Brian Atlas Gets LECTURED by a Female Pastor on Submission

Go ahead, play it. Uh, so this is a video I actually took of my ex-girlfriend and I show this video as a tutorial video to future women so they know to get with the program cuz look, I

don't want to have to always like visual guides are very helpful. Like I I'm a visual learner. I think women are visual

visual learner. I think women are visual learners. You can't just tell them. You

learners. You can't just tell them. You

have to show them. And so I I uh I took this video like cuz I knew I was going to break up with her. So

>> Oh my gosh, you're mean. I took this video in preparation like, okay, I'm going to and then get ready to play it again >> and then paused it the boom. Do you see the depth? Do you see the submissive

the depth? Do you see the submissive hand posture? So, yeah, I show this

hand posture? So, yeah, I show this video like before if a girl DMs me, I'm like, are you sure? Watch this. This is

what I expect.

Are you on board? Are you on the team?

Are you part of the game?

>> Are you only into Asian women?

Uh, I date white women, Latina women, and Asian women, >> but culturally like they don't.

>> So, that video is your girlfriend?

>> Yes, I dumped her though.

>> Ex-girlfriend.

>> Ex-girlfriend. Did Did she give you permission to show that after?

>> Yeah, I recorded it, of course.

>> Like after though?

>> What do you mean?

>> Like, do you think she >> Yeah, she still hits me up by the way. I

blocked her cuz she's [ __ ] insane.

>> I have another question. So, like,

>> yeah, she tried to stab me.

>> Oh, >> yeah.

>> What did you do to provoke her?

>> Oh, nothing. I'm just kidding.

>> Okay.

>> No, she's just she's just tried to stab me.

>> That's horrible. Yeah.

>> With her penis because that's a lady boy.

>> Just kidding.

>> Oh my god.

>> Yeah, I was I had a crazy dream last night, by the way. Let me tell you. Holy

[ __ ] I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

>> I'm kidding. But

>> I do want Look, and I don't even need it is the thing. I don't even But I want her to be willing to do it, >> right?

>> And if she does it, all the better. So,

yes, when I get home from a long day at the podcast, it's a sign of respect.

Just do a little bow. It's effortless.

It takes 3 seconds. Any woman can do it.

If she has back problems, I'll accept a curtsy.

>> She doesn't have to, you know, whatever.

But yeah, I'll date white women, Asian women, they all can do it. I'll take a girl from [ __ ] Kentucky.

>> Explain what you're like.

>> She's going to hit a bow >> to get obviously like there's a woman out there.

>> Yeah.

>> Um >> Yeah. Yeah.

>> Yeah. Yeah.

>> What are you like you you would do everything for her? Like you'd pay for everything and she wouldn't work and then she so she could have the space to do that for you >> to bow.

>> No, technically when you when you're talking about space, >> we could be homeless and she could still bow for me.

>> But uh yes, I would whoever I'm with long term, everything will be taken care of. She'll never have to work. That's

of. She'll never have to work. That's

who I'm with long term. Now, you're not gonna get that like immediately necessarily, right? Not gonna move. I'm

necessarily, right? Not gonna move. I'm

not gonna have a girl living with me right off the bat, but yes, if if we are long term, whoever I'm with long term, everything's

taken care of. She never has to work and I do pretty well. So,

>> let me ask you this. If if you are married with a woman that love you lo you love her blah blah blah all beautiful >> but you have kids

>> and one of these days she's she's tired she's kids make you tired I have kids >> um and the dishes are

like the house are kind of messy you have a bunch of dishes they're dirty >> unacceptable but continue >> you're not willing to help her >> unacceptable acceptable. Unacceptable.

No, >> seriously. Why?

>> seriously. Why?

>> Then she better be okay with me having multiple wives.

>> Oh, the house isn't taken care of and you're not working.

>> No, I'm not saying that.

>> Unacceptable.

Back to the factory you go. No, I well I believe I I believe that that marriages look I'm I'm staying home by choice by

my husband and me agreement but sometimes house are messy cuz I we have kids the most that I can clean or whatever. Um

for fortunately we have somebody who help us.

>> How many kids do you have?

>> Uh three.

Uh >> and okay, but sometimes you know he especially just uh holidays he says I'm

going to cook. He said I never asked but he says this time I'm going to make the turkey. You know to me is very beautiful

turkey. You know to me is very beautiful too to to have your man that once in a while he want to take care of you and and you know I'm thinking

>> I love when my man makes me a steak.

>> Yeah. It's beautiful. or some if I don't feel well, if I'm sick or whatever, you know, he don't ask me for anything, but he's going and wash the dishes.

>> What what she's saying, what Natalia is saying.

>> No, it's not a big deal. Exactly.

>> My my uh Okay. So, question though. Your

So, your husband, is he the primary bread winner?

>> And wait, you have three kids? Yes.

>> All from him?

>> Uh, no. One is from his previous marriage.

>> And do you have any kids from a previous relationship?

>> Yes.

>> What?

>> But my kids are not living with us.

They're bigger. They're they're older.

>> But I take care of her his daughter. I

love her like mine. Love her so much.

>> Okay. Well, I mean, so in this hypothetical scenario, uh, well, are is this a story of you? Is

this your experience?

>> This is my house.

>> So like, no. No. Like you said, well, what if you know the she's got three kids and the dishes the house is dirty and the dishes aren't done and

>> I'm not saying every day, but I don't think it's something bad that men help you once in a while.

>> No, the men should never help. Never.

Look, maybe if she's like has she's vomiting or sick, maybe. But I think you just let them pile up and then when she's better then she does it

>> because I'm a gentleman like that.

>> The Bible said submit one to another.

The Bible says woman submit to her husband.

>> Yes. But it says also submit one to another. That's what the Bible said. I

another. That's what the Bible said. I

can show you.

>> The Bible says wives obey your husbands.

It doesn't say husbands obey your wives.

>> No. No it doesn't say that. But it says well previous to that it says men submit to Jesus Christ.

>> Correct. Yes.

>> You know in order to the wife submit to their husband. And then after it says

their husband. And then after it says wife obey their husband it says submit one to another like together. That's

what the Bible says. Put it in the Google.

>> Well I'd have to look at the specific uh thing that you're referencing.

But in any case, um, by the way, just to point out, uh, although I have pro-Christian sentiment, I'm actually agnostic. Um, so I don't I don't adhere

agnostic. Um, so I don't I don't adhere to like a strict, uh, I guess Christian perspective on this. Although again,

posit I have positive sentiment towards Christianity. Um, many of my friends are

Christianity. Um, many of my friends are Christian. Um, would wouldn't have any

Christian. Um, would wouldn't have any issue with like Christian nationalism or anything like that. No issue with it.

However, uh, in terms of what I would adhere to, and by the way, even if I was Christian, the idea that me husbands submit to wives, that's total [ __ ] Total

[ __ ] >> No, but you're taking it wrong. What the

Bible when I said is love in the Bible, you know, the love, how God describe it, it says is patient.

It is not saying only from men to women or only from women to men. It's saying

both sides, men and women both. It has

to love each other. Be patient to each other. It says love everything suffer

other. It says love everything suffer everything supported. It's not envy.

everything supported. It's not envy.

It's not you give a very good description, right? But what I'm what

description, right? But what I'm what I'm coming with is not trying to say that women should to uh be the men at home at all. No, no. The well the man is the head. Yes.

the head. Yes.

>> Man submits to church. Man submits to Christ.

>> Yes.

>> Wives submit to husbands. Wives obey

their husbands.

>> Well, read it, please. It says,

>> okay, what's what?

>> It's a little part. It says submit to each other. That means be in agreement,

each other. That means be in agreement, be flexible, be loved to each other.

>> Right. But that wouldn't supersede the other verses which say wives submit to their husbands.

>> Yes, it is. They said that yes >> it doesn't supersede. So okay so I need to be if I'm Christian I need to be submissive to my wife >> or does she have to be submissive to me?

>> No wife should to be submissive to you.

>> So but what what's what are you trying to communicate by saying >> there is nothing wrong that men help in home once in a while if she's sick or if

the kid need to u sick.

>> There's nothing wrong with that.

>> It's beautiful.

>> I have a question.

>> Sure. It's got to do with this though.

>> Oh, okay.

>> So, I don't know if you want to ask it.

>> Yeah, go ahead. What's your question?

>> Um, so like if um if your chick is like going to do everything, of course, do would you follow like the system of the household?

>> What do you mean the system?

>> Is Brian walking in and like throwing his socks on the floor or is Brian throwing his socks in the hamper?

>> Not that it would really matter. Not

that it would really I'm just curious.

Uh, I mean generally like at least in my own living situation, I'm putting things in a bin.

>> Is it Is it because you're responsible for >> But sometimes I'm laying in bed and I still might have my socks on and the bins over there and I just take the socks off and they're I throw them on the floor.

>> Yeah. And wife wife wife would pick that up like and that would be >> sure she can. Yeah.

>> Yeah. Sorry. I was just wondering. I was

just curious.

>> Yeah. Yeah. No, it's totally fine. But I

mean, where was I going with this? Uh I

mean, we were essentially uh the bow. There was objections to the bowing thing.

>> I care.

>> Yeah, I don't.

>> Yeah, I don't object. I think uh >> but it's not even it's not even like I can only get like an Asian woman to do it. Like you can be the whitest chick

it. Like you can be the whitest chick ever. You could eat [ __ ] mayonnaise

ever. You could eat [ __ ] mayonnaise and Wonderbread or whatever >> and be from [ __ ] Kentucky

>> and you're going to hit the bow.

>> I think if I think if the man is the bow, >> hit the bow. You're going to hit the bow. You're going to do a bow.

bow. You're going to do a bow.

>> I think if a man is is being like taking care of everything that that he should take care of, I think it's okay to have requests.

I think it's many I think it's many other ways to show our love to men many respect love and just to bow every so you don't like the bow question though

let's say your hus your husband like asked you like you know what I was watching that whatever podcast and you know Brian makes a lot of [ __ ] sense Brian makes a lot of sense

>> uh >> I love him yes I would do that >> would you do the bow you yeah exactly so it's like Ultimately, it's a very small

ask and it's just a temperature check for um her willingness to acquies to me.

No, no, she should do it. She should do she should hit a bow.

It's effortless. See, look. She's

already doing it. Nicole's already doing something based trad.

>> I just think it's weird. I never in my life doesn't work.

>> I don't know. or something

>> culturally weird. That's why it's actually so if I get a white girl to do it, it's even more powerful because it's she's willing to do something even culturally

>> peculiar to satisfy me. Love it. That's

good. That's good. If I say jump, if I say jump, >> she should say >> how high.

>> How high. Now look, there's some some clarity here when it comes to being submissive. If I tell you to like jump

submissive. If I tell you to like jump off a building, jump off a bridge, do drugs, traffic drugs for me, uh traffic

humans for me, you should not submit to me in that circumstance because I'm asking you to do something immoral. I'm

asking you to do something wrong. But

it's not immoral. There's nothing

objectionable really about doing a bow.

>> As a woman, I think it's annoy like if a man's request annoys you, it's cuz you're not submissive. probably and I think also that collides with not collides but it goes hand in hand with

like what the man is doing and even if you're married or not like if you're married that's a start right to that and then beyond that it's like is he doing everything that he promised to do before

you got married you know >> I don't want to get married >> so you would just have a girlfriend and well well you said that you wouldn't pay for everything unless you were married though >> well no I said long term

>> okay >> whoever I'm with long term everything.

>> So, if we've been dating for, you know, >> if we're living together, everything's taken care of. The rent, the food, utilities everything.

>> Uh, on on the longer term scale, once we start having children, all expenses of course there. Um, then, you know, her

course there. Um, then, you know, her expenses taken care of, but I'm still going to have I would still have authority over certain purchases. like

if I'm the primary earner, not that I think I would ever end up with a woman who has the inclination towards uh like con

luxury consumerism, but if she's like, I want a Louis Vuitton bag. I don't know how much that is. 5,000 bucks, 10,000 bucks, she's not getting a Louis Vuitton bag. Even if I'm making millions and

bag. Even if I'm making millions and millions of dollars a year, you're not getting a Louis Vuitton bag.

Now, if I'm making a crazy amount of money, perhaps where it's like obscene levels of disposable income, maybe even then I think it's a waste of money. But

even if I'm making a million dollars a year, no, you're not getting a $10,000 purse.

>> Not even for Christmas, right? For

>> No, that's that's stupid. Um, that money can be better spent for other things.

Uh, but does she want a purse? You can

get a nice one on Amazon. You can get a nice one on at Costco.

>> You're not >> You're not getting a luxury purse. Oh,

you want >> You want some Dior, some Chanel? Uh, no.

Costco sweatpants. Puma sweatpants.

>> You really like Costco?

>> Costco's good. I like Costco.

>> Amazon. There's no reason to be spending crazy amounts of money for I don't know.

>> Yeah. The woman you would be with though wouldn't ask for that because >> right I don't I I don't think the the woman who well I mean there would be a a

component of luxury in the sense that the house will be very nice >> right >> um not well not necessarily but uh you

know >> so I have a theory >> uh vacations this sort of thing >> I have a theory about uh long-term relationships and breaking it down into three categories. And if those three

three categories. And if those three categories align, then it probably will work out. So you have to have a

work out. So you have to have a commonality of values, commonality of goals, and a commonality of lifestyle.

And that could be that could be a couple of things. It could be sort of like your

of things. It could be sort of like your upbringing. You relate on that and also

upbringing. You relate on that and also where you want to go, which falls into goals. So I've analyzed previous

goals. So I've analyzed previous relationships and they didn't work out because one of those or one more than one of those things failed. And I've

asked people all over the place when I'm bartending. I'm like, "Hey, what do you

bartending. I'm like, "Hey, what do you think about this?" And they've thought about and they go, "Yeah, actually, yeah, our values didn't align at the end of the day or the lifestyle we envisioned or the goals we had were completely different. Like one of those

completely different. Like one of those three things didn't work out." So, in your case, you're describing someone who actually their values didn't align with yours, you know, or the lifestyle didn't

match up or your goals ended up being different.

>> Well, yeah. I mean, I think the woman who wants the luxury goods and has the fake tits and the lip filler and the >> the Botox and all that [ __ ] that's not

that's not the girl I want. And she

probably probably doesn't want me. No

offense Chloe.