my current thoughts on purging and bridge of incidents when manifesting

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I think that's it. Okay, so I have seen people asking me, "What are my current thoughts on like the um purging situation?" Like when you're manifesting

situation?" Like when you're manifesting something new and you go through the purge and what was it? Bridge of

incidents and things like that. Um

because I made a video, I don't even know, so many years ago and obviously I've evolved over these years and I have different thoughts and opinions on things. I've also learned different

things. I've also learned different things cuz I still study quantum physics constantly. I still test things out.

constantly. I still test things out.

Like you know the drill. I'm still

learning new things, trying new things, understanding more things uh than I used to. I understand it a lot better now and now I do have a better

understanding of uh the purge or bridge of incidents. Mind you, when I first

of incidents. Mind you, when I first started my knowledge that I had was really just strictly Neville-based knowledge. And no

offense to that community or Neville himself, but I just don't agree with it anymore and I know what it actually is now. And so now I can share it with you

now. And so now I can share it with you and I think that what I have discovered will make you feel better about it if you are also someone who thinks that you have to go through a bridge of incidents

or purge. I think that this video would

or purge. I think that this video would really help give you some relief on that. Um because

that. Um because I know, uh shocking, but Neville community is not like the end-all be-all of

manifestation. Actually, a lot of it is

manifestation. Actually, a lot of it is not quite right, in my opinion, and it's just not necessarily uh

accurate for everyone. But, again, the law is based on everyone's beliefs. So,

whatever those people believe is really what's going to be true for them.

But, I have discovered, learned, and realized, I guess, that it's actually not what I used to think that it was. It used to be that I

thought that there was like a purge.

Like, what What did I used to What did I used to believe? I can't even remember my video, but it was like about how your mind would have to purge, or whatever, or Honestly, I don't remember. I'm just

going to tell you what it is now, though.

Um purging and bridge of incidents is not really a thing. What is actually happening is So, whenever you are affirming something new, right? So,

let's say you're used to being broke, and now you're affirming for being wealthy. What is going to happen is your

wealthy. What is going to happen is your mind is going to be like, Hold ho- hold the phone.

That's scary. That's uncomfortable. I'm

not familiar with that. Let me remind you what I am familiar with. And so,

that's where your mind is trying to remind you, aka what we would consider to be a purge, or negative thoughts, or a bridge of incidents, that we end up

manifesting because our mind Sorry, I feel like I have cat hair all over my face, and my cat is literally going crazy over here.

Our mind is trying to to remind us what is familiar. So,

is familiar. So, there's also this thing called the thermostat theory that um there's this one girl I've I've watched a couple of her videos. She's not really full

her videos. She's not really full manifestation and um she doesn't fully have the same beliefs as me, but Are you going to say?

Salem.

I have no idea what she's playing with.

Okay, that didn't sound good, but we're just going to move on. She doesn't fully We don't We don't share a lot of the same opinions, but we do share a lot of the same opinions. But anyway, is she

talked about the thermostat theory and I believe that's also based in a book where the it's like the thermostat theory. You've

probably heard of it a few times from different things, but it's where your you have like a subconscious cap on what your your subconscious is like comfortable with and anytime you get

above where your subconscious is comfortable, it will you know, you'll manifest things to bring you back to where your subconscious is comfortable.

And this is basically relevant to this conversation and bridge of incidents.

Purging I would consider more so your mind bringing up thoughts from your old state to try to remind you like, "Hey, this is what I'm comfortable with. This is what is familiar." Uh

with. This is what is familiar." Uh

bridge of incidents would more so be like, "Oh, I'm manifesting, you know, this amount of money. It

starts working and then like some shit happens to like fuck it up or like bring it back down because that's where cuz I hit my cap, right? I

hit my my cap on my thermostat where my subconscious is comfortable and it had to bring me back down in reality to a reality and a state where it's

comfortable. So, I guess I could really

comfortable. So, I guess I could really go for anything though. So, whenever

you're manifesting something new and then like things happen. I wouldn't

they call it a bridge of incidents and like Neville philosophy I guess. But

what's really happening is you've hit your comfortable cap for your subconscious and it starts creating problems. So you start manifesting problems unknowingly

basically. So what you have to do is you

basically. So what you have to do is you have to increase that cap and you have to make familiar what your mind is uncomfortable with

currently. So in order to avoid these

currently. So in order to avoid these incidents or manifestations or this purge which is not really a purge.

That's why we use repetition. That's

basically the point that I'm trying to get to is that that is why we use repetition and that's why I get really annoyed when people are so against repetition is because it's like

your subconscious is comfortable with what is familiar and what is familiar is things that it's experienced over and over again or it thinks you

have experienced over and over again. So

what we have to do is we have to rewire it with a new experience mentally over and over again and then it will not keep trying to drag

us back which is why I say when you're affirming for something new and you get opposing thoughts you just keep affirming because the only thing that's happening is it's not a purge. It's that your mind is

just trying to pull you back to the state where it's comfortable. Same with

the bridge of incidents when you're manifesting a different life scenario, a different experience your mind wants to create problems because it's not comfortable in this new

experience and it wants to pull you back to the state where it is comfortable and familiar. Our mind likes repetition and

familiar. Our mind likes repetition and familiarity and that's just what it is our subconscious does. So it's

constantly just trying it's what feels safe to it even if it's a shitty circumstance for you. If it's a shitty circumstance that you have been in for a long time

or a shitty belief that you've had for a long time that you want to change.

Even though it's shitty, it's comfortable. It's where your mind is

comfortable. It's where your mind is comfortable at because it's where it's already been for so long. It's all it's really experienced or it's something that it has experienced for a long time.

So what we have to do is we have to create a new inner experience using repetition and we have to make that new thing familiar instead. And

when we do that, then we won't get the fight and the resistance from our mind and we won't create shitty circumstances to block our new state and

to pull us back into our old state because we've already made it comfortable and safe here. You have to make your subconscious feel safe, okay?

It's all about trying to keep you safe.

Your entire mind is just literally trying to keep you safe even if that safe is your shitty circumstance that it's just used to. So if your safe space is being poor because it's something

it's all you've ever experienced and then you try to be rich it's going to be like, well no. We have negative thoughts about money. We are constantly stressed

about money. We are constantly stressed about money. I'm I'm comfortable being

about money. I'm I'm comfortable being stressed about money.

Um I'm not comfortable feeling free and financially free and wealthy because that's not what I'm used to. So what you have to do is you have to create the mental experience and make it think because our

subconscious doesn't have eyes. It

doesn't know if it's a real experience or an imagined one and we have to use our affirmations to basically train it to feel safe with

a wealthy lifestyle.

Or a relationship. Say you've had so many problems with relationships, right?

Um whoever you want ends up not wanting you as soon as you want them. Or you

have just shitty luck with relationships. So, anytime a

relationships. So, anytime a relationship is going good, your subconscious is going to create problems because it feels safe whenever you're being disappointed in a

relationship because that's just what it's used to. So, even though it starts out good, your subconscious is going to manifest problems in that relationship.

But, I guess that would be bridge of incidents, maybe? I don't know.

incidents, maybe? I don't know.

Or you're going to have doubts and worries, and then it's going to create problems in the relationship, which I guess you could consider you would think it would be purging. It's not. What's

happening is you have to train your subconscious to feel comfortable with a happy, healthy, peaceful relationship.

So many people are trained in chaos that peace is too scary to their subconscious, and they literally will manifest problems for themselves just in life in general, not even just relationships or money, it can be anything. There are so many people that

anything. There are so many people that are just used to I I mean, I've I've had this example before about complaining.

People who are complainers, what if their life is going too good, they will subconsciously manifest problems because they're so comf- their subconscious is so comfortable in being able to

complain. And when it has nothing to

complain. And when it has nothing to complain about, it doesn't feel safe because that's what it is used to. It's

just uncomfortable for the subconscious mind.

So, what you have to do is you have to back to the relationship idea is that you would need to affirm and train your

subconscious with "I always have the best luck with relationships. Whoever I

want always wants me even more. I am

always safe and comfortable in my relationships. I only attract the best

relationships. I only attract the best relationships. I always have the safest,

relationships. I always have the safest, happiest relationships. I always have

happiest relationships. I always have extremely peaceful relationships." I

like to use the word always because it just makes it It just implies that it's something that you that's normal, right?

So, that's what you have to do and you have to do it here first. Cuz if you don't, your subconscious is going to try to pull you back to the state that's most comfortable. Everything is a state. So,

comfortable. Everything is a state. So,

shitty relationships is a state and happy relationships is a state.

And the only way for you to experience the happy relationships one is by convincing your subconscious that this is normal, which equals safe. Normal

familiar equals safe, okay?

Anything that's not familiar, anything that's too new, registers as unsafe up here and it's going to try and drag you back to the comfortable, more known,

familiar, even though shitty, state.

It's just how it works. So, no, I don't believe in a bridge of incidents. I

believe that we have a subconscious cap based on what we've trained our subconscious to be familiar with and or what we've been trained to be familiar with. A lot of our

familiar with. A lot of our programming is really not even our own.

We picked it up through the years, but it's not a bridge of incidents.

You can switch without any issue. You

can manifest a better state without issue if you will do the inner work up here. If you'll just do the repetition

here. If you'll just do the repetition and train your subconscious to feel safe in that, you will not have any more problems with, you know, manifesting issues or blocks or uh

things to drag you back to your old state if you'll do the inner work up here first.

Um same with purging. It's not it's not that your mind is purging. What's

happening is your mind is trying to remind you of what it is familiar with. So, if you're manifesting, you know, oh, he is so obsessed with me. He's so obsessed with

me. He loves me so much. We have the

me. He loves me so much. We have the best relationship. He loves me, my

best relationship. He loves me, my boyfriend, whatever it is. Um your mind is going to have opposing thoughts of what it's more familiar with. Well,

remember how you got cheated on? Well,

remember how every time you like someone they don't like you anymore. Um he's

going to ghost you. He doesn't like you.

He Whatever it is, whatever your, you know, experiences or past thoughts have been, whatever has been more familiar to your mind, it's just trying to remind you of that. Same with money. It's going

to remind you how expensive things are or it's going to be like, "Hey, well, um remember how we didn't have any money?

Remember how fast that money went away?

Remember um how our bank account was in the negative several times?" So, it's going to keep trying to remind you of what it is familiar with. So, you have to say, "Well, that's not my experience anymore. I always have more than enough

anymore. I always have more than enough money in the bank. I always have the best luck with relationships. My

relationships are always healthy and safe. Um whatever it is, but you need to

safe. Um whatever it is, but you need to use repetition to make it feel comfortable and familiar with what you are intending to manifest. And then that

will become your experience instead, and your mind will no longer be creating problems for you or trying to drag you back into an old state because it's it wants to be with what is familiar.

So, if you make it familiar and comfortable, it's going to have no problem staying in that state. It's

actually going to want to stay in that state, and then the other shits from the other states is going to fall away and not exist anymore. So,

it doesn't matter what you've experienced before, you can experience something totally different if you will first create it to be familiar and safe up here, okay?

As you are doing that, even before you fully believe it, you will start to experience evidence of the new state that you're manifesting. And it's very important for you to keep affirming and

keep making it familiar, and then let the evidence that the uh the lived experience of it also impress and it just keeps building a safer and

safer and safer environment for your subconscious and then you will stay in that state.

Because you'll start affirming and you'll start seeing evidence. We all

know when we start seeing evidence in the 3D that experience makes us feel like, oh, okay, you know, that is normal for me. That is a thing I can do. That

for me. That is a thing I can do. That

is a thing I can experience. And then

that just reinforces this new state that you want to be in and the more that gets reinforced along with evidence and your affirmations, the easier it's going to

be to stay in that state permanently and not even be attempted to be pulled out of it, okay?

Unless you of course go on a social media binge and let things intrude, but we're not doing that anymore, right? We're not

doing that anymore. So, yeah, that's my thoughts. That's my current thoughts.

thoughts. That's my current thoughts.

Actually, it's what I currently know for sure about the subconscious mind and how it works and what we used to consider purging or bridge of incidents.

That's really what it is and it's actually very easily fixable, okay?

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