Why This "Life Coach" Influencer Got CHEATED on while PREGNANT

So, how does a really famous, really pretty life coach get cheated on by her husband while she's pregnant? Well,

you've seen the videos circulating on YouTube. Her name Wizard Liz, her

YouTube. Her name Wizard Liz, her YouTube channel, 8 million subscribers.

Holy, I am so jealous. Here I am sitting at 28. But today, I feel like I do have

at 28. But today, I feel like I do have to talk about her because this is such an important topic and I want to cover it in a way that other YouTubers haven't. I want to talk about why we

haven't. I want to talk about why we should have seen this coming and I want to talk about how you can avoid falling for false gurus online, the signs to watch out for. I want to deep dive into

just this video that she did with her ex-husband and how many red flags there are. And to my 28,000 subscribers, thank

are. And to my 28,000 subscribers, thank you so much for being loyal, staying with me in the last 3 to four years.

Really appreciate you. Let's get into it. So, Wizard Liz became famous because

it. So, Wizard Liz became famous because she makes viral videos like these. And

what will I do now? Will I cry? Like I

like the fact that I'm talked about. So

if you're ready to nurture toxic people, if you have very low selfworth, they will latch on to you. So people always come to me. They're like, "Liz, I'm not confident. I'm not confident. I don't

confident. I'm not confident. I don't

feel confident in who I am." Whatever.

Why should you be confident? She told

millions of women to know your self-worth, to never settle, and to walk away from disrespect. But just a few months after meeting this guy, her now

husband, she gets pregnant by this guy who now she claims lovebombed her, cheated on her using Snapchat with one of her own followers, and now she's trying to get a divorce and get away

from this guy.

God damn it. You can't make this up.

This is a story of wizard Liz.

I got into my relationship. You also got into a relationship then.

So, we both like just living our lives.

And um but in my head, I like adored you to be honest.

This is the first red flag you see in the video, right? Like she's saying we're both in relationships. We're both

respecting our partners. And this guy is basically saying I was already in love with I already adore you, quote unquote.

Every time that you would send me a message, I got just uniquely excited.

Shout out to Pink Sugar Mukbang. Pretty

funny editing, but he or she or he is absolutely right. Like this guy is just

absolutely right. Like this guy is just saying, "I'm so excited every time you text me." In his mind, he's already

text me." In his mind, he's already jumped ship. And just the way I saw hit

jumped ship. And just the way I saw hit this live stream is like there's some red flags with this guy. Something's

wrong.

Before, you know, a little bit before we had met in person, I was dealing with this relationship and I said out loud, you know, at the end of the day, whatever I'm dealing with is okay because there's still girls like the wizard Liz out

there. in my head, you know, over the

there. in my head, you know, over the time that I from the time I met you and then watched you become successful, I felt I related with you and the things that you were saying, like in my head, you were always such a an ideal partner.

I Okay, so this is the dangerous thing with with people that are really good at manipulation. It's that they're so

manipulation. It's that they're so smooth in the way they talk that sometimes you can't tell. Look at Liz's face. Liz is looking at him like, "I

face. Liz is looking at him like, "I love this guy, but I have some hesitations because I'm supposed to be a life coach and I see some red flags, but I'm so in love with him that the love is going to supersede and override everything." The first time you're

everything." The first time you're really in love, it's unconscious. You

don't even know what's happening and you can't control it. It's so hard to get out of. It's almost like someone cast a

out of. It's almost like someone cast a spell on you. And this guy, if you listen to the words carefully, which people in love never do cuz they're so in love. He's saying, "She texted me. I

in love. He's saying, "She texted me. I

was so excited even though I was with someone else. We're always such a an

someone else. We're always such a an ideal.

You're such an ideal partner. Okay. When

you're in love, you're like, "Oh, that's so sweet." But looking at it now, it's

so sweet." But looking at it now, it's like you're an ideal partner cuz this guy has a small YouTube channel and he's met this boss girl who's making a lot of money with 8 million subscribers. And

he's like, "Here's my sugar mama. I'm

going to get her bag. I'm going to get her pregnant and I'm going to continue to cheat on her with her own follower."

Just the the way he's saying these, it sounds very nice, right? And when you hear it, you're like, "Yeah, it sounds so nice." nice, but when you actually

so nice." nice, but when you actually dissect the words themselves, it's really obvious.

Also, my biggest thing was when I got out of my previous relationship, I was like, "Oh, so it's done now for me cuz I'm not going on dates with anyone." So,

I really think that God like send you right in front of me. That was the perfect thing because if it wasn't you, it would have been no one.

Okay, so here's the thing you need to know about influencers, man. Like

YouTube uh famous people, I know a few of them through my work. I can tell you that they're very lonely. Like they're

literally making videos all day. Their

subscriber count, they tie their ego to it. And there's so much pressure to

it. And there's so much pressure to perform. And YouTube is not like

perform. And YouTube is not like traditional media where you get flown out to different cities. It's not like that. YouTubers sitting in front of in

that. YouTubers sitting in front of in their own bedroom filming and editing.

Okay, so I'll give you a quick story. I

was in Taiwan. I met this YouTuber. She

had millions of followers. I hung out with her and we went to her house to stop by to pick up some stuff. And

literally her apartment is like in a really weird part of town. It's a really nice apartment inside, but outside it looked like crap. And inside she had like these cats and it was like so dirty. It was like

dirty. It was like she's like, "Oh yeah, sorry. We're just

filming." And her one little film space in her bedroom is like kind of nice looking, but everything else like clothes everywhere, messy. And I hung out with her and her friends and she only had like one or two friends and all her friends were her like her video

editors and her mod. Like it's wild. And

I hung out with her all day. One of my friends was there. And after we left, we were like, man, like she's famous, but I don't think she's that happy. And he was like, yeah, it seems like she created her own prison. Like she's a workaholic.

She has to keep the numbers up. Like

there's a lot of pressure. She was

miserable. And why am I telling you this story? Because I wonder if Liz is kind

story? Because I wonder if Liz is kind of like that. She has all these followers. Her life is built on this

followers. Her life is built on this image, this facade. And now we're deeply lonely, right? She said, "After my last

lonely, right? She said, "After my last relationship, I didn't date for a while." She's also kind of famous, so

while." She's also kind of famous, so it's like she can't just date anyone.

But when you finally meet someone that like supposed to get you, you're just like, "Oh my god, I'm going to give you my heart." And so these people are

my heart." And so these people are actually quite vulnerable to manipulators. Robert Green in the art of

manipulators. Robert Green in the art of seduction correctly noted, "If you want to seduce someone, right, you want to seduce a person who's really unhappy."

Because happy people who are satisfied with their lives, they don't need anything you have to offer. But when you go after an insecure person who needs validation for how she looks, she needs validation for, you know, she doesn't have enough money in her life. These

people have a deep hole in their lives.

And so when as a seducer, you want to target that vulnerability and seduce them. One time I was almost scammed out

them. One time I was almost scammed out of a lot of money because my business partner had just broke up with me. I was

like, "Yeah, I want to, you know, just get into business again with somebody, anybody, and I signed a contract that was really bad for me." And this guy turned out to be a scammer. And was it had it not been for my good lawyer, I

would have lost a lot of money. So I

think Liz is very vulnerable. I think

she is less happy than she lets on in her videos. And that's why she fell for

her videos. And that's why she fell for this loser. We were both talking about

this loser. We were both talking about that when we first were dating. How we

were like, "Yeah, we're never going on first dates again."

Here, the [ __ ] teeth.

This is it.

Yeah. I don't like I just don't like imagine like constantly sitting with someone listening and stuff and then constantly dating his mood swings. He

has mood swings.

Oh my goodness.

She sees the red flags, right? If you

don't know, read uh Helen Fischer's books. Helen Fischer is a

books. Helen Fischer is a anthropologist. She's this old lady

anthropologist. She's this old lady who's been doing MRI scans of people that are in love. She's been doing this for the last 20 years. She wrote a couple of books on it. And when you're in love, your brain literally hijacks

your whole network. And she is smart enough to see he this guy has mood swings. But she's so in love with him

swings. But she's so in love with him that the red flags just fly by.

Mood swings.

Okay. You want to be this real if you have you want to be this real. And something

was cut off here. Something was cut off.

He probably said something about her and she cut it out of this video.

Art if you need it for living. No.

If we had a child on the way, then yes.

I don't think Oh, man. That's like, dude, this is

Oh, man. That's like, dude, this is looking back, it's so clear. It's like,

would you take a bullet for me? And he's

like, well, if we had a child on the way, he probably already knew that she's pregnant.

Yeah.

See, she's in love with him. She's in

love with him, but it doesn't go the other way. He's in love with the idea of

other way. He's in love with the idea of her, and she's she thinks she's in love with him, but she's also in love with the idea of him and what he can provide for her. The deep insecurity that she

for her. The deep insecurity that she needs. This is that's the look of a

needs. This is that's the look of a girl. You know, when a girl looks at you

girl. You know, when a girl looks at you like this, even even beyond look through all the plastic surgery and the lip injections, that's a look like you have my heart. I'm in love.

my heart. I'm in love.

Relationship with somebody who's ever done something that makes you insecure.

Like that's something to pay attention to. And it's not a good partnership if

to. And it's not a good partnership if the person is going to choose someone else over you. Like that defeats the whole point. But forgiveness is a big

whole point. But forgiveness is a big thing. So if you have ever had a trust

thing. So if you have ever had a trust issue come up, you got to learn how to forgive and work through that.

Otherwise, that'll just turn into crippling insecurity that that you suffer with.

Okay, so this is a very important sentence that Liz kind of catches, but let me explain it to you. What he's

saying is if you somehow catch your partner doing something or you're mad at your partner doing something, you have to forgive them. And if you can't, that means that you have deep crippling

insecurity. This is directly from the

insecurity. This is directly from the narcissist's playbook. Okay? They turn

narcissist's playbook. Okay? They turn

their own issue and project it onto you.

If I do something wrong and you can't forgive me, that means you have your insecurities that you need to work on.

And Liz catches this. She's smart enough to catch this. Watch what she says.

Depends what the trust issue was. If the

person is like texting, see this this is how you know like at this point in the video when she posted this, she had already caught him texting other girls. He's already somehow lied

other girls. He's already somehow lied to her and convinced her because she's in love. She forgave him. When we're in

in love. She forgave him. When we're in love, our brains are hijacked. But

unconsciously women and men, we have this intuition that we kind of know like something's wrong, but our our loved brains are just like rationalizing it.

And she's right now objecting to him cuz because this issue has come up and as we know comes up again.

People Yeah. Well, there's different like

Yeah. Well, there's different like degrees of severity for sure.

Different degrees of just softening the blow, right? Like narcissists do this

blow, right? Like narcissists do this too. They'll like, "Oh, I didn't get

too. They'll like, "Oh, I didn't get that angry. We were just having this

that angry. We were just having this little scuffle. That's it's not here.

little scuffle. That's it's not here.

It's here." They'll directly gaslight you and say this didn't happen. This

happened.

Yeah. I think a lot of issues can be boiled down.

She looked at him, she was suspicious and then she kind of let it go, right?

Say, "Ah, whatever." Because she loves him. You got to remember like a woman's

him. You got to remember like a woman's biological hardwired like she's pregnant, right? Like she's like, "I'm

pregnant, right? Like she's like, "I'm going to have this guy's baby and I need to get along with him, right? Cuz that's

how I'm going to survive.

Yourself before you enter a new rel."

All this stuff like the narcissist like you just say things that sound good without giving details. Oh, this it's like a good advice, you know? They just

know how to talk [ __ ] It's called BBB. We used to call it [ __ ] baffles

BBB. We used to call it [ __ ] baffles brain. You have the golden mouthpiece

brain. You have the golden mouthpiece and you just keep talking. Eventually

you just like overwhelm people even though it's full of [ __ ] Both sides are like too edgy and thinking like, "Oh, I can't trust each other like one another."

Then that won't work. Best for yourself, but not So he's saying we both need trust. He's

cloaking that as like cuz he needs her to trust him so you can keep doing what he's doing.

I told this woman that I loved her within 36 hours of knowing her. And I

Okay, so this is the classical love bomber, right? It's like sometimes you

bomber, right? It's like sometimes you have great dates that go on like all day. Sure. And then in this case, I

day. Sure. And then in this case, I guess they spent a few days together and this city that they're both in. But this

is love bombing for sure. First of all, there's only one instance where you're hanging out with the person. You don't

really know them. You know them for that situation. There's no way to really know

situation. There's no way to really know someone in 36 hours. You need to observe someone over a couple of weeks at least, ideally a couple of months. You want to

see how that person is when they're happy, when they're down. You want to see them with their friends, with their family. You want to see them in

family. You want to see them in different environments to get a full picture of who this person really is.

And a lot of times when we're insecure, we fall in love with the idea we have of this person that's different than who they really are. They're here. This is

who this person is. We think they're here. And we fall in love with this. And

here. And we fall in love with this. And

somehow we try to rationalize this difference between the real person and our idea of the person. and we fall in love with the idea and he probably maybe fall in love with her too, but he's a scumbag and he lovebombed her to be

fair. That being said, she's supposed to

fair. That being said, she's supposed to be a coach who preaches know your worth, be smart, and she gets lovebombed by this guy. My argument is this, the same

this guy. My argument is this, the same story with the famous female YouTuber.

They're desperately lonely. Even though

they have a lot of subscribers and followers, their lives are not that happy. I literally told her within 36

happy. I literally told her within 36 hours. I was like, "Look, this is going

hours. I was like, "Look, this is going to sound like a lot and I'm sorry cuz I know it's weird, but I just I know I'm supposed to marry you and that's weird as heck, but sometimes women and men too, men have a

different fantasy, but women have this fantasy like I'm going to meet the right guy. He's going to say I love you and I

guy. He's going to say I love you and I want to marry you." And deep down like with her, maybe she's like getting older. There's this fantasy that if we

older. There's this fantasy that if we meet the right person that checks all our boxes and if he or she says these things to us that we deeply need to hear because we never got that validation from somewhere else that this is it. I'm

going to give my heart because this is how I'm going to finally be happy. And

how do you avoid it? What's the trick?

The trick is you want to be able to fall in love with yourself and be happy in your life no matter what. It's nice to have a partner for sure, but that partner cannot be 100% of the source of

your happiness. didn't have a wedding

your happiness. didn't have a wedding yet. Thank God. Give

yet. Thank God. Give

an ugly guy a chance. He thinks he rules the world. Lit. I swear to God, because

the world. Lit. I swear to God, because they got a hot girl, they can be horrible. Like, you're still ugly.

horrible. Like, you're still ugly.

So, there's been a lot of like comments of from her fans like, "Oh my god, this ratfaced dude thinks he, you know, he's cheating on my goddess Liz. She's so

hot." So, I don't agree with this. First

of all, she's had a lot of work done.

Second of all, this proves my whole like I think I've been saying on this channel for like 5 years. If you know how to get into a woman's heart, you don't need to be that good-looking. It's about how you communicate and your behavior patterns.

And this raface guy is like a perfect example of that. Kasanova was

notoriously ugly, okay? But he betted nuns, nurses, he had kings patron him and pay for his expenses because Kasanua knew the way to people's hearts. He knew

how to create that fantasy. So anyway,

uh this guy gets exposed. Um he tries to to Snapchat message this girl on Snapchat who is a fan of Liz. Like how

stupid is this guy? He's like messaging one of her fans and like oh yeah, you know, we can hang out. It's not that bad. We I'm not really married yet, you

bad. We I'm not really married yet, you know, blah blah blah. We're not really together. And this fan girl uh sends

together. And this fan girl uh sends these messages to Liz and she finds out and now she props to her. She left this video on her um YouTube of them doing the Q&A and she's divorcing him, but she

still has this baby. Now, a lot of people are hating on her. A lot of people are supporting her. What's my

take and how can you kind of learn from this to to know who to trust on? First

of all, I reviewed some of her videos and here's my conclusion. Number one,

her English isn't great.

To take pen and paper and I want you to write down your dream life as if it already happened.

But number two, she's very good at a particular emotion and speaking about that emotion in a way that relates to other people's emotional feelings. Kind

of like this guy over here.

For [ __ ] sake, they lost you. You

didn't lose them. It's better to be alone than being with a [ __ ] wrong.

All right. All right. What are you shouting for?

And I know this sounds kind of messed up, but she's kind of like a lesser version of the female Wes Watson.

I'll wait till everything's perfect and then I'll start posting. It's cuz my childhood trauma and then shut the [ __ ] up. Shut up.

up. Shut up.

She's able to articulate that emotion that a lot of women are already feeling about their insecurity. Ejected a little bit of like a kick in the ass, right?

Like, hey, be confident, girl. You know,

don't be insecure. She uses phrases like, "You're not confident because you lack X, Y, Z. You need to stop your limiting beliefs because XYZ." Which

brings me to my third observation, which is a lot of these coaches that are going viral, they speak in absolutes. If you

don't do this, then you're this. If the

guy does this, then he's this. We live

in a world where the algo rewards people for speaking absolutes. So, coaches like me who are more nuanced, who go into the details, we don't go as viral. In fact,

I've been thinking about revising some of my YouTube scripts to be more like this so be more people can benefit.

There must be a balance somewhere. But

Liz speaks, you know, in very absolute terms. And to be fair, like when I reviewed her videos, some of her advice is pretty good. But there's nothing she's saying that you can't find if in a psychology book like Wes Watson and some

of the other influencers, she does use her lifestyle as a magnet. Okay, this is called aspirational marketing. I talked

about this in my other, you know, pretty privileged female coaches video, but basically women aspire to be as pretty as her, to be in a nice car like her, to have her life. So, this is aspirational

in the sense that she's showing people what they think they want to be happy.

And the other thing I noticed, this is to her benefit. She does have a dorky side. So, I think the humor and the

side. So, I think the humor and the perceived authenticity, which I I don't think is fake.

Like, I have this lovely oil. It's from

Locatam. Basically, you can what you can do is you spray on your hands and then after you send that message, of course, you take the guy's feet, right? And you

saw massage.

Um, definitely draws people to her that she's got a funny, dorky side in addition to this like bad boss [ __ ] persona. And and to credit to her, she

persona. And and to credit to her, she did admit that she got played. As soon

as she found out, she blocked this guy.

It wasn't like she's like rationalizing continuing to be with him. So, I give her credit for that. I do feel bad that she's bringing a life into this world, another life that should not have gotten involved. So, my problem isn't so much

involved. So, my problem isn't so much with Wizard Liz or these influencer coaches. I don't really care about them.

coaches. I don't really care about them.

I care about the viewers that get scammed that follow surface level advice and they are like, "Oh, if he's not worth x amount of money, I should break up with him." Cuz they heard it from

like Wizard Liz or somebody else and they break up with their boyfriend who could have been a good husband. coaches

who should not be giving the advice they're giving. Being rewarded with

they're giving. Being rewarded with money on these platforms that push out black and white polarizing statements.

That's what I have a problem with. Now,

one thing good about traditional media is that in order to get high in on the traditional media scale, there was at least a degree of verification to publish a book. But now, anybody can go online and post a video. That includes

myself, too. But here's the truth. A lot

of these people, including me, at different points in my life, is just as lost as you are. Being hot, being charismatic, or being confident doesn't automatically mean that they're right.

Wizard Liz is human. She made a mistake.

She'll probably correct it. That's not

the problem. The problem is that we have started mistaking charisma for character and aesthetic for wisdom. Instead, we

should be looking at actions as character and behavior over time as wisdom. Real growth, real knowledge,

wisdom. Real growth, real knowledge, it's not easy. It's not glamorous. It's

not sitting in a nice car in your sunglasses talking about men ain't worth [ __ ] It's about digging deep into yourself and finding out who you really are. Sometimes it's dark, sometimes it's

are. Sometimes it's dark, sometimes it's messy. Some days I'm on public

messy. Some days I'm on public transport. Some days it's raining,

transport. Some days it's raining, you're in a rundown cafe trying to get work done. So before you start chasing

work done. So before you start chasing false idols or following other influencer or even listening to me, ask yourself this. Does this person actually

yourself this. Does this person actually live the life that I really want off camera? And two, do they have the

camera? And two, do they have the character? Do they have the proof of

character? Do they have the proof of work over the last few years of who they really are and the lifestyle that they claim that they have? or is it just a fantasy? If you found this video helpful

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Just listen to some of the stuff I say.

Try it out for yourself and make your own decision. Enjoy.

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