墜機讓我學到的三件事(Ted演講 中文字幕)(人生的目的)

so imagine a big explosion as you climb through 3,000 ft imagine a Plane full of smoke imagine an engine

going cl cl sounds scary well I had a unique seat that day I was sitting in w d I was the only one who could talk to the flight

attendants so I looked at them right away and they said no problem we probably hit some birds the pilot had already turned the plane around and we weren't that far you could see

Manhattan 2 minutes later three things happen at the same time the pilot lines up the plane with the Hudson

River it's usually not the route he turns off the engine now imagine being on a plane with no

sound and then he says three words as unemotional three words have I've ever heard he says brace for impact I didn't have to talk to the flight attendant

anymore I could see in her eyes it was Terror life was over and I want to share with you three things I learned about myself that day I learned that it all changes in an

in instant we have this bucket list we have these things we want to do in life and I thought about all the people I wanted to reach out that I didn't all the fences I

wanted to menend all the experiences I wanted to had and I never did as I thought about that later on I came up with a saying which is I collect bad

wines cuz if the wine is ready and the person is there I'm opening it I no longer want to postpone anything in life and that urgency that purpose has really changed my

life the second thing I learned that day and this is as we um clear the George Washington Bridge which was by not a

lot I thought about wow I really feel one real regret I've lived a good life in my own humanity and mistakes I've tried to get better at everything I

tried but in my Humanity I also allow my ego to get in and I regretted the time I wasted in things that did not matter with people that

matter and I thought about my relationship with my wife with my friends with people and after as I reflected on that I decided to eliminate negative energy from my life it's not

perfect it's a lot better I've not had a fight with my wife in two years it feels great I no longer trying to be right I choose to be

happy the third thing I learned and this is as your mental clock starts going 15 14 13 you can see the water coming I'm saying please blow up right I don't want this thing to break in 20 pieces like

you've seen in those documentaries and as we're coming down I had a sense of wow dying is not scary it's almost like we've been preparing

for it our whole lives but it was very sad I didn't want to go I love my life and that sadness really framed in one

thought which is I only wish for one thing I only wish I could see my kids grow up about a month later I was in a performance by my daughter first grader

not much artistic talent yet and I'm bowling I'm crying like a little

kid and it made all the sense in the world to me I realized at that point by connecting those two dots that the only thing that matters in my life is being a

great dad Above All Above All the only goal I have in life is to be a good dad I was given the gift of a miracle of

not dying that day I was given another gift which was to be able to see into the future and come back and live differently I challenge you guys that

are flying today imagine the same thing happens on your plane and please don't but imagine and how would you change why what would you get done that you're waiting to get done because you think

you'll be here forever how would you change your relationships and the negative energy in them and more than anything are you being the best parent you can thank you