How i found out my fiance of 7 years was cheating on me

You guys obviously know what this video is about. It's in my freaking title and

is about. It's in my freaking title and everything. I got engaged last year on

everything. I got engaged last year on 17th October. My partner and I are only

17th October. My partner and I are only 22 years old. We wanted to get married because we were together for at that point it was 6 years. Now we're together for seven. We were together for 7 years.

for seven. We were together for 7 years.

He's still finishing year three. He

doesn't have a full-time job, no license, no army. And don't get me wrong, I was okay with all that. In

fact, I told him not to worry about it because we were still young. We were

like only 22. I saw a lot of potential in like our future. At that point in time, he treats me really well, like a queen, bro. He treats me like a freaking

queen, bro. He treats me like a freaking queen.

And he cared for me really well as well.

We had three major breakups during our seven years, 2020, 2022, and then last year when he asked to break up. I'm at a stage whereby we have planned I have

planned 100% of the wedding. We have

paid deposit for all our wedding vendors.

And by the way, I'm still recovering from my jaw surgery. So if my jaw is like a bit, you know, weirdly shaped is because of that it still swelled that we literally wanted to video for the June 2026 video. I'm going to tell you guys

2026 video. I'm going to tell you guys the story in chronological order, not by which period of time each incident occurred. And I made a script so that I

occurred. And I made a script so that I can have the full like evidence to show you guys and like not forget anything.

This might be a bit jaggy to some of youall, but like it's very important that you guys know the context of what happened and what led me to finding out about this. On 2nd May 2026,

about this. On 2nd May 2026, that's where it started. My fiance

wanted to have a boys night with his friends at the club. Before this,

everything was good between us. It was

like a very healthy relationship in my opinion. He did ask me four to five days

opinion. He did ask me four to five days before if he could go and then like I agreed. But on the date itself, I don't

agreed. But on the date itself, I don't know why I was very emotional. I lashed

out at him for going without me because like I could go but he like don't want me to come and like when I go club I will ask him I'll always ask him if he want to go with me. He always say no but I get it was like boys night and all. So

maybe that's why he didn't ask me but that's not important. I cash out on the day on text. I said like a lot of hurtful stuff. So I forwarded what my

hurtful stuff. So I forwarded what my friend said.

She said it as a joke but she said divorce that red flag and then I forward it to my private Telegram channel. 2

days later I got my period. So like you know I was literally having PMS. We all know that your PMS comes like a few days before your period. And I was like, "Oh, so that's why I was acting a bit crazy, but actually it was feminine intuition."

Anyways, we really consult after my crash out. And then 2 weeks later, from

crash out. And then 2 weeks later, from 2nd May onwards, he started being very cold towards me. Like within the two weeks from the second June, he started being very very cold towards me. He told

me that it was because he was really busy with good projects and school work.

That's why he was like treating me like that. He was he was doing he was having

that. He was he was doing he was having a lot of good projects like um dude but it didn't explain his behavior towards me because I'm like why are you treating me like that just cuz you're busy? Then

in the future if you're busy how like I'm busy but if I'm busy I'm always busy but I don't treat him like that. And I

think it was either on 16 17th May when I stayed over at his house. I question

him. I kept questioning him until he told me the truth. He was acting cold cuz he couldn't get over what I forwarded voice that reflect what my friend um sent me that I forward to my private telegram channel. like he couldn't get

telegram channel. like he couldn't get over the fact and then he also say like like you don't understand why I crash out that day and like how I was too emotionally dependent on him. I

apologized very very sincerely cuz I knew it was my fault and I asked him if he needed some space to cuz he was acting super cold towards me like as if he didn't want me there at all and at

that point like I would usually stay over almost every night at his house. He

said, "Yeah, he wants like to try the break." And then I said that during the

break." And then I said that during the break we should communicate with each other. It shouldn't be like a break

other. It shouldn't be like a break where you know we break then we a lot of people a lot of couples they break then they break up. But I said if you want a break this has to be like cuz we are literally engaged. I want you to like

literally engaged. I want you to like communicate with me and tell me you know like talk to me just maybe not meeting up long. I just told him to tell me when

up long. I just told him to tell me when he's ready to like end the break and I assume it will be about a week. During

this one week, right, I reflected so much about like my actions and my crash out on second May. I met up my friends to spend time with them. Now that I go cycling, usually I only meet my friends

like once a month. So now I was like meeting my friends a lot because I was like thinking maybe I do rely too emot I'm too emotionally dependent on him. We

spend almost every day together.

We spend pretty much every day together.

And I told my friend about the comment that she made. I was like maybe um cuz I apologized to him really so much. He

couldn't get over. I was thinking if my friend apologized to me for making that text then maybe he could like try and like overcome this. So I sent

this to my friend and I also sent him and he thumbs up the message on 23rd May. He told me that he was

May. He told me that he was reconsidering our engagement because of what happened the crash out and the text. He cannot get over that text. I

text. He cannot get over that text. I

was like spiraling cuz I was like freak I freaking effed up with the crashing with the crash out on that day on that day and you know so I asked him to call me I was like can you please give me two

weeks 3 weeks can you please give me 3 weeks to try and change your mind about ending the engagement he told me that he'll give me two weeks instead of 3 weeks this man that I had

from 23rd May until 6th June to try and convince him not to end our engagement over that crash and the forward text I want to remind everybody that the crash

is on text. Okay. Not physically,

not like crazy crazy, you know. So, I

was like like I need to fix it. You

know, my saying my friend wasn't enough.

Apologizing wasn't enough. Trying to

like change wasn't enough. So, during

this one week, I made a boo basket for him. Contain stuff I knew that he

him. Contain stuff I knew that he needed. I baked his favorite treats,

needed. I baked his favorite treats, cookies and honey conflicts. I made an envelope with coupons, weekend tickets, an apology letter I wrote for my heart because at this point it was like really

reflecting on my actions. And I was like, even though I didn't think that the crash shot was worth ending a freaking sevenyear relationship and an engagement with everything planned really, I didn't think it was worth ending, but I wanted to see things from

his perspective. So, I wanted to prove

his perspective. So, I wanted to prove to him that I can change, I guess, and not cash out like that again. And that I was going to be less emotionally dependent on him. In 28th May, I went over to his house to pass him the

basket. I was supposed to sleep over at

basket. I was supposed to sleep over at his house. I didn't sleep over for like

his house. I didn't sleep over for like 2 weeks, 3 weeks already. But I was so excited to meet him after so long and he took me so last minute. He didn't want me to stay

last minute. He didn't want me to stay over. But either ways, I respected his

over. But either ways, I respected his decision because I don't want to push him and I just gave him the blue basket and then I read the apology letter to him. Then we spent some time and then I

him. Then we spent some time and then I went home. On 31st May, I brought him to

went home. On 31st May, I brought him to like Bhouse Spa to spend some time with me and then we ate dinner. Keep in mind I only have two weeks to try and change his mind and like make him want to

continue our engagement. He also just started his internship. So he would avoid meeting me by telling me he was sick and then it's very easy to it's like such an easy excuse because I wouldn't want to get sick, right? So I

wouldn't meet him and he's like he can it gives him like 3 to 4 days of like not meeting me. So remember the fact that he tell me he was sick during this week.

The next time we met was on Sunday 7th June to watch back rooms. We had dinner and we decided that he was going to tell me about his decision on 10 June. But I

wanted to see how he was feeling anyway cuz it was only 3 days away from 10 June. During these two weeks, I was only

June. During these two weeks, I was only able to meet him like three times to spend time with him and you know correct my mistakes. But I didn't push because I

my mistakes. But I didn't push because I wanted to give him the space that he needed to think about it. I asked him which decision are you swaying towards too? He was like it's still swaying

too? He was like it's still swaying heavily towards ending the engagement.

Well, when I hear that, well, I I want to cry. But I was in the restaurant, so

to cry. But I was in the restaurant, so I didn't say [ __ ] And we had an hour before the movie start. So, I keep talking. I thought very unfair. You tell

talking. I thought very unfair. You tell

me you gave me two weeks, then you only made me three times. You didn't let me like stay over at your house at all. We

didn't even text. I just we just good morning, good night. Because I wanted to respect his face. I thought he needed the space to he was hanging out with his friends more than like being alone to reflect on like the relationship whether he really wants to end. So, I asked him, can you like don't tell me sh you want

to end engagement? Can you like tell me if you want to like try for 2 weeks?

Because in my mind it's like really because of that crush. I cannot I cannot accept the fact that he wanted to end because of that crash out. If he told me it was like you know something else then

okay okay but you telling me you want to end the engagement over one crash out and one bloody forwarded t it doesn't make any sense. So I told him on 10 can you tell me if you want to try for another like two weeks and then this time these two weeks you actually put

effort into a relationship instead of like ending it straight away. Then now I had to wait until 10 June whether he want to end the engagement or want to try my [clears throat] method of continuing for 2 weeks. and then him trying in the process too. I was very

desperate to a point where I was texting his best friend and I we together for six, seven years, right? I've never once texted any of his friends to help me. I

texted his friend. My fianceé told me he couldn't get over the text because of the fact that in his eyes I wasn't taking the engagement seriously. That's

what he told me. I told him like how am I not taking it seriously? You seen

everything that I'm doing to try and make up for that mistake that I did for that mistake for the crash for forwarding what my friend said and then you are the one wanting to end the engagement. Who's the one not taking the

engagement. Who's the one not taking the engagement seriously? I texted his

engagement seriously? I texted his friend hoping that he could talk some sense into my fianceé. Fast forward to Tenjun. I was shaking my boots. I

Tenjun. I was shaking my boots. I

couldn't eat because I was so nervous and like I went over his house to stay over on tenjun. Then he when we talked, he agreed. He agreed that he took too

he agreed. He agreed that he took too much advantage of the space that I gave and he agreed that it wasn't fair for me. So he told me that he want to try

me. So he told me that he want to try for 2 weeks. He talked to his friends and he like agreed that it wasn't fair for me. But he told me that he don't

for me. But he told me that he don't guarantee me that within like after two weeks he will still want to continue the engagement. I was still very happy

engagement. I was still very happy because I felt like he gave me another chance. So we had a good conversation

chance. So we had a good conversation during dinner and honestly the past I was like very out with what he was doing like why are you behaving like this like it's not that deep. It I don't think it

was ever that deep and I was right. So I

stayed over on 10 to 11th June. The next

day on 11th June, he went off to work first cuz his intern starts, you know, his intern started. So

I was in his room alone. His iPad was there. I went to like snoop on his iPad

there. I went to like snoop on his iPad because I don't know feminine intuition.

I found this note that he wrote yesterday and he take a photo of it.

Huh? My heart sank when I read this. I'm

going to give you some context on this girl. Let's call her PN. This girl is

girl. Let's call her PN. This girl is his classmate in Poly. Last year I repeatedly told him I don't want him to talk to her because I knew for a fact that she homeed one of his classmates

relationship. The point where guy's

relationship. The point where guy's girlfriend ask him to ask him to choose between her or P. What? Hey sister, have some self respect for yourself. Why you

asking another guy to ch anyways? I

didn't I didn't like the vibes family in intuition. You know, I told him not to

intuition. You know, I told him not to talk to her. Last year on 27th August 2025, I found out that he had been calling her on this call almost every night for the past like 2 to 3 months.

He would lie to me that he was sleeping and then calling her afterwards.

That was a period of time when he asked me to break up. And actually during these six years together, he had never once brought breakup to me. Only when we got back together, after we got back together, then I found out about the

Discord calls. He told me that he was

Discord calls. He told me that he was calling purely to do school project because they were like grouped together.

He said that he don't have a choice of choosing his own teammates and him and the girl was just all in a lot of group projects together and their groupmates do not do any work. None of their groupmates in every one of the projects

don't do any work. So it was only him and her doing the group project together. And yeah, they call purely to

together. And yeah, they call purely to do school work and nothing else. I

scolded him when I found out cuz like why the hell you calling another girl?

Why the hell are you lying to me that you calling another girl? Because I also scaled a girl because you know that he has a girlfriend. So why are you calling him every night when you know he has a girlfriend? I don't care if it's school

girlfriend? I don't care if it's school project or whatever. Like you are calling him for so long. That's

literally a call for 7 hours. So I

texted her. Okay, I get that my message was a bit childish, but I didn't want to say so much. Then she sent me this text of her site of the story to Xavier's

WhatsApp. They both have given me the

WhatsApp. They both have given me the same story. Exactly the same.

same story. Exactly the same.

And I have a very good impression of my fianceé. I didn't I didn't believe that

fianceé. I didn't I didn't believe that he would be like cheating on me and like I have I just didn't believe that he could do this kind of thing. So I

believe him cuz I was like since this girl say the same thing him he say the same thing to me. I was like okay fine.

I'm just going to forget about it and then move on. I guess I was very naive because like I will believe what you tell me. He promised me like he se his

tell me. He promised me like he se his mother, father, everybody on his entire life, nothing happening. But either

ways, I told him I do not ever want to see her name ever again. If I see her name again, I'm

ever again. If I see her name again, I'm just going to break up him. That's why I told him I got to tell him this. I

remember telling him this. Also, now you know the context behind this PN girl.

The fact that last time he wanted to break up during the the period of time that the Discord calls kept happening and then now he wanted to end the engagement and then I see her name

again.

The same girl was involved during both times.

Everything like clicked to me. I'm

someone who wears that heartless sleeve.

I confronted him instantly about the note. You guys can see what he say about

note. You guys can see what he say about the note. Basically, he's telling me,

the note. Basically, he's telling me, you know, the note didn't mean anything.

He wanted to write down good qualities he wish I had. I asked him why her of all people on the paper. He said he randomly thought of a name. He didn't

even know if this traits of her was accurate, but he admitted to feeling he admitted to having infatuation for her last year when we were having problems. And he keeps saying it's not

really feelings. It's just a bit of

really feelings. It's just a bit of infatuation cuz like she's nice. Then I

was like, "Huh? Am I supposed to be worried about every nice girl from now on?"

on?" Keep in mind that this dude wanted to end the engagement over the forwarded text that I forward. He kept emphasizing at that point. Now he telling me that it's because of why you crash up. But at

that point time he keep emphasizing on the fact that I forwarded the divorce that red flag command. But this guy can write down a comparison note of me and another girl and then take a

photo of it to discuss with his friend Pu. Let's call him Pu.

Pu. Let's call him Pu.

Anyways, in the end I want to move past this cuz I still love this man a lot and he keeps telling me he keeps telling me nothing going on. He keeps giving me these excuses. So like I don't

these excuses. So like I don't understand why are you I don't understand like cuz like he tell me all this then okay I want to move past it because he wants to move past it. If he

wants to move past it with me then okay fine I believe I wanted to believe that this note really didn't mean anything but I was still like a bit sus. I need

to go through his phone to see if like there's anything going on. On 13th June I stayed over at his house again. I

looked through his phone and then took like random pics of anything that I thought was suspicious. When I first saw this, I didn't think much of it. Even

though he's been going to this block, okay, this block is going to be extremely important. Let's call this

extremely important. Let's call this place how block ABC. I'm not going to say that exact blog. I'm not going to dox anybody. So yeah, I was concerned on

dox anybody. So yeah, I was concerned on why he was spending $400 on GR at that point when he freaking owes me money for like the wedding prep. Anyways, the next morning I took this screenshot and I

went about my day as usual. I was doing my client's right when it suddenly hit me, bro. I was like, "Wait a second." I

me, bro. I was like, "Wait a second." I

remember last year confronting him about a place that he kept grabbing to and he was like at Hangto [clears throat] if I'm not wrong. I remember that I asked him why he always go there and he kept telling me that it's a place where he

goes with his friends after CCA to eat and I was confused like NYP and Hang is not NYP you need to like at least grab down

there or like it will take a few bus got a lot of food to eat. I stayed at Amoko before. There's a lot of food to eat.

before. There's a lot of food to eat.

Why y'all go directly to Halong just for the copy dump? Then this guy was telling me his entire CCA friends grabbed down to this place to eat. I believed him. I

believed him back then. Anyways, it

clicked to me. Then I go and check his grab history for 2025. It was the exact same block Hung ABC. It was the exact same block he kept going last year when

we were having problems. And then I'm going to show you guys a few examples of how he would lie to me, but he was actually at Block ABC 16th May 2026. So,

we're having our break. Okay, remember

that we're having our break. He left

Hango ABC to home at 11:33 p.m. But I'm

sending our wedding blind box that I created and stuff. He's telling me I'm at my grandma's house talking and spending time with two of them. I'm

leaving my phone on site to charge. I

need to help them with the fan. What

he's telling me? so detailed on what he's doing at his grandma's house, but he was at Hunglock ABC. Okay. 17th May

2026, the next day he searched PN up on his Instagram.

They were having some T program. So as

part of the internet, so all of them had like T public accounts. He searched her up and I argue with him cuz I told him I I told him last year, I don't see her name on your phone. And he tell me I'm hung up about the history. He was like,

you know, the history of was just us doing work. Then he tell me why are you

doing work. Then he tell me why are you still angry about it now? Blah blah

blah. Okay, let's go back to like the grapes there. I confronted him about the

grapes there. I confronted him about the situation because at this point of time I don't know who stays there and why he was lying to me a lot telling me he's at

home at school when he's at block Hong Kong ABC. He told me that his friend

Kong ABC. He told me that his friend let's call him Pishua stays at block ABC. He would always come here with him

ABC. He would always come here with him and maybe some friends, but mainly Pishua. And then he told me that he lied

Pishua. And then he told me that he lied to me because he said that I would get angry if he hangs out with his friends.

I guess it comes off like that sometimes cuz I'm like, why you don't want to spend time instead? I guess it's valid his reason. I still felt that there was

his reason. I still felt that there was something off with this story. On 14th

and 15th June, I consulted a tarot reader, which was my friend's sister.

Before you guys say anything, I know that tarot reading isn't 100% accurate, but it's a good way to like guide you on your decisions. And I knew that whatever

your decisions. And I knew that whatever the tarot reader said, I was going to take it with a pinch of salt. So, I

asked him, is he actively cheating? She

says that there's someone he's growing an emotional attachment to. Then I do another round of readings like what is he truly doing when he's visiting this location? Then I ask him, I suspect the

location? Then I ask him, I suspect the name is P, the person that he's growing an emotional attachment with. All cuts

point to yes. Okay. All cuts point to yes. Anyways, I have this in England

yes. Anyways, I have this in England that Pisha doesn't stay at Block Hawk on ABC. Just nice. I know of someone who

ABC. Just nice. I know of someone who has a fake account and I ask that fake account to help me catfish Pisha and see if the my friend could ask Pisha like a bit of like you know where his location

is. Like it doesn't have to be his exact

is. Like it doesn't have to be his exact blog. Just tell me like you stay. If you

blog. Just tell me like you stay. If you

tell me you stay Hong Kong, then okay, I don't need to worry about the location anymore. I don't know how but like he go

anymore. I don't know how but like he go and tell my friend his freaking blog and everything. And he doesn't stay at Hong

everything. And he doesn't stay at Hong Kong. I'm not going to tell you guys

Kong. I'm not going to tell you guys where he stay. I'm not here to talk to anybody. He doesn't stay at Hong Kong.

anybody. He doesn't stay at Hong Kong.

But to go to block Hong Kong ABC from his house, it will probably take bus a bus ride off about five stops. So my

fiance lie again. I find out that my fiance was lying again that his friend Pishwa stays here. When he doesn't, I go and confront him. This time he tell me block ABC Hang is actually a supper spot

where he goes with his friends and Pishwa. I ask him the place you go got

Pishwa. I ask him the place you go got so bloody good, man. You stay here until so long. Why are you lying? You go to

so long. Why are you lying? You go to people's house usually go to a copy nearby to eat. Why you taking five bus stops to go to block ABC Hang just to eat supper? Mind you, this man is very

eat supper? Mind you, this man is very lazy with me. He doesn't like to travel.

When we at his house, he always want to go to like the mall right beside. He

doesn't ever want to go to anywhere else. I'm very confused. So why are you

else. I'm very confused. So why are you acting like this with like your friends then? And he has never once grabbed to

then? And he has never once grabbed to Pishwa's actual address. So he said that him and his friends like to chill at block ABC Hang. And the reason why he like is because he will always smoke and

drink here. I don't like it when he

drink here. I don't like it when he smokes or drink. I don't even know he's smoking. I told him I don't like smokers

smoking. I told him I don't like smokers since the start. I didn't even know he was smoking you know. So like hearing that I was like what the hell? Then it

made sense to me again because you know I don't like him smoking. But he still denying any involvement of any girls. He

tell me no girl involved. I asked him so is he like got go with like some girls here? He say no. Tell me no. I check his

here? He say no. Tell me no. I check his gra again. 16 May he boot from ankle

gra again. 16 May he boot from ankle point to block ABC. He reached block ABC at 6:00 p.m. He leaves block ABC at

11:42 p.m. You tell me you stay at a

11:42 p.m. You tell me you stay at a supper spot for 6 hours. A supper so good you stay here for 6 hours and you don't go anywhere else. You know, you go

you booked to block ABC then you leave block ABC. So you are just staying at

block ABC. So you are just staying at block ABC for 6 hours. Right. At this

point he's telling me that he doesn't know anybody who stays at this block. He

tell me he none of his friends stay at block ABC. How come? And I I was looking

block ABC. How come? And I I was looking around the block. Max, right? Is like

got one dim sum place. If you're always coming here for supper, why are you not booking to the dim sum place or like the cop? Why are you booking directly to the

cop? Why are you booking directly to the block ABC? He's telling me he booked to

block ABC? He's telling me he booked to block ABC then go like you know supper then come back to block ABC to go home.

It doesn't make sense. So I had a feeling that this is where the PN staying right. You remember how she had

staying right. You remember how she had the school public TP account on Instagram? She had posted this post

Instagram? She had posted this post commuting to work. I'm not going to show you guys the post later yall like find out her address. So like let's keep it lowkey. Okay. My best friend went to

lowkey. Okay. My best friend went to zoom into the photo. I'm going to show an example. This an example. This is not

an example. This an example. This is not her her photo. An example of like the the car commuting to work. Then there's

like a map and then this map. We go to Google Maps and then we see block ABC right there. The road is exactly the

right there. The road is exactly the same. It's exactly the same. So we're

same. It's exactly the same. So we're

like, "Oh shit." So she does stay at Hong Kong. Okay. We don't know any

Hong Kong. Okay. We don't know any confirmation that she stays at block. We

just know that she stay at Hong Kong.

her LinkedIn her mention mentioned like secondary and primary schools. Her

primary school was a seven minute walk from block ABC.

Her secondary school was like a 30-minute bus, right? But still very close. We all know that secondary and

close. We all know that secondary and primary school have to be close by to each other. And I keep confronting Z

each other. And I keep confronting Z every time I find out new information.

When I tell him right, I know P stays there. He not even shocked, bro. Like I

there. He not even shocked, bro. Like I

at this point, I don't have any confirmation that she stays at that exact block. But I wanted to tell him

exact block. But I wanted to tell him like I I pretended confirm I know P stays at vlog ABC. He not even shock bro. He just tell me like huh how will

bro. He just tell me like huh how will you even know blah blah you know but he say I don't know where she stay but how how you know I told him that I saw through the her Instagram account just nice the same time I bought it she

privates that account. Coincidence

fast forward a few more days later I was at Malaysia. One of my friends was very

at Malaysia. One of my friends was very curious about vlog ABC. He wanted to go walk the rounds like see if there's anything suspicious he could help to for me to figure out the truth. He went to block ABC and there was so much P that

she posted that I managed to assess. It

was her outfit check in her outside her house or something like it's a wall.

It's just a blank wall. But right, we inspected every single crack on the wall. I don't know how. Just nice. My

wall. I don't know how. Just nice. My

friend was standing beside the wall that she was taking a photo at. Just nice,

you know. And the wall is down to detail. The cracks, the bloody cracks on

detail. The cracks, the bloody cracks on every single inch of the photo is exactly the same. So, we're like, [ __ ] she actually stays at block ABC. We know

for a fact that now she stays at block ABC. This is my confirmation that not

ABC. This is my confirmation that not only does she stay at How, she stays at block ABC and he's been grabbing back and forth to this place and he's been lying about why he's grabbing her. We

have the knowledge of the comparison note where he dead writes her whole name and compares me and her in a relationship. We have the info that she

relationship. We have the info that she stays here. He's been lying about

stays here. He's been lying about everything. This guy right do not want

everything. This guy right do not want to fess up. So I was like, "Okay, maybe I can talk to her."

Okay, guys. We're on the way now. Stupid

ass zigger. Sh me. Then I need to waste my time coming down to confront some other annoying. Seriously, I could be

other annoying. Seriously, I could be doing so much more things with my time.

No, you make me waste my time. Yeah,

seriously.

Me and my friends went to area. We sent

her a message because in this time at this time I really very drained already.

Like every everything that we getting right is like I'm getting fed on breadcrumbs. everything I had to own

breadcrumbs. everything I had to own self like dig up because nobody wants to tell me the truth and I wanted to confront her. I wanted her to admit, you

confront her. I wanted her to admit, you know, that him, her and Z had something going on because they both keep denying it. I sent her a message. I told her

it. I sent her a message. I told her like, I just want to talk. I genuinely

just want to talk. We gave her by 9:00 p.m. to come down and we not I'm not

p.m. to come down and we not I'm not here to slap you, to punch you. Just

tell me the truth, please. I just want to know the truth. Like genuinely, I'm just seeking for the truth. Okay. So,

exactly at 8:55 p.m. she came down.

She kept walking past me and my friends and just keep continue walking. I was

very confused like is this the girl or not? I'm a bit shocked. Anyways, I

not? I'm a bit shocked. Anyways, I

wanted to talk to her alone because I didn't want her to feel like we're gang up on her. So, I tap her shoulder because I'm seriously here just to talk to you. I pull for a chat and then I

to you. I pull for a chat and then I like talk to her because like genuinely at this point I just want to know like what's going on. You didn't

ask everything because like um I think we can sit here.

So for like the past month he's been coming here.

Yeah.

Okay. I want to know if he has been going to your house.

No. What the

No. Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay. Okay. To be very honest, I feel like I thought like the [ __ ] already happened ended last year actually.

Sorry. Yeah.

It's okay. So, uh-huh.

I think um whatever I said to you in the message already.

Uh-huh.

Yeah. Actually, I can't remember what I said, but like if you realize, I talked to her very nicely because like I don't have any confirmation. She denied

everything. And not going to lie, I was prepared for every scenario except for her denying anything, any involvement.

And when I saw her face, I also cannot believe like this man was cheating on me with this girl. So, I couldn't take myself seriously. After five minutes

myself seriously. After five minutes I left and then I go and find my friends. Then they go and school me like

friends. Then they go and school me like why you so nice. I grew her a bit more.

I was like I I felt bad. I felt bad for if like really nothing going. Then I go and waste the time. They they say that they want to talk to her again. Then we

ask her if she can meet us for a while.

Then she say okay sure. So now this time my two friends were sitting with me cuz they they were going to do like the talking for me in case I forget anything. She agreed to meet us. We sat

anything. She agreed to meet us. We sat

down and guys I bloody scared of cat bro. Kina this place got three cats.

bro. Kina this place got three cats.

Yeah, [gasps] this place got three freaking cat. Then why losing aura, bro?

freaking cat. Then why losing aura, bro?

I over here jumping on the table. I

bloody scared of the cat. So yeah, my friend and I talked to her for about an hour. Her story

hour. Her story exactly the same as it's the same thing like last year when they both give me the same story, but this time it's very eerily similar. I'm going to insert

eerily similar. I'm going to insert parts of the convo. She will tell me they are not close to a point where he will even know where I stay. But the

problem is if you know like you stay here then he keep grabbing here cannot be like you know the world so small.

Yeah. That's why we just like want to know like you never see ever see him.

Yeah. Ever see him?

Yeah. Never ever.

So you also never bring him.

Have you given him your home attention before anything? Was there any reason?

before anything? Was there any reason?

We're not so close.

We're not so close to the point you know where I would give him my home address.

I I know maybe we really have nothing but it's like you know we just want like hopefully maybe you got maybe like the last bit of morals or maybe like like not not that but like

but I really like honestly yeah that nothing going on.

Yeah. So we're just hoping like you know like so nothing.

Can I ask like how how how um how are you feeling right now?

I'm like a bit nervous. Not really

nervous once but like very con you're not scared right that we getting out of you not no TV anything I wouldn't [laughter] violence never an answer

okay I know you all want to seek clarifications from myself so I understand that that's why like I'm trying to give you whatever I can also tell me professionals nothing going on

absolutely nothing going on between them confusing and I'm sure like from you can kind uh sympathize the truth.

Yeah. So it's it's not that we want to say that you're guilty or anything. It's

just that we just need the truth so that we can move on from here.

Yeah. Because like he invited to take this.

So I like also like okay I assume that you guys and then you have like this story on and

probably like tell you like not to tell you anything like for the sake of like protecting your image and stuff but honestly I have all the evidence really trying to clear your name cuz if you

have nothing to do with it then you'll just be focused on him but if you can tell some information like if you were to tell me now I would

just for your side and just focus on him because he's also it takes two hands.

Correct. And also because I mean you really see us here you already know that we got like enough evidence that like you know pointing everything towards you everything. So we just

everything. So we just and I Yeah. So we just want give you one last

Yeah. So we just want give you one last chance to come like you know say anything if you have I think from my side I don't know about him but like like what I've always been telling you like we're just like

professional in a way something sus about her right we asked her can you okay can you if you want to prove to us right cuz like all evidence pointing towards you and him can you just do us one favor can you go

and call him on your phone then we want to see how he like reacts to call and if she's not guilty she'll just call right but she kept refusing [laughter] to call And her reason for refusing is that she feels uncomfortable doing it because

he's attached blah blah blah. Huh? Well,

she can say all this. It's crazy because we all know she's lying in a sense like saying that evidence is going to get me. But

okay, then can you do us one favor?

You call Z.

Yeah. Who was speak?

Why?

I I don't want to be doing that cuz like Yeah. What?

Yeah. What?

Because what?

Like I don't know. Like it's just a bit.

Yeah.

If she really not if she really never do anything wrong, it's a bit uncomfortable.

Okay.

Yeah. But the last thing you do quite uncomfortable with that cuz like I think right now a lot of things is like in my head now you know then like your child saying

like also then frustrated.

Yeah.

But okay, if like if you have nothing to hide, you say, "Well, why not call him and pull a sticker?"

Okay.

For my morals in a way, I feel like I don't really want to be touching like or like calling or like texting someone's fiance.

Like someone who is already engaged, but she's here and she's like, "She's here like and but at that point in time, I believe so." I think I very gullible but I'm I'm

so." I think I very gullible but I'm I'm going to stop being so gullible because oh I swear I'm believing everything everybody tells me and I didn't I keep telling my friends not to force her to call cuz I was like yeah like people phone people's privacy like don't force

her you know but my friend say something to me my friend say something on me imagine yourself in the shoes you not guilty you see then talk to us for 1 hour for what I'll just show you my phone and then I tell you I will just

throw my phone to you it's not that deep it's just a call after we left my friends [clears throat] made like a list on why we think she's lying

The first grab he books to block ABC this year 2026 right was on 29th April.

Our fight was on 2nd May. So in my mind like was he just using this as an excuse like my one crash out as an excuse to end the engagement? 20th May,

wished him 520 at 12:00 a.m., but he was at her house until 12:40 a.m. Let's not

forget how during the two weeks when I had to convince him to give us another shot, he said that he was at home having sro and sick, but bro was actually at her house cuz remember he told me he was

sick but he was at block ABC. How come

at our house 2nd June he was having in which ends at 6:00 p.m. Doesn't reply me until 11:02. tells me at 11:02 that he

until 11:02. tells me at 11:02 that he was napping but he left her house at 10:22. Bro

ended in turn at 6:00 or maybe he end earlier and I just didn't know. Made his

way from Pioneer all the way to Hang just to spend time with her for a few hours. Then grabs back home. I asked him

hours. Then grabs back home. I asked him if I could sleep over the next day. He

tells me he's lowkey feeling sick. Third

June tells me after in turn he's going home because he feels sick and at 7:13 p.m. says he's popping two panels in and

p.m. says he's popping two panels in and was taking and was going to sleep but leaves block ABC at 11 p.m.

10 June tries booking grab from his intern workplace to Hang at Hang Block ABC at 12:00 p.m. His break I know that his break is at 12 p.m. and then he ends

at 6 p.m. So I'm not sure what could be happening here. Maybe he took half day

happening here. Maybe he took half day leave or something. Then he probably take a to place after after not being able to find a grab. And mind you, we met on 10 June night time. So he wanted

to maybe meet her for like one last time or something. Remember guys, I slept

or something. Remember guys, I slept over that day and I find out the comparison note the next day. Let me

bring you guys back to 2025. On 9th June 2025 last year, he went to fix his computer. He literally grabs from the

computer. He literally grabs from the computer place, reaches Hokkang at Hong Kong ABC at 7:13

p.m. Then leaves block ABC Hang at 7:22

p.m. Then leaves block ABC Hang at 7:22 p.m. Keep in mind this grab the time on

p.m. Keep in mind this grab the time on the grab is like what time you get picked up. So bro really probably book

picked up. So bro really probably book the book the grab instantly. I'm very

confused. You tell me this is a spot then you stay here for 2 minutes for what? He tell me that I confronted him.

what? He tell me that I confronted him.

He told me that his friend Pisha went to follow him to fix the computer and he wanted to share gra to go to block ABC.

I was like he doesn't even stay here.

What do you mean? He tells me Pisha wanted to grab supper from block ABC. So

that's why they booked grab that and then they wanted to smoke it. Smoke for

2 minutes. I'm like why you cannot smoke at like the computer place outside the mall? Why must you book directly to

mall? Why must you book directly to block ABC to smoke you? That's not even a smoking. It's just a random block.

a smoking. It's just a random block.

Then he tells me, you see, like I can't spend time with him on the grab there like that.

Obviously, it's either to send her back or like, you know, see her for 2 minutes or something. This happens multiple

or something. This happens multiple times. But the one that takes the

times. But the one that takes the freaking cake, I tell you, this fell 27th July 2025 at 9:52

to 11:06. So, he reaches Haang ABC at

to 11:06. So, he reaches Haang ABC at 11:06 p.m. No grab shown home. 28th July

11:06 p.m. No grab shown home. 28th July

2025. Grabs at 10:48 a.m. to 11:05 a.m.

from block ABC to NYP's 11:22 a.m. 11:20 a.m. NYP to home. This

11:22 a.m. 11:20 a.m. NYP to home. This

is just plain evidence that he stayed over. You tell me you don't know any of

over. You tell me you don't know any of your friends who stay at this block. You

tell me none of your friends stay at this block. Then you you What are you

this block. Then you you What are you doing? You sleep at the staircase. you

doing? You sleep at the staircase. you

sleep at the freaking stage or what?

Guess what his excuse was this time? He

he told me he was working which is true.

I have proof that he was like working that day because from our conversation he told me that just nice P was working with him like coincidentally she was working with him and at the end of the

shift she tried booking grab but there's no car. So he helps her book a grab

no car. So he helps her book a grab and then he she pays him in cash. Then

the next day they had presentation in school and she was going to be late but again she can't book any grab to school.

So then then again he helps book her grab to school. If you believe this right I got some flying pics I can sell you. And this contradicts everything

you. And this contradicts everything because let's say this story is correct right means this guy can book two times grab for her.

That means he knows where she stays on.

So just nice the same month you keep going there. Just nice right? You

going there. Just nice right? You

literally go there. You literally go to block ABC the day before. Then the next day you go again and then you're telling me it's actually to book for her. So you

know, you have the information that oh P stays at Block ABC because she admits to booking GR for her. And remember what happened when we confronted her? She

tells us that they're not close to a point where she would give him her address, but she clearly did if he was booking grab for her. This mean that

they are both lying to us again. 10 July

2025.

This period of time when we were having problems, we're not even having much problems honestly at this point in time.

He just keep telling me that he wants to stay back in school to do his group projects because he's he's alone. He

tells me he's always alone doing school projects, you know, alone and stuff.

Tells me he's doing work then going home at 11:44 p.m. Tells me that he's at Bona Vista and there's no bus home. So, he's

booking Grab from Bona Vista to home.

Bona Vista to home. He stayed he one hour he got direct bus to his house. So

I was like, "Oh, understandable."

Actually was at block ABC and went home at 11:52 p.m. 13th June.

Tells me he was having CC and support with his teammates, but I was actually at block ABC. 8th July 2025.

[clears throat] Tells me he's bathing and stretching and using massage gun at 12:56 a.m.

12:56 a.m.

But as you can see from the gra, bro was at block ABC. Didn't even reach home until 1:20 a.m. 9th July.

was having class BBQue which the PN was also in. Tells me his teacher is drawing

also in. Tells me his teacher is drawing them to Bishan and somehow somehow ends up at block ABC again. Leaves block ABC

at 11:10 p.m. to home 15th July 2025.

Tells me he needs to meet his dad at Sant for some insurance talk with like his insurance guy. Meets meet tells me at 1000 p.m. he's at Shirang and that his dad will book grab for them back.

tells me that his battery is low and was charging at Shilang at 11:54 p.m. Was

actually at Block ABC again since 10:49 p.m. Left Block ABC to home at 11:50

p.m. Left Block ABC to home at 11:50 p.m. 16th July. You guys can just pause

p.m. 16th July. You guys can just pause to read. Okay. 16th July 2025

to read. Okay. 16th July 2025 says at 10:06 p.m. he CCA and had a mini argument with his CCA people and tells me he's grabbing home pretty much I guess from NYP

was actually at the block until 10:507 p.m. 11 August 2025

p.m. 11 August 2025 tells me he has that day says he's going to reach home soon at 11:40 11:05 p.m.

but 9:51 p.m. He's at her block ABC her house. No grab shown back so should be

house. No grab shown back so should be stay over. 12th August 2025.

stay over. 12th August 2025.

Tells me again he's staying in school to do work. Tells me he's at home at 11:04.

do work. Tells me he's at home at 11:04.

Actually grab back to block ABC and reach P's house at 10:03 p.m. No grab

shown back. Probably stay over. This was

our convo on 13th August 2025. And this

was the last recorded grab to her this block from that year. I didn't think about this much. I I don't really care.

I didn't think that he would like show me. Like he tell me like, "Oh, Hong Kong

me. Like he tell me like, "Oh, Hong Kong is just a place where his CCA friends go to blah blah." Then I was like, "Okay, whatever." I just believe. I didn't

whatever." I just believe. I didn't

really like go and like dig into it because I'm not freaking insane. I'm

only insane now because I know that there's something going on. Let's go

back to this year. 16th June tells me he's having supp leaves school at 9:21 p.m. Reaches Kalang Mall at 9:41. took

p.m. Reaches Kalang Mall at 9:41. took

probably took bus from there to G7 Cinema Live Seafood. Then he goes from the seafood restaurant to Hong Kong ABC

at 11:55 p.m. Leaves Block ABC at 12:17 to go home. Brother, Block ABC is a SA spot. You go, you literally came from a restaurant, then you go to to

spend 20 minutes at Block ABC.

I had a thought with him. You and Pisha so close. Then what is the last

so close. Then what is the last conversation? What is the last message

conversation? What is the last message you have sent on 17th May? Because in

June, he was literally going telling me he grabbing here with grabbing here to spend time with Pisha all the time and the way they text not even super close or anything but they're at a point where they can meet like five to six times a

week at this exact block. No calls,

nothing. I ask him, you call now, you call now. You tell him meet you at block

call now. You tell him meet you at block ABC. Then I see what he says. I'll let

ABC. Then I see what he says. I'll let

you guys listen to a call here.

So, do you want to go down to our kind of supper that you just got now?

No.

Yeah.

Now, can you do tomorrow?

Uh, you let me check right now. I'm out.

right now. I'm out.

Okay. Okay. Never mind. But tomorrow if you free, you are there or I'm always there. Literally, just tell me when

there. Literally, just tell me when you're free. I'll be talking.

you're free. I'll be talking.

You play football?

You better play football there, man.

Yeah, I play every Saturday, right?

I mean, I play Saturday, Sunday, but like technically I'm always I mean, I drink there, but like you say,

because I go eat and after that, if you want to meet, I just shoot you. Just

meet me then.

Okay. Okay. Let me know again. Who the

hell is I here every day? What?

Saturday, Sunday, I'm always here.

Saturday and Sunday, I'm always at this.

I tell you, if I ask my friend Gochi, right, she tell me what every Saturday, Sunday, I just tell her to stop yapping and just tell me yes or no, bro. The

call was so freaking fake. All my

friends thought it's fake.

And at this point, I'm very confused why everybody's helping him cover up.

with the amount of grab to the location last year and you telling me that you're always here with Pisha. You assume

they're very close but he only follow Pisha on Instagram on 23rd 23rd March 2026 but last year he was always going there and his name Pisha's name never once

came out in our conversation before this was confirmation to me of the cheating and the amount of lies and secrets. I

don't have any physical proof of the cheating part but like you can't convince me that these evidence isn't enough. I didn't think to the extent of

enough. I didn't think to the extent of how bad the cheating was because I don't have any proof and nobody tells me anything. I remember the Discord calls

anything. I remember the Discord calls last year. It was the Discord calls was

last year. It was the Discord calls was from 7 June 2025 up to 9 August 2025.

It matches with the time period he keeps going to her house from 31st May 2025 until 12th August 2025. So it matches you know the time period is exactly the same. I told him like how you want me to

same. I told him like how you want me to trust you? He kept telling me he's

trust you? He kept telling me he's telling me the truth. But he can be lying to me for like months and he didn't even beg me to like stay, you

know, like after I find out everything.

He just keep emphasizing that he didn't cheat and he emphasized on the fact that he keep emphasizing on the fact that he lost feelings for me. He said he lost a bit. He keep emphasizing it's only a bit

bit. He keep emphasizing it's only a bit of feelings I lost for you because of the crash.

So yeah. Anyway, I went to Korea for jaw surgery and I was supposed to tell him my decision on whether I want to continue the engagement. When I came back, I was looking because I was thinking that maybe the cheating isn't that bad. Like it's not too bad. Maybe I

that bad. Like it's not too bad. Maybe I

cuz I don't know what's the actual truth. I just know that he grabbed here

truth. I just know that he grabbed here a lot and stuff. I told him that I wanted to end the engagement because like he would tell me that he's not enjoying his time with me as much. And

then like he finally ding me, you know, I told him to be honest. I guess that's him being honest. He's not enjoying the time as much with me because of his feelings. Even though he keeps saying

feelings. Even though he keeps saying it's only a bit of feelings he lost and it hurts me because it's like you are the one who did all these to me. You did

all this lying cheating and then I have to wait for you to gain your feelings back because at that point he also tell me he don't know whether he want to continue that. He don't know if it's best to continue the engagement with with his feelings like that. So I

had to wait for him. He told me that he wanted to try he wanted to try fix the relationship and he told me to wait until like we agreed to wait until end July. But then when I came back from

July. But then when I came back from Korea, two days later, three days, you cheat, you lie, you do all that. Then I

need to wait for you. It hurt me so much to end the engagement off. But it was like what's best for myself. I was like, I had enough of being disrespected for 2 months. I started posting the a bit

months. I started posting the a bit about the cheating, like hinting about it. I didn't even bring up the name of any girl. I didn't

bring up the face of any girl. I didn't

bring up anything. I just hinted that he was cheating. Suddenly, everybody from

was cheating. Suddenly, everybody from NYP telling me the story of how they thought how they are in school. I'll

show you guys every single message I received. So close to a point where

received. So close to a point where people thought they were dating. Huh?

Then you know what they tell me? They

tell me that nobody told me cuz they say that everybody thought that I knew. So

everybody think that h I posted this man on my social media so much and I got engaged to him all that and then I knew about the cheating and I was subject

myself to this and that's why nobody told me and I had a comment that said oh people are just sending you because sending you the same thing because they see other people send I didn't post what

people are sending me it's only when I compile everything then I post that everybody's been telling me the same story he's been so close with this girl every single day he's to a point where people thought they dating to a point where there's a bubble of them because

people of people people think how sus is but this won't send to me. I don't know why. What's wrong? What's wrong with you

why. What's wrong? What's wrong with you guys? I'm sorry, but what's wrong with

guys? I'm sorry, but what's wrong with you guys? Do you really think that

you guys? Do you really think that somebody will be in such a He's in such a public engagement and how everybody see him. He's not even hiding the

see him. He's not even hiding the cheating. He's publicly out here

cheating. He's publicly out here disrespecting me to my face to other people behind my back and then behind my back he's telling me all this lies. Why

are you lying to my face for over a year? It's not even just It's not even

year? It's not even just It's not even like one month, two months, three months. You lied to me for a year. You

months. You lied to me for a year. You

proposed to me in the middle of your cheating.

You make us plan a whole ass wedding and it's not even a simple wedding. It was

like a legit wedding. It is like a humiliation rituals. Yeah. Genuinely,

humiliation rituals. Yeah. Genuinely,

it's it's so embarrassing for me. And I

don't know what's worse is him cheating and on me for over a year having a different persona from the man that I thought he was.

And I and or the fact that everyone NYP saw it know his angage and then one tell me or the fact that right he's still denying it until now and he refuses to take accountability for his actions. He

refuses to admit that he was cheating on me.

Calls me crazy for saying that he's cheating on me and then gives me an excuse for every reason that I have. Who

do you think made me crazy?

Who do you think made me crazy? got some

comments say like my personality crazy.

Maybe that's why maybe I'm crazy because everything he's doing behind my back and lying to my face. I don't understand.

Why can't you just break out with me?

Honestly, I didn't think the cheating was that bad to a point where he was cheating publicly in front of everybody's face behind my back. I blame

myself for the crash out, but you guys seen how hard I tried to give us keep us together. You guys can read. You guys

together. You guys can read. You guys

seen the way he lies to me.

I don't want to say anything else.

except for this situation.

But yeah, I'm selling my wedding planning book for $30. Got insert my reviews here. This is a list of what it

reviews here. This is a list of what it includes the wedding cuz I was planning this wedding for months. And I think that my how in planning the wedding shouldn't be going to waste. Hence why

I'm selling the book. And I just want to say thank you to everybody who's been supportive of me and sending me encouragement. I may not reply to

encouragement. I may not reply to everybody but it helps a lot given the what this man did to me. It is very

painful for me but like I said I already gave my all. He did this. So yeah,

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guys. I just edited finished the video and I'ming right now because I had a tip off that my fiance last year on 20

20th July to 21st July he booked a hotel station with her for her birthday. Her birthday was like I think

birthday. Her birthday was like I think next two months or something but I think it was an early I don't know he just booked a hotel there and I literally have the confirmation proof that he

booked a hotel there and I have our chat which he was lying about.

So yeah, I don't I actually don't know what to say.