If You Talk Like This, You Will Get Laid (The 2 Minute Rule)
By Marni Your Personal Wing Girl
Summary
## Key takeaways - **2-Minute Flirting Rule**: Every time you spark a conversation with a woman that you find attractive, stick to the 2-minute rule of flirting. It means you need to start flirting with a woman within 2 minutes of talking to her, being playful and joking around and teasing, allowing a maximum of 5 minutes of platonic conversation before introducing flirting. [05:58], [06:06] - **Waiting Establishes Platonic Frame**: When you wait too long to flirt on a low level, you establish a very platonic frame. The first few minutes of any interaction establishes the frame which is the unspoken understanding of what kind of relationship this is, and once set after 10 to 20 minutes of polite conversation, it's difficult to shift out of. [04:21], [04:37] - **Late Flirting Signals Low Confidence**: When you suddenly make an attempt to flirt after a pointless, friendly conversation, a woman can sense that you were just too scared to flirt earlier and that you're probably intimidated by her, which is not attractive at all. [05:09], [05:18] - **Playful Assumptions Technique**: The playful assumption involves making a slightly exaggerated assumption about her based on something you observe or something that's in the conversation, like 'You strike me as someone who was definitely the teacher's pet in school,' said with a smile so she knows that you're being playful. [08:51], [09:14] - **Absurd Answers for Playfulness**: Instead of giving the right, correct, logical answer to early questions, reply with something absurd and silly like 'Where are you from? Heaven' or 'What do you do? I'm an astronaut. I just came back from the moon yesterday.' This creates a pattern interrupt and changes the vibe from boring and platonic to fun and engaging. [10:22], [10:38] - **Teasing Shows Confidence**: Teasing in conversation communicates that you're not intimidated by her and shows you're confident enough to mess with her a little bit, like if she says she is a morning person, 'A morning person. I didn't know I was talking to a psychopath.' Teasing cuts through trying too hard to impress her and instantly creates emotional sparks. [11:10], [11:39]
Topics Covered
- Flirt Within Two Minutes
- No Perfect Flirting Moment Exists
- Playful Assumptions Spark Attraction
- Teasing Signals Unshakable Confidence
- Mix Flirting Techniques for Mastery
Full Transcript
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show you what most men actually do wrong when flirting, and how fixing this one, I'm doing two, but this one mistake can instantly lead to better results with women, regardless of your looks, your
age, your height, or your income. In
fact, by the end of this video, you'll have the magic keys to building attraction, creating that sexual spark, and getting what you really want with women. So, if that sounds good, pay
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today's video. Now, on to your flirting hack that I promised you. So, let's talk about the biggest mistake men make with flirting and the reason why so many guys
don't get the women that they want. So,
I'll explain this with an example of a client of mine. His name is James because that's his that's really his name. He's new to our inner circle
name. He's new to our inner circle coaching program and this is something that happened to him just weeks ago. So,
James matches with this woman named Emma on a dating app. They text back and forth, have a nice conversation, and make plans to go out for drinks. The
date arrives, and James is wanting to make a good first impression, so he starts with safe topics. He talks to her about her job as a teacher, her hobbies, where she grew up, her favorite movies,
and so on. and Emma responds and follows up with similar questions about him. And
an hour goes by and the conversation is just fine. Nothing awkward, but nothing
just fine. Nothing awkward, but nothing exciting either. And at this point,
exciting either. And at this point, James realizes that he should say something flirty and show some romantic interest. But not knowing how to make
interest. But not knowing how to make the transition, he just awkwardly compliments her eyes. And Emma responds with a polite thank you, but seems confused by the sudden shift. So 10
minutes later, the date comes to an end.
James and Emma share a friendly and passionless hug and goodbye after which she walks away. Now, what went wrong here for James here is the same thing
that goes wrong for most men who come to me for help. James waited too long to start flirting and being playful and that is a guaranteed way to re ruin your chances with a woman. Why? Well, there
are two simple reasons for it. First of
all, when you wait too long to flirt on a low level, you establish a very platonic frame. So remember this, the
platonic frame. So remember this, the first few minutes of any interaction, any new interaction establishes the frame which is the unspoken understanding of what kind of relationship this is. If you spend an
hour or even the first 10 to 20 minutes in purely platonic polite conversation, you're establishing a platonic frame.
And once this frame is set, it's difficult to ship out shift out of. When
you suddenly try to introduce romantic interest after an hour of friendly talk, it feels awkward and uncomfortable to a woman. It's like switching a genre of a
woman. It's like switching a genre of a movie halfway through it from a documentary to a romance out of nowhere.
It just doesn't work. Secondly, when you wait too long to flirt or be playful, you show a lack of confidence. When you
suddenly make an attempt to flirt after a pointless, friendly conversation, a woman can sense that you were just too scared to flirt earlier, right? You
weren't ready for it, and that you're probably intimidated by her, which is not good for you. And that's not attractive at all. Even if she had some interest in you initially, this kind of hesitation and delay in taking action is
always going to kill that interest and chase her away. I had another client named Michael who would always have these good conversations with women, but he never understood why they ignored him
later or never saw him as more than just a friend. So, when I worked with him,
a friend. So, when I worked with him, the problem became very obvious very quickly. He would always hesitate and
quickly. He would always hesitate and wait till the last minutes of an interaction to start flirting. And like
I said, that is a recipe for failure. So
here is what to do instead. Every time
you spark a conversation with a woman that you find attractive, or even just anybody, stick to the 2minut rule of flirting. What is the two-minute rule of
flirting. What is the two-minute rule of flirting? It's simple. It means you need
flirting? It's simple. It means you need to start flirting with a woman within 2 minutes of talking to her. Meaning being
playful and joking around and teasing.
In other words, you can allow yourself a maximum of 5 minutes of platonic conversation before you introduce some flirting. So, the first couple of
flirting. So, the first couple of minutes can go into introducing yourself, asking about her day, her job, where she's from, and stuff like that.
But then, you got to add some flavor.
You have to add some flirtation into the mix. You need to show her that this
mix. You need to show her that this isn't just two friends hanging out. That
there's something more. This doesn't
mean you have to make some big risky moves. You can be subtle and playful
moves. You can be subtle and playful with it. So, for example, if she tells
with it. So, for example, if she tells you that she's from San Diego, you can say something like this. Oh, I've heard about women from San Diego. Right, I see what they're saying now. Right? Like,
that's fun. Delivered with a smirk and good eye contact, this line instantly creates a flirty manto-woman vibe in the interaction without being creepy or risking rejection. Or you could say
risking rejection. Or you could say something like, "Ah, that makes more sense now. You're one of those people."
sense now. You're one of those people."
Again, said with a smirk. Doing things
like this breaks you out of that platonic frame before you get stuck in there for good. It makes a woman feel that spark of romantic tension and also paints you as a confident guy who knows
what he wants and goes for it. Now, that
said, I'll show you more ways to start flirting with women in just a second and I'll give you more lines and examples to learn from. But before that, there's
learn from. But before that, there's something else that we need to discuss.
We need to talk about the myth of the perfect moment because that is the root cause of your struggles with flirting.
You see, one of the biggest mental blocks that causes men to flirt too late is waiting for the perfect moment for like that green light. They think that there will be some obvious signal or
perfect opportunity to transition from friendly conversation to flirtation. And
I'll tell you right now, the perfect moment does not exist. You have to make it exist. Flirting always requires a
it exist. Flirting always requires a leap of faith. A woman's never going to hold up a flashing sign saying, "Please flirt with me now. I'm ready." You have to create the moment rather than wait
for it. And consider this. If she's
for it. And consider this. If she's
agreed to go on a date with you, or if she's continuing a conversation with you that you've initiated, she's at least open to the possibility of attraction.
That is your green light. You don't need any more permission than that. That is
it. So, stop waiting and start flirting.
If you're clueless about how flirting works and how to introduce it early into an interaction, here are six techniques that you can use with any woman and spark attraction on command. In fact,
these are some of the easiest ways to trigger attraction in a woman that you can use right away. Starting with
technique number one, which is the playful assumption. This technique
playful assumption. This technique involves making a slightly exaggerated assumption about her based on something you observe or something that's in the conversation. So, for example, if she
conversation. So, for example, if she was reading a book or she looks a little introverted and nerdy, you could say something like this to her. You could
say, you know, you strike me as someone who was definitely the teacher's pet in school. If she's got that cute girl next
school. If she's got that cute girl next door vibe going on, you could say something like, you seem like such a nice, innocent girl. I bet you never break any rules or do anything crazy. If
she tells you she works in finance, you could say something like, "Oh god, I bet you gives the best stock advice at parties, don't you?" Right? Now, listen,
these assumptions don't have to be accurate. You can just make them up. In
accurate. You can just make them up. In
order to make this technique work, you only need to do three things. One, make
an observation about her or focus on something she mentions in the conversation. Two, use that information
conversation. Two, use that information to make a silly and exaggerated guess about her. Three, say it to her with a
about her. Three, say it to her with a smile on your face so she knows that you're being playful. So, in most cases, you can use phrases like, "I bet you're the type who, or you strike me as
someone who, and follow it up with your assumption. It doesn't matter if you're
assumption. It doesn't matter if you're right or you're completely wrong." It's
going to make the conversation more fun and interesting either way. She's going
to agree with you or disagree with you, and it'll open the door to more flirting and banter. So, technique number two,
and banter. So, technique number two, which is absurd answers. This is another super easy way to make a conversation fun and playful and flirty. So, here's
what to do. Take those early questions you get in a conversation and instead of giving the right, correct, logical answer, reply with something just like
absurd and silly. Where are you from?
Heaven. What What do you do for a living? Or what do you do? I'm an
living? Or what do you do? I'm an
astronaut. I just came back from the moon yesterday. I'm so tired. The ground
moon yesterday. I'm so tired. The ground
feels so good. How old are you? I'm 700
months old. You don't have to do this for every question you ask, and you definitely should not. It's It gets annoying if you do, but when done a few times in conversation early on, this is
a great way to be open and open the door to flirting. It immediately creates a
to flirting. It immediately creates a pattern interrupt and changes the vibe from boring and platonic to fun and engaging. Technique number three,
engaging. Technique number three, teasing the response. Teasing in
conversation communicates a powerful message. It tells a woman that you're
message. It tells a woman that you're not intimidated by her. It shows her you're confident enough to mess with her a little bit. And this is crucial because most guys put an attractive
woman on a pedestal and try too hard to impress her. Teasing cuts through all of
impress her. Teasing cuts through all of that and instantly creates those emotional sparks that cause attraction.
So just like playful assumptions, teasing is done in response to something you notice or something she mentions in conversation. So, for example, if she
conversation. So, for example, if she says that she is a morning person, you can say a morning person. I didn't know I was talking to a psychopath. Next,
you'll tell me you enjoy doing taxes and eating vegetables. If she mentions
eating vegetables. If she mentions something like cats over dogs, or just says anything you disagree with, you could say, "Seriously, I was just starting to think you're cool, but I'm not sure if we should talk to each other
anymore." If she mentions she's terrible
anymore." If she mentions she's terrible at cooking, you could respond with something like, "Okay, so basically, I should never accept a dinner invitation for from you." Good to know. These
teases don't have to be laugh out loud funny. They're like little pokes. It
funny. They're like little pokes. It
just has to show that you're messing with her and that you don't take things too seriously. That said, there are two
too seriously. That said, there are two rules for effective teasing. First,
stick to teasing about her trivial things and choices she has made instead of her deeply held values or things that she can't change about herself. And
second, tease always with a little smirk on your face and a playful tone. As long
as you do that, you can have the most fun, flirty conversations with any woman anywhere. Technique number four, the
anywhere. Technique number four, the mild challenge. This is another form of
mild challenge. This is another form of teasing that works really well. So, this
te this technique technique I can't speak. This technique involves
speak. This technique involves challenging what she says in a way that creates some playful tension. So, for
example, let's say she tells you about a talent or a skill that she has, like she makes amazing pasta. You could say, "Oh, really? I might need to see some proof
really? I might need to see some proof of this." Anyone can claim they make
of this." Anyone can claim they make amazing pasta. If she tells you that she
amazing pasta. If she tells you that she loves watching horror movies, you could be like, "I don't buy it. You seem like the type who gets super scared very
easily." If she claims that she's better
easily." If she claims that she's better than you at something, like she's a better dancer than you or funnier than you, you could look at her and be like, "Aw that's
adorable, right? Playfully challenging
adorable, right? Playfully challenging her like this shows that you're not just going to go along with everything she says like most guys do. I talked about this in my frame control video. This is
exactly the same thing. It shows her you're not desperate to make her like you, and it creates a fun and interesting dynamic in the conversation, which leads to more flirting and attraction. Technique number five,
attraction. Technique number five, physical flirting. Physical flirting
physical flirting. Physical flirting isn't about being touchy and grabby with a woman. It's about creating some
a woman. It's about creating some romantic tension through a mix of closeness and distance or touch and release. To effectively do this, you
release. To effectively do this, you need to take advantage of the natural moments in the conversation and let the interaction guide the physical engagement. Okay? So, for example, when
engagement. Okay? So, for example, when making an important point in conversation, you can briefly touch her arm and then pull away. I can't really properly do it, but you know what I'm saying. If she's showing you something
saying. If she's showing you something on her phone, you can move closer to see it, allowing your shoulders to touch momentarily, and then pull back and go back to your original position. When she
says something impressive, you can offer a high five and let your hand contact linger for a split second longer than usual. If you're walking side by side
usual. If you're walking side by side and need to navigate through a crowd, you can lightly place your hand on the small of her back to guide her and then remove it once through, which is very
sexy. There are other videos on this
sexy. There are other videos on this channel that go over ways to touch a woman, and you can check them out later, but that's a little uh summary for now.
Understand that this is one of the most powerful ways to flirt with a woman and create romantic tension. The only caveat is you need to be aware of her comfort levels and always respect her
boundaries. So, if she seems
boundaries. So, if she seems uncomfortable with something, pull back, tone it down, try again later after you've built more chemistry and connection with her. A useful mindset to
have for physical flirting is one step forward, one step back. You never want to be too touchy. You want to alternate between touch and no touch, closeness
and space, tension and release. That's
what creates red hot attraction, and gets her wanting more. So, technique
number six is thoughtful compliments.
Yes, compliments do work, but not the generic ones that most guys use. You
want to use compliments that show a woman you're actually paying attention to who she is, not just what she looks like. So these are what I call
like. So these are what I call thoughtful specific compliments. So for
example, instead of you've got beautiful eyes or your eyes are gorgeous, you can say something like this. I noticed how your eyes light up when you smile. It's
really captivating. Another example
would be after she tells a really good story. Instead of saying, wow, that's so
story. Instead of saying, wow, that's so amazing. You can say, I I love how you
amazing. You can say, I I love how you tell stories. You get so animated and
tell stories. You get so animated and and into it. It's it's great. It's
really about making a genuine observation about her and acknowledging it, about noticing something specific that you really appreciate and then letting her know about it. That's how
this works. Other than that, there are two things to keep in mind. First, don't
linger on these compliments. Let her
know. Then, you want to keep the conversation going, right? Because
sometimes if you sit in silence after a compliment, it can build up too much tension and overwhelm her, which is good sometimes, but not great all the time.
Secondly, remember less is more. If you
compliment too much, it starts to lose its value. So, stick
its value. So, stick to one or two compliments per interaction and make sure you balance it out with the other flirty teasing techniques that we've discussed in this
video. In fact, you never want to be
video. In fact, you never want to be one-dimensional with your flirting. You
don't want to be the guy who only teases or only compliments women or only uses physical flirting that can make you predictable and boring very quickly. So
instead, you want to mix a few of these techniques together into your interactions. It doesn't have to be all
interactions. It doesn't have to be all of them, but at least two or three of the six that I listed. If you can do that and you can follow the 2 to 5 minute rule as we discussed, you can
become a master flirt and have more women chasing you than you can handle.
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