"So You Think I Have A Crush On You?"
By VIEWS FROM SIX8™
Summary
Topics Covered
- Disorganized Attachment Confuses Partners
- Earned Mother's Love Traumas Persist
- Broken People Can't Heal Each Other
- Self-Love Replaces Reliance on Others
Full Transcript
welcome to the blind date where you will be going on a date with Five Guys one of them has a crush on you and the other four are faking it your mission is to eliminate the fakers until you are left
with the one you believe to be crushing on you you will be eliminating one guy every 10 minutes hi my name is Karen I'm 25 and I'm Taiwanese today you'll be
meeting Five Guys what kind of guy are you expecting to come out I don't know why why' you like scan I was trying to see if your time
I hello okay nice to meet you nice to meet you I like doing hugs I like doing hugs what's good my name is Gabe I'm
Moroccan and I definitely have a crush on that girl you have you seen her my name is V trap I'm 25 from La um crush
on very pretty oh my God pretty cold outside H is up here that's what I'm looking they looking at the other eyes where almost where else am I supposed to
look there you go damn oh [ __ ] whoops my fault the bo are catching off F right now I'm kind of nervous tell me about yourself what is the job
interview oh if you're the manager I'm down to work here how many kids you want on two older brother or older sister what I
think older brother same actually I I know I know we were just like genuinely same yeah why is that though cuz I want the same thing that's how I grew up I know how much I want to
protect my little sister so cute you scared to make eye contact while we talk or yeah
what is going on oh man okay okay let's let's chill The Vibes down okay if you could pick one hobby to do for the rest of your life and you make like a million a year what would it be if I were to
pick one hobby yeah tell me about yourself Jesus Christ come on tell that's basically what I'm saying what do you like to
do because this [ __ ] funny what your childhood what was your childhood like why is everyone stuttering
and it's cold you know your tits get hard I I start stuttering oh man what the [ __ ] guys why would you what would you name our
baby would you rather three months of talking stage or three three weeks of talking three months of of talking stage or three
weeks of talking stage I'll probably say three weeks if it's like compatible like for me to date somebody it's got to like really really make sense like so if it's like ideally for me to
talk to someone like each other everything's like smooth and everything so I'll probably pick through
this 10 minutes so count of three you have to eliminate one person that you think is faking
interest three two one okayy oh you think I'm faking it well good luck with the rest of the game I definitely don't have a crush on
that girl you have you seen her she's bad but like you know I don't know not really my type I still love a Grace already I already got a wife at home so you know
yeah hello what the the [ __ ] is going on now ew why are you in here you right that's my name is Kevin I'm made in
China 28 years old and I a crushed on [Laughter] Karen why are you here are you actually this this like a joke how did F when
Kevin came a lot awkward it's like my brother okay oh okay I like this one eye contact battle 10 seconds all right start with V and then I'll go second dud
this is going to be hard look at no because he's doing it on purpose he's trying to make me nervous not doing thank God I'm not
wear you already broke it can you count from 10 okay ready one two three go you already broke it once no I
didn't can I blink one all right that was 10 ready3 I even want to look at you that's
crazy oh what is your attachment style how do you resolve conflict what I tend to do a lot is I would do my best to meet the person halfway and then if they can match my effort
then hopefully conflict gets resolved what about you it I have a disorganized attachment style so do you like avoid people like silent treatment no I don't
do the silent treatment I think that's childish disorganized attachment is basically anxious mixed with uh avoidant it just
depends on what the situation is or how the how my partner's treating me MH um yeah it's very confusing to work with I'm in therapy
so proud of you I think I asked this earlier you didn't answer what was your childhood like my childhood
M I have a pretty good family growing up I think what's the biggest trauma that you've gone through I feel like I always have to
like earn my mother's love yeah like I have to work very hard gotta all right K it's been 10 minutes mhm why I know he's [ __ ] faking it
I'm not I'm not I actually I really want to get ew that's disgusting I just pked in my mouth oh my God absolutely not oh my God it was nice Mee thank you I'm
going wash my hands now not my fault they put in there my name is Kevin and I don't have a crush on Karen or do you want me to just say I don't have a said
and I and I do not like Karen sure I do not like Karen it's like my brother all
righty hi shot my name is Jimmy uh I'm 28 I'm Chinese and I I'm Karen hi hi what's
your name Karen Karen nice to meet you Jimmy nice to meet you now uh what brings you here looking for the love of
my life the love of your life that's what that's okay uh how's it how's it been so far how's it what you we hit it off you sure feel
you hate me so what what's your uh uh what's your type of guy what's been a pattern so far in your life I used to date like pretty toxic guys but not so much anymore I think I'm
the problem you're the problem love to hear that I'm I'm really good with like controlling my feelings so like I won't get like too deep it's just called being in
avoidant maybe oh I think he read a book recently it's the attachment Styles reading yeah do you know your attachment Styles I'm not an El reader like you yeah I read pretty well you're L reader huh
come on you can read something let's don't you have prompts to read let's try a prompt let's try yeah it's not very nice so know what is your first impression of me
first impression of you mhm I wanted to [ __ ] okay wow excuse me I wanted to [ __ ] hey man just you know me you don't got
to be intrusive thoughts oh most youve laughed all
day may be a little nervous me nervous yeah yeah because he's like [ __ ] oh like like holding a grudge on you right
yeah me smoldering smoldering being flirty what's your favorite ice cream flavor strawberry strawberry cute cute
cute cute like gelato Ben and& Jerry's there's a lot I like gelato gelato okay okay can I guess your favorite ice cream Play sure matcha wow you know what it's
the better yet strawberry matcha that's yeah oh actually that's good that that's B what's yours faite lactose intolerant I actually hate ice cream there's dairyfree ice cream I hate ice
cream there's vegan ice cream scary free I hate ice cream yeah it's not it's not cold it's warm let's let's see the prompts let's
see which one what are you like are your tits real Jesus Christ yeah guessing you want to touch and find out I'm just
kidding the real or not yo brother why are you contact me mhm not oh my God you broke it once again
you're biting your broke it you're biting do that naturally I feel like I'm thir Wheeling what is one thing you would
change about yourself I think I inherited my dad's anger I think you're doing pretty good yeah I've lived with myself for 25 years
lived with him for about 18 years that's all I was shown so the reason why you met me now and I'm always reading going talking about therapy always listening to
God same thing I said earlier like I don't want to be anything like my dad and I'm willing to put that work in instead of focusing on myself I'm
focusing outwards on to other people on their needs their expectations there because I I like so far for like 25 years of my life what what's what the
[ __ ] what the [ __ ] e why didn't you do that talking about tou no bro she's being rude she
didn't let you answer you just touched my toes anyways um yeah no I I just I changed my ice cream probably
yeah all right so car in 3 2 1 choose to eliminate one person three I feel so bad two one I feel like I was like intruding
at this point you know what I mean but I don't know they're both pretty close hey take home the gold champ don't water her oh okay man want him either I
this is JY how did you feel when Jimmy was Raising you up is it natural a little rusty you haven't been in the game for a while I no I really yeah it's it's been
half a year bro I I I I ended the rist content I don't know how to talk to [Laughter] wom what's up man what's up guys feel real comfortable
today feel Co my name is Karen my name is l my friend's call my friends call me Eddie M sometimes I go by
Ed depends on like how close I am to the person my name is Edward I'm 23 years old I'm full Korean 1%
Afghan and I like cam I mean I'll let y'all get to know each other can I ask you a favor yeah take off your
glasses I can see your eyes unfortunately the light is too bright for my eye I have eye condition so I unfortunately can't doctor's note M I'm
going to get to know you cuz I kind of already know him what's your love language My love language mhm all the types of Love
um yeah do you know do you know them yeah yeah yeah I speak them um wa name name too words are
powerful a good second would be I think uh touch in there that's good too occasionally yeah and if I had to pick a
third one it would be um it's a good time yeah those three that's my big three right there with the love what do you
mean like uh like the quality Tomy okay yeah yeah I like that yeah it's funny very funny what did you learn from your
previous relationship sometimes you don't force a relationship just to be in a relationship it's good how about you I think I learned two broken people cannot
heal each other and as sad that as as sad as that is that's just how the world [Music] works that's
good he's smart you said you you feel like you have to work hard for your mother's love do you still feel like you have to do
that in your relationships now as a grownup no my relationship now like nowadays is like pretty healthy with men
mhm oh so did you heal from that mhm how long did that take and what like what was the biggest lesson that helped you can't always rely on people
for your own happiness yeah so it was a it was a journey of self love yeah do you have an answer
now no okay Riz battle battle the [ __ ] is a wrist battle what the
[ __ ] the [ __ ] doing no wrist battle what is a rist battle though I'm I'm dead ass what is that you just rist battle
nah I got some do it you remind me of a mirror because I can't see my life without
you that was bad that bad that was holy [ __ ] okay pass I don't want to do this I'm cold you need you need the text
please that's I wor it it's cozy it's cozy there doing push-ups doing pushups hell no don't put that in there bro I was on my phone chilling the whole time bro you know it
bro that's I was chilling the whole time what will make you obsessed with me if you call me a good boy while we're having sex what yeah that does
it what about you Eddie yeah I'm cold that's why I I can't think right now like let's say like it's the little [ __ ] you know like
I do a chore you do a chore you know what I mean the little [ __ ] I like the little [ __ ] I'm going to get you to eliminate
your final M three two one Eddie interesting huh I could get it after why' you think Ed was faking it I
could just tell he's not vibing it why'd you pick me he keeps looking at me and biting his lips
and that's just like natural I'm not trying to do it on purpose oh okay cool maybe maybe my lips are dry are you asking for a kiss you're
you're not getting one maybe ew e I do not like you I do not like you
too I was just figuring out who likes me so man has a crush on Karen please step in wait what what what what it was you me the
whole time what the hell how long did you have a CAU on the 3 days now what do you like most about man just everything from just her her
vibe her demeanor and uh she's classy you know with uh like droplets of like you know like like I don't know oh you
don't know okay what do you like yeah of like just dirty jokes of like just just runchy [ __ ] yeah you thought that I liked you yes and you're not admitting to it huh
and you're not admitting to it not admitting to to liking you I don't know you I don't even know I don't even know you think I like you you
don't that's great that's great I've been trying this whole time yeah but you're like that with everyone so out of everybody here who
would you see yourself going on a date with I am done with this how's your day it's pretty good you picked Viet throughout the whole show
what made you so sure that Viet was not faking I feel like that was it but I guess I was wrong are you sure you were trying to pick who was faking it not
like who you're most attracted to what is this question now he's laughing now he's going to be happy
Loading video analysis...