But in the 70s, 80s, I
mean, people were brutal and she was
coming up in a man's world and the
things that she was up against. It
really was so powerful to to watch it
and see it in her words. um how she put
together that musical.
>> Well, I'm glad you're getting on social
more because I know that really like
obviously all your brands were on social
for a long time and you know now you
have the book and you've been on Shark
Tank and you're you're out there more.
But um you know there there really just
aren't that many examples of women who
have built billion-dollar companies and
especially done it with like
>> a feminine flare, dare I say, and
especially done it without third party
funding and especially done it not
coming from money. I mean, there's like
a lot of and and and and and so it's
really cool and I'm excited for you to
keep sharing, especially cuz you're kind
of busy. I don't know if anybody's told
you but
>> it is it is a hard thing for me to be
really honest. Like, you know, it's it's
hard to kind of put yourself out there
sometimes, you know, and I think as I
look at, you know, my life and what I'm
doing, it is what you just talked about.
It's like if I can inspire one girl to
look at me and go, okay, it doesn't
matter where you come from. It doesn't
matter how many times people tell you
you can't do something. It doesn't
matter if you don't have a college
degree. All these things, if I can give
one little girl hope, that she can be
anything she wants to be, that she can
do anything she sets her mind to, then
it's worth doing it.
>> Yeah. And you know, the other cool thing
is like you have a talisman too for them
because you have the jewelry. So it's
like if they get to really connect with
Kendra the human and then get to wear
your physical representation, that's
pretty special. Yeah.
>> You know, not that many people get it.
It still blows my mind when I walk
around places or go through an airport
and I see just multigenerations like
moms, daughters, like all ages wearing
my jewelry and I literally go up to
people and I'm like, "Oh my god, thank
you so much." You know, or you look
beautiful in your jewelry and sometimes
I don't know like who's this crazy woman
coming up to me like complimenting me.
It's still like wow to me. Like it it it
never gets old. And I think, you know,
for those founders out there that are in
that place where they're in their extra
bedroom or they're shipping off their
dining room table like I did, you know,
you'll you're always grateful. Like
those moments will never leave you, but
they're such great gifts that you're
going through these moments. One of my
friends came by and I remember we had
that store and we had the offices above
and we had like a little room where we
were doing our shipping and receiving
and I had like pegboards of like all the
jewelry and he came in and he goes,
"Wow." He's like, "This is the night
before." He goes, "You need to take
pictures, Kendra." And I'm in the middle
of it just like, "What are you talking
about?" And it was my friend Cameron
Harold. And he's like, "This is the
night before. You're going to want to
remember this because your business is
about to blow up and you're going to
want to remember what this was like."
And I was like, he saw it, but I was so
in it that I couldn't see it. And I love
that analogy the night before because so
many times we're so in it, we're just
surviving like, I got to get this order
out. I got to get this thing out. that
we forget to think about where we're
going and take that moment to just step
back and be like, "Hey, this could be
the night before something really
amazing." I got the chills. That was so
good. I um Yeah, I read this line the
other day that was uh like the point the
real flex in entrepreneurship isn't the
Rolex or the car. It's the hundred
families that you know get Wait, no,
it's it was that when you walk in the
office, the hundred people in there
represent a hundred families that get
fed because of the work that you do.
Isn't that amazing? And it's a huge and
it is like I mean I've got you know
3,000 plus employees.
>> Um that's 3,000 plus families.
>> Also all the nonprofits that we work
with. I mean Kendra Scott Foundation is
such a huge part of what we do and we
work with so many local nonprofits.
There's so much that we're doing and
it's such a huge responsibility. But it
is it's like it's like okay we've
everything you do every day every
decision you make infects all of those
people and you've got to be so
thoughtful about what that is and how
and how you go about the how about how
you walk in the world.
>> I heard that your favorite vehicle is
actually a John Deere tractor. Is that
true?
>> Yes.
>> I told you I knew some things.
>> How do you know that?
>> I can't give away my secrets.
>> Well, I have posted me driving my
tractor. I love that thing, man. I'll
tell you what. I mean, it's the farmer
in me. my mom's side of the family were
farmers and coal miners and and I used
to go to the farm in southern Illinois
in the summers and I'd ride on the
combines with my uncles and I just love
getting my hands dirty. I love being at
the ranch. I love mowing. Mowing is my
favorite pastime. Like people would
>> look in your eyes when you
>> I get excited. I love mowing. Maybe the
most excited today.
>> I love mowing. I put on my cowboy boots.
I put on my overalls. I get my trucker
hat on and I will mow for hours, Cody. I
will mow for hours and hours and I'm so
It's quiet. It's peaceful. I can start
to I think about things. I don't listen
to podcast. I don't listen to music. I'm
in my own head just kind of thinking
about things. I'm working on whatever.
Making really nice straight lines with
my mower.
I love that thing. I have two John Deere
tractors now. Okay,
>> that's amazing.
>> Little Johnny and Big Johnny.
>> Dude, we need to get a collab. Kendra
Scott John Deere. Don't worry, I'm I'm
talking to them.
>> It's Dolly and Dear. Honestly, this
stuff writes itself.
>> It's also one of their colors is yellow.
So, kind of yellow and green. I I just
I'm saying if they're listening. Let's
just keep talking. Okay. There's
something there. There's something here.
>> Well, that actually makes a ton of sense
that uh you're super into the tractors
because I actually hear you got a thing
for boots and there's there's a little
sneaky thing. I don't know. Are we
allowed to talk about it?
>> I think we can just talk about it. Just
happened. It's happening. Um we are
launching our own boot line. I've been
working on it for over two years to make
the perfect pair of boots. I have so
many cowboy boots. When I am not in
menolos, I am in cowboy boots. I kick
off my heels and I literally throw my
boots on and I head to the ranch. So,
making the perfect cowboy boot is really
important for me. Doing beautiful
leathers. The craftsmanship, the
quality, all the things. They are
stunning. They are gorgeous. Um, we even
have a men's boot, so we we didn't
forget about the boys. about the boys,
but they're gorgeous. And they'll be
available at Yellow Rose stores and
Yellow Rose by Kendra Scott on the web.
>> How fun. I don't know if you know this,
but I only wear boots,
>> so I am going to be buying some. Yeah,
it's I I don't actually I mean I I
really have a lot of respect for you.
Those things are death traps. Like
stilettos are just You look hot, but
>> Thank you. Thank you. I I have just worn
them for so long.
>> You're okay, actually.
>> I Well, I was until co Okay. And then we
didn't wear we didn't wear and my feet
got only used to slippers. like even
forget that, you know? And so when we
came out of CO and they're like, Kendra,
you got to go speak. I remember I had to
go to Vegas for like some speaking thing
and I had to put high heels on and I'm
like, what are these awful things that
we put our feet in? And I had to retrain
them. But um you know, they're pretty.
But yeah, I
>> How many hours? What's the max you can
stay in a heel?
>> I mean, I'm on set at Shark Tank for 14
hours and I'm in heels all day.
>> Oh my. Come on. You wear slippers in
between sessions?
>> No, Lori does. She's really smart. I I
don't. But I think it's not a bad idea.
I just feel like if I took them off and
my feet realized that there could be a
rest, they wouldn't want to get back in.
So, it's like I can't even tease them.
It's like I can't give my shoes my my
feet the tease. Don't tease them.
>> Oh, good for you. Okay. Well, I'm more
excited you're doing boots. Then at
least you have an excuse to never wear
those things again.
>> I know. I know. Do you want to talk
about Shark Tank really quick?
>> Yeah, I would love to.
>> I am having the time of my life on this
season. Best season I have ever been on.
>> Why? The entrepreneurs are unbelievable.
I mean, I invested in a lot of deals
this season because it just I was
getting blown away one after another.
Just passionate founders, family
businesses. I love family businesses.
Me too.
>> Um, it it was it's just an incredible
incredible season.
>> Can you say which one's your favorite?
>> Um,
>> give us a hint. No, she goes, "No."
>> Well, I mean, you know, one that just
aired was Double Soul and it was, you
know, Pete Davidson is an investor. It
was a couple that Alison, I like him.
But they sent him socks. So they did
what I did, like let people taste it.
Let people get, you know, see it.
>> Pete put on that sock. And it is the
most comfortable sock you'll ever wear
in your life. It's called Double Soul.
He put it on. He called me. He's like, I
need to invest in this.
>> And so he came into the
>> Did you tell them to send them to people
or was that their idea?
>> No, this is before I knew them. Okay.
>> But they already, that's what I'm
saying. They already were doing a lot of
the right stuff. So they came into the
tank with Pete and it was just like
lights out, amazing, passionate
founders. Product is perfect. It was all
the things and they're doing everything
right. They're hustling. She's got a
brand new baby at home and they're just
like they're an amazing amazing amazing
couple.
>> Well, I love that. I had Damon on not
too long ago and he was saying that
socks and suds. Socks and the what was
that thing called? The face with the
squeegee. The spong socks and sponges
are
>> scrub daddy. Scrub Daddy. Yeah, the two
highest performing Shark Tank
investments ever. So maybe this will be
round two socks.
>> And nothing would make me I love Damon,
but nothing would make me more excited
if my socks do better than his socks.
You know, Instagram is sock war.
>> You should have a sock war.
>> He would like that, too. That dude seems
competitive.
>> I love him so much though. I mean, he is
one of my honestly one of my very best
friends in the whole wide world. But I
would love to beat him. I would, you
know,
>> he's also really funny. That's what I
said when I was hanging out with him. I
was like, I didn't realize how funny you
are. All the sharks are so awesome and
so funny and you get you see them on
there's like some things on air that you
know you're getting right. It's part of
the show.
>> But they're they're all amazing to work
with.
>> Well, I think Mark's going to come on,
too. But I I did I have a little he
knows about I had a little on air spat
with with Mark.
>> Oh, you did?
>> Yeah. It was actually kind of fun
because you know Well, cuz you should I
I think you should debate people, even
ones you respect. We shouldn't agree on
anything. That would be crazy.
>> Crazy. And and you need people that will
push you and you get to push back. Yeah.
>> Yeah. And so yeah, we some video I did
and he didn't like the idea. It was
about economics. So it's like only me
and him cared about it, you know, my my
economics professor, but but he
basically didn't agree with how I was
positioning something about pricing and
economics. Um and so he was going back
and forth and I was like, I disagree
with you intensely
>> and um I am happy to talk to you about
it. He's like, well, I'm happy to
explain it to you. I go, "Excuse me, I
don't need to be explaining economics."
Yeah, you could explain to me bank
accounts cuz you're much bigger than I.
But anyway, he's going to come on. And I
thought,
>> oh, he's awesome.
>> Yeah, I liked it. He he like slid into
my DMs. I was like, "Let's actually talk
about this."
>> Yeah. All right, man. Mark is Mark is so
solid and he's he's he's got
unbelievable instincts, but he's also
super collaborative and you know, as
much as you know, he knows a lot of
things, he does listen and he does like
really respect people's opinions and he
loves a good healthy debate. I mean,
even you know, Kevin, like Kevin and I
disagree on a lot of things.
>> Maybe can we get him pants? Can we get
pants? It's interest. He likes his crazy
pants. But, you know, there's a lot of
things we don't agree on, but you know,
at the core of it, he's just such a good
human. He really is. But, you know,
there's things in business that I'll be
like, that is not true. You don't have
to not have a family ever to have a
business, you know, like that's not
true. Okay. Well, I will now I'm going
to tune in and watch it.
>> It's a great season.
>> The goal is team Kendra because we're
both in Austin.
>> Yes.
>> Against all others. So, we got to buy
these socks, too.
>> Double soul. Yeah. Great.
>> All right. Thank you so much for being
here.
>> Thank you for having me. I I could talk
to you all Well, same. I got all the
Every time like when great founders come
in here, I'm so It's just for me, guys.
No, I'm just kidding. But it it
literally it's so useful for the next
gen. Like, if you're building a business
right now, I'm going to go back and
relisten to this because these little
stories are all things we can steal as
entrepreneurs, apply directly to our
business, and all it takes is a few more
cells of your brain thinking creativity
instead of cash.
>> Well, and I mean, talking about the
failures, the setbacks, the hard
moments. I mean, I wrote Born to Shine
for that exact reason because I wanted
every founder or entrepreneur to be
like, "Oh my god, she's in that place.
I'm in that place right now." And look
at she was able to overcome that and
take that to be the bridge to get her
where she was going. If I hadn't had
that experience or that failure or that
difficulty, I wouldn't be able to get to
where I'm going. But so many people
don't want to share that ugly stuff. And
I love I'm just like, "Here it is.
here's all the ugly because I think it's
so important and and so that you know
was the reason behind Born to Shine and
really wanting people to be able to have
the to say like hey if she can do it so
can I?
>> I also heard you would be a Broadway
actress if you weren't an entrepreneur.
>> Good grief. Where are you getting your
information? It is really true. I can't
sing to save my life.
>> Oh shoot. I was going to say is there
going to be a collab song because that's
what the people want.
>> No Zach was like babe cuz I love show
tunes. like show tunes are my thing. And
I did karaoke about a month after we
started dating. I had my friends and we
had a karaoke and I was like is he's
either going to run for the hills or
he's going to like love me. And I did a
whole I had a whole routine. Oh, I have
a whole routine. I have everything like
dance moves, all the things. And he's
like, "Babe, we need to do something
with this." I'm like, "I don't know,
honey." But yeah, I would love just even
if I could do a walk-on situation
someday.
>> I think that needs to happen.
>> I would be so excited. I'm going to I'm
going to noodle on this, but I'm into
it. All right. You're amazing. Thanks,
Kendra.
>> Thanks,
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