How To Reach Peak Performance In Anything You Do

If you want to become exceptional in anything you do, you need to stop following the same surface level advice everyone else follows. How will that make you different? You have to start understanding how the top 1% actually operate. All through my life as a CEO, board member, and investor for some of the most innovative companies in America, I've seen what works at the highest level of business. And there are four principles that separate the absolute best from everyone else. These principles aren't about working harder. They're about digging deeper into your biology, your natural abilities, and the systems you can build to make your success inevitable. And this is what you need to know. The first principle of peak performance is understanding your anti-talent. The misconception that derails careers is the following. this belief that you can fix anything and everything if you just grind hard enough. Sure, I can improve many skills with practice. But there is a part of me that can never scale no matter how hard I try. And I call that my anti-talent. All of us have it. Our anti-talent is not our weakness. That you can fix with hard work. Anti-talent is something that does not respond to effort at all. Let's look at some examples to make this clear. First, let's look at Keanu Reeves. I mean, today he is an iconic actor. But early in his career, critics destroyed him for being wooden and stiff. He was trying to do dramatic roles, but he was no Robert Dairo. Emotional range, dialogue delivery, that was actually his anti-talent. But he didn't try to fix it. Eventually, he realized that he could engineer around it. In John Wick 4, he speaks only 380 words in three hours. >> Maybe not. >> He moved away from his anti-talent to where he dominated physicality, precision, presence, a kind of zen calmness. And the result, the Matrix trilogy and the John Wick franchises have grossed nearly $3 billion. And you know the same is true at the highest level of business. Think about Satyana Deella. He took over Microsoft after Steve Balmer and the world expected the same bombastic tablepounding alpha male CEO with an MBA. But that would have been Satya's anti-talent. He was a technologist who quoted poetry. He was thoughtful. He was strategic. Steve Balmer loved a culture of competition. Satya moved Microsoft toward a culture of empathy and innovation. What looked like his softness became Microsoft's hardest competitive advantage, leading to more than $3 trillion of market cap and growing. So that's how you navigate around your anti-talent. And how do you identify your anti-talent? You should ask yourself three questions. Number one, what drains you that energizes others? Number two, what have you worked at for years with very little improvement to show for it? And number three, what do people compliment you on? Things that you never worked on. Now, the first two are anti-talents. The third one is your innate talent. Let me share with you my anti-talent. After business school, I had this dream, a single purpose in life. I wanted to be a management consultant at one of the top three, McKenzie, BCG or Bane. It sounds so silly now, but I practiced and I practiced case interviews, case studies, business models, frameworks, all of it for hours and hours. And I interviewed 10 times across all three firms. Failed every single time. never got hired because what came easily to others felt hund times harder for me. My brain just didn't work the way management consultants do and I used to feel so insecure about it. But clearly my talents lie somewhere else. So please remember a path does not open up simply because you want it to. Some paths aren't yours to walk on. You know my spiritual master used to say this a river always finds a way around a mountain and gets to the ocean always and your talent will find its way too. The second principle is understanding your biological balance sheet. Now you could never run your company without knowing your assets or liabilities, right? So why would you run your life that way? In 2011, researchers analyzed over 1,000 parole cases. These were serious judges making serious decisions on serious cases. But the data revealed a terrifying pattern. If your case was heard at 8:50 a.m. in the morning, your chances of parole were 65%. But at 12:50 p.m. instead, right before lunch, your chance dropped to near 0%. And after the meal break, approval rates jump back right back to 65%. Now, these judges weren't corrupt. They weren't biased. They were just chemically depleted. When their decision fuel, glucose, ran out, their brain defaulted to the path of least resistance, and they said no to parole. So, your biology isn't separate from your performance. It is your performance. But the good thing is your biology runs on the same rules as a balance sheet. It has assets and it has liability. But unfortunately, most of us confuse which one is which. For instance, many hardworking individuals I

know feel that they need to cut down on sleep because their workload is so heavy and huge. But sleep is the most essential part to grow your cognitive capacity. So sleep is an asset, but we treat it as a liability. Now, of course, if you are at an entry-level job in investment banking or a hedge fund or a tech startup, it's a price of entry. You'll have to work hard. But even there, you reward it for clarity, not emotional chaos. You forget that your bosses and your investors aren't paying you for stamina. AI has more stamina than anyone. They're paying you for your judgment. So, what are the actionable takeaways? Let me share two ideas. Number one, if you want to protect your focus, then reduce your decision cost asset liability. When I was a CEO, I was always chasing the clock, always late. So, I created a standard meal for myself for lunch. Some protein, some greens, slow carbs, boring stuff, but good for you. And I ate the same meal every day at the same time, unless when I was traveling or when I was with customers. Why? because I wanted to remove the cognitive clutter of deciding what to eat, where to go, where to order, when to eat, none of that. I wanted to focus on what mattered. The second idea is even simpler. Protect your sleep. CDC reports show that one night of short sleep drops working memory by 20 to 30%. So, regular and regulated sleep is non-negotiable for high performers. So find your circadian rhythm and lock it in. A bankrupt body cannot support a wealthy mind. Next up is the simulation advantage. For the first time in history, you can fail privately over and over again before you fail publicly. Think about F1 drivers. There are only about 20 of them in the world who get to perform at that peak level. And their careers are decided by tiny number of races every year. And even inside those races, a tiny number of decisions like when to break, when to overtake, when to pit. Those make a difference between victory and defeat and sometimes even between life and death. So what do they do? They simulate those moments every day, year round. Your careers and ventures work the same way too. There are handful of moments, you know, one negotiation, one board presentation, one judgment that could define your entire trajectory. I remember at least two times when a single off-the-cuff answer and decision damaged my career and credibility in a second. It's etched in my brain and every time I think about it, I still just shake my head in sheer disbelief. And that happens to all of us. That's why you shouldn't practice those moments while they're happening. Peak performers never stop rehearsing those moments. Neuroscience shows us the way. For decades, it's been known that simulation activates nearly the same neural circuits as the real thing. Think about fighter pilots or Olympic athletes or even big budget movie directors nowadays. They all use simulators to plan and visualize those critical moments so intensely. so meticulously and so vividly that their brains light up as if they're already inside that arena. And in today's AI era, a golfer can practice her swing and upload the video to an AI model that would analyze her swing and tell her exactly how to improve. You can even simulate interviews or an important conversation that you're about to have. Ask your AI co-pilot to argue back, push you, challenge your assumptions, even escalate your emotional temperature. It will do it. It can play the role of an admirer or an adversary. That's the simulation advantage. According to Jim Sabinius, who teaches negotiations at Harvard, the setup is 80% of the game. It's all about the prep. So, here's how you can use this tonight. Number one, pick one highstakes moment that's coming up. Let's say it's an interview or a pitch or a date. Number two, practice with AI. And don't just type. Turn on the voice mode. Have an actual spoken conversation. When you hear a voice challenging your answers in real time, it triggers the same biological stress response as the actual room. Practice it with three different AI personas. The first version, a friendly AI that wants you to succeed. That helps you practice confidence. The second persona, AI who thinks you're not really ready for this. That will help you make your case stronger. And the third persona, pick a completely irrational boss who just does not want to hear what you have to say. That will help you practice calm and composure under pressure. And after practicing with each of these personas, every version, ask yourself, what surprised me about my behavior? What threw me off? What can I do better? This way, when you walk into the actual highstakes room, you're walking into a rerun. By the time you enter that room, the meeting is already over in your head. The fourth and final principle is what I call virtuoso silence. There is a fascinating 2024 study on decisionmaking. It found that if you make decisions under pressure while you have high internal neural noise, you

perform dramatically worse, even if your IQ and experience are identical to the person next to you. Why? Because your brain has two competing priorities. The signal, which is the task relevant info, and the noise. everything else. High performers don't have better brains. They've trained themselves to have less noise. And the noise comes from trying to do a lot more than what you actually need to do. Peak performers are exactly like those virtuoso musicians. Quieter on the inside, gravitating to silence over static. So, what can you do today? You can use this three-step protocol. Stop, drop, swap. This is a microtransition protocol to use the silence to reset your state. Number one, the stop. Finish the previous block completely. Fully close the tab. Close the book, the deck, the app. Make sure there is no cognitive residue left. Step number two, the drop. Drop the tension. Relax. Physically. Drop your shoulders. I'll do it here. Take one breath. be fully empty for just 10 seconds. And number three, the swap. This is the reset button, the trigger that switches your brain to the next task. So your peak performance is no different than music. It's real power doesn't live in what you play. It lives in the silence between the notes. But the most important insight to remember is this. Peak performance alone does not lead to immediate success. When I ran away from my home as a teenager and was worried about finding a place to sleep, I had lost all hope. I barely spoke a word of English, let alone know terms like peak performance and high achiever. That came way later when I moved to the US. But starting at the very rock bottom was very helpful to me because at that point all I could do was focus on that tiny patch of ground in front of me and do my work with as much honesty and integrity and skills as I could. And eventually life put me in rooms I never asked for. Life has its own surprises store for all of us, I guess. But that's the secret. You cannot focus on being successful. You can only focus on being skillful. Success has its own schedule. It arrives when it wants, not when you want it. All you can do is leave that door open for the winds of chance to blow in. If you keep that door shut, I can tell you with 100% certainty where you'll end up. Nowhere. So, open that door. It's It's right there. I know the winds will carry you somewhere extraordinary. If you enjoyed this video, hey, please like and subscribe so others can find the channel. Thank you and I love