How to make someone obsessed with you
By Thewizardliz
Summary
## Key takeaways - **Obsession starts with self-love, not external validation.**: The goal shouldn't be making someone else obsessed with you, but rather becoming obsessed with yourself. When you invest time, money, and love into yourself, others naturally become drawn to you because they see what they lack within themselves. [00:16], [00:35] - **Attract higher vibrations by embodying them.**: Focus on leveling up in every area of your life, pursuing your passions, and taking care of yourself. This high vibration attracts equally high-vibrating people, regardless of your current circumstances. [01:06], [01:20] - **Visualize and embody your best self.**: Create a clear vision of the best version of yourself, including her actions, appearance, and lifestyle. Start behaving like that person, even if you're not there yet, to attract people who will help you reach that level. [02:17], [02:45] - **Post-breakup glow-up attracts self-love.**: After a breakup, when people change their lifestyle, focus on the gym, and improve themselves, they often realize they no longer want their ex because they've fallen in love with themselves. [03:16], [03:36] - **Confident energy is magnetic.**: The most attractive people are those who aren't trying to impress others but are simply focused on having a good time. Their confident energy naturally draws people to them. [03:41], [03:57] - **Find fulfilling activities to ignite your passion.**: Identify activities that fulfill you and make you happy, whether it's a passion, a hobby, or self-care routines. Lacking these can make you less attractive to others. [04:31], [04:58]
Topics Covered
- Obsession starts with self-obsession.
- Invest in yourself to attract high-vibrational people.
- Visualize and embody your ideal self to attract success.
- Energy attracts; confident individuals draw others in.
- Focus on self-improvement: physical, mental, and passion-driven.
Full Transcript
okay so the other day I got a question
on Snapchat and someone asked me like
hey Liz how did I make this guy obsessed
with me and then I was like you know
what I'm going to make a YouTube video
about this because the goal shouldn't be
that this guy is obsessed with you the
goal should be that you are obsessed
with yourself when you are obsessed with
yourself other people naturally become
obsessed with you it is how it is the
thing here is you can't make people
obsessed with you the only way people
become obsessed with you is because they
see that you are investing time in
yourself they see that you're investing
money in yourself they see that you are
loving yourself and because people lack
that people lack self-love people lack
that confidence in themselves so when
they look at you they want to be around
you they want to be with you or be you
because you are what they don't have if
you really want to know how to make
people obsessed with you it's all about
you it's about you honey about no one
else like the minute people see that you
are going after your passions that you
are taking care of yourself that you are
literally leveling up in every area of
your life that's the minute that people
will gravitate towards you that's the
minute that people on a higher vibration
will also gravitate towards you you
cannot attract High vibrating people
when you're vibrating low it's not even
about your circumstances you you know
maybe you are at a lower position than
that person but your vibration is high
you're positive you you're visualizing
things for yourself then you're also
vibing high and then you can attract
those High vibrational people but if
you're negative if you're in a poor
state of mind and you think oh nothing
is working out for me I can't have that
that's for lucky people that's for
people that can have it blah blah blah
you will also not attract that so first
of all you need to get that mindset
right you want to you want to be someone
that people are obsessed why would they
be obsessed with you if you're
constantly sitting in your bedroom being
sad all day listening to sad music
watching sad shows then you're like oh
people should be obsessed obsessed with
what with what honey what is there to be
obsessed about see once you get that
Clear Vision of yourself right that
vision of what you feel like you know
what if I was this kind of person of
myself I would be so obsessed with
myself if you get that Clear Vision like
what does she do how does she act where
does she go does she go to the gym or
does she not go to the gym what does she
eat how is her hairstyle uh what clothes
does she wear how does she act who does
she hang around with once you get that
Clear Vision in your head and you start
behaving like this person even though
you're not there yet that's when you
will attract the people that will help
you get to that level and the people
that will be quote unquote obsessed with
you the thing is once you are so
invested vested in yourself and once you
are so focused on your passions your
goals and yourself and you're doing the
things that you love so much I promise
you you you don't even want people to be
obsessed with you you don't need that
you literally start to become like I
really love life and I love myself you
see this when like uh women or men they
go through a breakup and they start like
changing their lifestyle they start
going to the gym they start looking
better they start feeling better they
make new friends then you see all of the
sudden these people they don't care
about their ex anymore and they're like
you know what I don't even want the them
anymore because the person that we
actually want is ourselves it's all
about energy right like for example a
girl that walks into a room and is not
caring about who she's going to
impressed but she just cares about oh
I'm going to have a lovely time with my
friends those are the most attractive
people they are vibrating on a confident
level their energy is confident they're
just there to be happy have a great time
and and you will see that most people
will go to her instead of other people
that are desperate and looking around
like oh my God I hope someone likes me
no the key to all your dreams the key to
everything you want is you and once you
start realizing this the faster you
realizes the faster your life will start
to fall into place I don't go into
places thinking oh my God I hope they
will like me whatever I don't care I
don't care I like myself everywhere I
walk into I like myself you have to be
happy to get up in the morning like you
have to find something that fulfills you
like whether it's a passion whatever for
me it's obviously like content it's like
making YouTube videos these type of
stuff that fulfills me that makes me
happy or waking up in the morning going
to the gym making sure I look good like
anything that makes me look good makes
me happier makes me money that makes me
happy that gives me passion for life so
you have to find that as well because
when you have no passions when you have
nothing to lit L get up for in the
morning obviously you will not be
attracted to attractive to other people
if you want other people to be obsessed
with you then they should think oh my
God like I want to be a part of her life
her life seems so much fun she seems so
happy I want to be happy too like I want
to get close to her so I can experience
whatever she's experiencing but my love
I promise you you being sad all day you
not doing anything will not make anyone
want to be a part of your life or want
to
with you attracted to you obsessed with
you it will not happen so honey what you
should do now okay what we're going to
do you're going to focus on becoming
physically more attractive like whatever
that is for you like literally think
about okay what would the best version
of me look like like think about that
what is her best like hair color what is
like how does her face look like what is
it you know how does her body look look
at the things that you can change second
we need to get that mind right so we
need to get some therapy we need to
start journaling whatever you need to do
to get that mind D and to get that
confidence up because that's Al all a
mental thing being hot is a mentality
third we start looking for an activity
that makes us want to get up in the
morning you know like okay for example
you go to work you hate your job
whatever you can't fix it blah blah
after your job what do you do what do
you do for fun huh what do you do
something like what is fun for you maybe
you join a sport and you like that Sport
and then also that sport will help you
to get your dream body so like oh my God
that is two uh stones or something in
one I don't know what that means then my
baby girl we also start listening to
affirmations that every day say oh my
God you're beautiful you're attractive
everyone wants you blah blah blah you
start listening to these things we start
rewiring our mind and you also make sure
you have a community you have friends
that uplift you that make you feel
better about yourself you go out with
them and then you go out to actually
have fun go out to have have fun don't
go out to impress people don't go out to
find someone go out to have fun and then
you will see everyone will radiate
towards you cuz your energy is
different if you guys start to
understand that everything in life is
about energy I'm telling you your life
will completely change and then my love
at the end the guy will be sending me a
message asking me hi Liz how do I make
this girl obsessed with me is he can see
oh my God this girl is literally so
confident she's looking so amazing she
literally is living the best life ever I
want to be a part of that I want I want
her I want her and I will do everything
I can to get her so yeah my love this is
my answer to your question I hope you
liked it and I love you guys I love you
guys so much and yeah I see you in the
next video love you bye-bye
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